[Demitrios]

well first off I used to have game hardcore i flirted with girls and they flirted back. But lately approx a year it went dowm hill hardcore and it seems like I cant do a damn thing Im popular and all but stuff never works out as planned? wtf

[Roosh]

It's impossible to give constructive advice from your question.

[Demitrios]

(12-10-2008 02:31 AM)Roosh Wrote:  

It's impossible to give constructive advice from your question.

Im sorry, well to re-word my question I would simply put that lately I cant approach girls that Im attracted to and do it in a way that it will eventually get me somewhere, does that make more sense? I also appreciate your help.

[adrianalimaFTW]

Maybe your mind setting has changed or the way you think about girls has changed. Think about what you would have thought a year ago if you saw a hot chick and compare that with what you would think now. Obviously if theres any difference make the change back to the way that you thought and get your current habit out of your mind. Also do this for what you think of yourself.

[Demitrios]

(12-11-2008 06:13 AM)adrianalimaFTW Wrote:  

Maybe your mind setting has changed or the way you think about girls has changed. Think about what you would have thought a year ago if you saw a hot chick and compare that with what you would think now. Obviously if theres any difference make the change back to the way that you thought and get your current habit out of your mind. Also do this for what you think of yourself.

I've become so caught up with the concern of not being able to get with a hot chick anymore I dont even know how to re-enact into that crowd,Im always nervous and really dowm on myself for it I just would like to know how to stop that.

[Hellbound]

I find certain things that have gone on in your life away from women can subsequently effect your game.

I lost someone close to me earlier this year and women just don't matter to me at the moment. Although I'm worried when I do get back to it I'll lose my game. I guess it's a matter of easing yourself into it...also on a positive note it can be an opportunity to lose bad habits and learn some new skills.