[Agastya]

I pulled a cute girl off of daygame a few months ago. The first time we hooked up I didn't receive anything more than a blowjob. 22 years old and a virgin. I've been hooking up with her on and off for a couple months now, and still haven't managed to pop her cherry. She freaks out if I try, says she doesn't want to lose her virginity to someone who doesn't care about her/doesn't see sex as a meaningful thing.

I'm strongly considering cutting her loose at this point, since I've failed to fuck her for a few months now. Just wondering if there's any way I could salvage the situation(take her virginity and fuck the shit out of her).

[puckerman]

You don't like blow jobs?

[Agastya]

(08-13-2014 02:00 AM)puckerman Wrote:  

You don't like blow jobs?

Hooking up with her is fantastic, but obviously having sex would make it a lot better haha.

[germanico]

Just keep hanging out with her, but continue playing and adding up your options.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(08-13-2014 01:39 AM)Agastya Wrote:  

I pulled a cute girl off of daygame a few months ago. The first time we hooked up I didn't receive anything more than a blowjob. 22 years old and a virgin. I've been hooking up with her on and off for a couple months now, and still haven't managed to pop her cherry. She freaks out if I try, says she doesn't want to lose her virginity to someone who doesn't care about her/doesn't see sex as a meaningful thing.

I'm strongly considering cutting her loose at this point, since I've failed to fuck her for a few months now. Just wondering if there's any way I could salvage the situation(take her virginity and fuck the shit out of her).

You could throw in some Beta Game for comfort. Talk of hypothetical relationship, engagement, the ring, marriage, divorce - heh - keep it light and funny. That will keep her hamster spinning.

On another note - doing a blowjob does not count for girls heh? What a scam - sucking off 50+, but having fucked 5 counts still as 5?

[rpg]

One word. Tequila. She is afraid and liquid courage does wonders.

[HawkWrites]

(08-13-2014 12:45 PM)rpg Wrote:  

One word. Tequila. She is afraid and liquid courage does wonders.

No. He's looking at a false rape claim if she gets drunk AND he takes her virginity; "drunk" + "virgin" can be a BAD combination.

Honestly, Agastya, your best bet is to keep going with others and playing the field while throwing in a bit of Beta Game with her. She's scared and wants her first time to be "special"; whatever you do, don't get her drunk to do it.

[Heathree]

I bet she'd change her mind if this dude came along:

http://www.fotolog.com/super___boys/319000000000015966/

Regardless of whether he loved her or not.

[Parlay44]

Just lie. Tell her what she wants to hear. Tell her you want to be bf/gf.

Or you could always ....

[heavy]

^^ haha, fucking hilarious

Just keep getting bjs...I don't see the problem. I suppose if you're looking for a really loyal fwb, I can understand. No one more loyal than a virgin you popped...she'll keep coming back for years. Especially if she's 22 and still a virgin.

[WestIndianArchie]

Tell her that anal doesn't count.

WIA

[Menace]

1. Find new girl who bangs AND bang her.
2. Tell Virginia McVirgin you want an adult relationship, and if she can't provide it, you will have to stop seeing her.
3. Continue banging girl #1; if Virginia McVirgin relents, then bang her.
4. Go to 3.

[20Nation]

Don't take her virginity if you will just bounce (i have done more than once and it's not so cool). But if you really want to bang her just lay down the law. Say you like her a lot but you need a sexual girl because you are a sexual man. Follow it all the way through to the point of not talking to her for a couple months. There is a good chance you will get a call in the future that she wants you. It's important that she knows you care about her, but that you don't think it will work because she is so reserved.

[puckerman]

Keep her around for blow jobs. And find a girl somewhere else who will fuck you if it's that important.

But what is wrong with this? She has to do all the work, and there's no risk of pregnancy and lower risk of STD's.

Also, have you fucked her ass yet?

[polymath]

Why push it? You're getting head and she has acquiesced to having a meaningless physical relationship. Most guys would be satisfied with that.

Also, she would probably feel kind of sad afterward if you DO bang, since she is probably saving the V card for marriage. Not your problem, I guess...but girls are people too.

[BadgerHut]

Dump her. Bang a slut. Tons of young girls are ready to give it up in a heartbeat. Don't get fixated on taking a V-card (which can have negative political and legal consequences).

[Agastya]

Yeah, honestly, the only reason I really want to do it is out of pride. She's a lot of fun to hook up with as it is, and I know that taking her virginity will be a painful and messy process. Thanks for the advice(everyone), I'll keep running game and getting head.