[corners]

How do you answer to eastern european girls 18 - 22 years old who are DTF,
they send me a lot of very naughty texts,
they tell me how she wants to have orgasm,
a lot of hard sexual fantasies,
clearly they want to have sex,

but when it comes to actually meet them,
they all say different variations of "It's not fair to my bf"

I have no idea how to answer to "It's not fair to my bf"

I replied in logical way, and afterwards there was no reply from them.

Maybe others have had similar situations, how do you get the bang ?

Thank you guys

[rdvirus]

"Featherweights don't count."

[corners]

in this eastern european country (Slovakia), they are in love with their boyfriends, their boyfriends are very beta, and the sex with them is really bad,
so the young girls are very horny and they need sex,
but I do not know exactly what to respond (irony and arrogance or sarcasm never works well in slavic countries, they get offended by it)

[Atlantic]

Say nothing. Avoid it even coming up. Cut back on over sexualized texts and focus on the meet up.

You are causing buyers remorse before you even meet by asking them to state that they will cheat.

Meet up and escalate from there, act aloof and differcult over text till you have. Youre giving the game away too early and dissipating any sexual tension that existed.

[Princeton]

Just brush it aside, or even agree with her and keep escalating physically. Whatever happens, it has to be your decision, not hers. That was she can absolve her guilt.

[SydneyD]

Sounds troll-ish and should probably be in the newbie forum but alas....

I'm not a fan of sexting, sex should occur in reality not in virtual reality. Keep your texts functional: Logistics Logistics Logistics

[Rutting Elephant]

Need examples for "replied in logical way."

[Barron]

If you are compelled to respond then you must keep it short and ambiguous, try: "i know"

this also achieves an A&A effect

[WestIndianArchie]

Text/IM/Phone - change the subject
In Person - kiss her

WIA

[BDawg]

"I don't plan to tell him"

She is likely asking for discretion.

Society is the book of woman.

[Old Fritz]

Sounds like she's shit testing you... I would just stop talking to her.

[Noir]

To OP:

She already wants you but you just gotta 'cover her' and make it seem like it 'just happened' because you are 'that kind of guy'.

This is where your puppet master skills will come into play and you will follow up on the aforementioned advice. Really, all you gotta do is indirect talk and direct body language. Your body is telling her yes and your words are leading towards the right direct without inflecting slutty emotions within her. (Credit to Samseau or Tuth, don't remember)

(08-08-2014 11:12 AM)Atlantic Wrote:  

Say nothing. Avoid it even coming up. Cut back on over sexualized texts and focus on the meet up.

You are causing buyers remorse before you even meet by asking them to state that they will cheat.

Meet up and escalate from there, act aloof and differcult over text till you have. Youre giving the game away too early and dissipating any sexual tension that existed.

You motherfucking boss.

I got myself into a similar situation, by not saying no enough and I am in a love triangle with two girls who are into me and have boyfriends.

They both know I have hooked up with the other and they are jealous but one decided to 'team up with me' (the older one, she knows the game) and the other one decided to run recon vs. the other one and is trying to get me back..

I have been aloof and dismissive, more than usual, at it has been working too much. It is exactly as you described; I was unintentionally fueling their desire through my actions.

My current MO (which is still attracting them, unfortunately) is me telling them about the other girls I am seeing to deter them but inevitably boosts my image as wanted.

Thank you for phrasing this in your post, you summed it up beautifully.

My question for you is, what is the remedy, to dissipate existing sexual tension. Being a beta is not an option as it is incongruent. I tried being lame and shit and their emotions/lens towards me compensates for this and it doesn't work.

[corners]

Thank you a lot for all your advices.

I didn't meet any of these 6 girls yet in real life,
but I am looking for a solution what kind of texts
to send them, so I can finally meet them:

they are all similar:

- same 2nd tier slovakian city
- same age 18-22 years old,
- all of them matched me on Badoo
- all of them have bf
- all of them were very horny in their messages
over time
- all of them told me how they like having sex in many positions
- all of them wanted to meet me to practice conversational english
- all of them flaked just hours before the meeting
saying variations of "I don't know if it's fair to my bf"

So the solution must be something to make them meet me in the first place,
then I can apply all your advices.
But I didn't have first meeting with them yet,
everything was only through badoo and texting.

[Donkey_Riding]

(08-09-2014 06:26 AM)corners Wrote:  

- all of them flaked just hours before the meeting
saying variations of "I don't know if it's fair to my bf"

They flaked because you gave away too much over text. Your focus in texting should be arranging the meeting ASAP. Don't get overtly sexual or you'll activate her anti-slut defense.

Sexting does not mean she is DTF. You have to keep in mind that there is a big difference for a chick between sexting you and actually having sex. Sexting is safe for her and lets her use you without putting herself or her relationship at risk. Don't give her this option.

What's the solution? Ask her to meet after 2-3 messages at the latest. If she doesn't agree, move on.

[germanico]

(08-08-2014 10:55 AM)corners Wrote:  

I replied in logical way, and afterwards there was no reply from them.

Thats your problem right there.

"Im not your boyfriend"

"Whe are just having coffee"

"Dont worry, nothings going to happen tonight"

And my personal favourite: "I understand"

Just drop one of those lines and keep plowing forward. Disregard her answers. And STOP being logical, because she is not.

[Enigma]

(08-09-2014 06:26 AM)corners Wrote:  

So the solution must be something to make them meet me in the first place,
then I can apply all your advices.
But I didn't have first meeting with them yet,
everything was only through badoo and texting.

You're talking too much.

"Do you want to meet me?" is like my 5th message online.

Yes - Get her contact information and set up the meet.

Maybe/not yet - Get her contact information/exchange a few more "get to know you" messages, set up the meet

No - It's over.

[puckerman]

Here's a response:

"You are so right. It's not fair to your boy friend. After we have sex, I'll blow him."

When a girl is expecting you to disagree, agree with her. Then, say something that she's not expecting at all. It's definitely a shit test, and you have to show you are playful and fun.