[gringoed]

I have a somewhat low tolerance for bullshit from girls. I always give them a second chance but if it keeps happening I move on. By bullshit, I mean inflated egos, endless games and shit tests, being mean, flaky, etc.

Most often I'll just end the interaction with a "Nice to meet you" or "Have a good night", but sometimes (not often) girls deserve worse. Sometimes girls need to hear something that puts them in their place.

What do you guys say in these situations?

[Tommy]

I had that happen to me alot of times. I say very rude things once in a while. If a chick acts superior to me and isn't in any way more succesful than me I will say how it is and most of the time that's when things are finished for me

[FretDancer]

I hear you man, I can't say I don't feel the urge to tell them something that should put them in their place. The problem is that most of the time, that is what they're expecting from you, and when you do that, you let them win. It's like they're poking you with a stick until you can't take it no more and you decide to lower your level, you lose.

It's probably best to just move on, calling them out on their bullshit will rarely change their minds.

[Screwston]

Good question. I'm sure some guys around here have some ideas that will crush the girls mind and ego

[MiXX]

Calling her a psycho and immediately walking away works like magic. Try it next time.

Mixx

[theIVth]

(03-05-2011 07:26 PM)houston Wrote:  

Good question. I'm sure some guys around here have some ideas that will crush the girls mind and ego

Crush a girls ego by telling them their ugly. Thats the single easiest way to crush it. And if they try to get fly on some "well I couldnt have been too ugly....you wanted me" shit......tell em "All i wanted to do was fuck...I wasnt halfway thinking about gal'ing your ugly ass"

Leave it at that

Theyll think about that for years lol

[Tuthmosis]

What I say in these situations depends on my relationship with the girl. If it's a girl that I just met, I'm less likely to show anger because it mainly looks like the she succeeded at getting under my skin, which was likely the goal of her shit-test in the first place.

But if I know the girl already, it's on like Donkey Kong. There are a lot of girls that go, literally, years without a good, soul-crushing verbal beat-down from a real man. So it takes a good one to bring them back to Planet Earth.

Needless to say, delivery is everything--and best done face-to-face. I don't like giving chicks the power of being able to hang up the phone on me (though that may be inevitable due to natural logistics).

It usually goes something like this:

1. You know what, Katie (or whatever)...
a. you're full of shit.
b. you're a dumb-ass bitch.
c. you're lucky you're not a man right now. [this is pretty menacing, use at your own risk.]

Out of the blue, this shit is a massive, slammer of a statement by itself. It's great to see their faces change and their auras start to shrink.

2. I don't know how this happened, but...
a. you somehow think you can get away with acting like a girl that's actually hot.
a. you're actually stupider than I even thought.
b. you're as ugly on the inside as you are on the outside.

I close it quickly. These things are better left short and sweet.

3. Get the fuck out of my face...
a. until you learn to act like an adult.
b. until you lose 10 pounds from that pouch of yours [point at something].
c. until you stop being an arrogant, psycho bitch.

These may seem like petty insults or, to others, not severe or "funny" and "clever" enough digs. But, these are completely appropriate, realistic things that I had said--in one shape or form--to a chick at some point or another.

Said from a calm, assertive masculine state, this shit is devastating and, more importantly, frightening to girl whose head is in the clouds.

[Screwston]

Lol good thread. What do girls say when y'all tell them these things? I bet they're in shock because no guys laid out the truth before.

[maestrobaires]

telling 'em to frig off is what they expect. they want a guy either to flatter them or give them a shit time. either way they get much needed drama, attention and ego boost

[Dueyz]

(03-05-2011 12:00 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

I hear you man, I can't say I don't feel the urge to tell them something that should put them in their place. The problem is that most of the time, that is what they're expecting from you, and when you do that, you let them win. It's like they're poking you with a stick until you can't take it no more and you decide to lower your level, you lose.

It's probably best to just move on, calling them out on their bullshit will rarely change their minds.

I agree. They know they're full of crap, and they're waiting for you to say it. You're not gonna win here, unless you have some type of psychological warfare in mind. If so, open fire because I'm sure she deserves it. Otherwise...I deprive them of the response they're expecting, which pisses them off even more.

*Side note; ocassionally this treatment will result in her liking you even more. We all like to get our dick wet, so forge ahead if you choose. But remember that you're supporting her behavior. It will serve your needs individually, but you're not helping the cause as a whole.

[Screwston]

I tried one of Tuthmosis lines today on a girl that was giving me a nasty attitude for no reason. I had to hit her with that "get the fuck out of my face until u lose 10 pounds from your pouch". She looked like I stabbed her haha. Speechles

[Tuthmosis]

(03-13-2011 02:28 AM)houston Wrote:  

I tried one of Tuthmosis lines today on a girl that was giving me a nasty attitude for no reason. I had to hit her with that "get the fuck out of my face until u lose 10 pounds from your pouch". She looked like I stabbed her haha. Speechles

LOL! I'm glad that came in handy.

I would have loved to have seen that change in her face. Straight-up gold.

[Dueyz]

(03-05-2011 06:49 AM)gringoed Wrote:  

I have a somewhat low tolerance for bullshit from girls. I always give them a second chance but if it keeps happening I move on. By bullshit, I mean inflated egos, endless games and shit tests, being mean, flaky, etc.

Most often I'll just end the interaction with a "Nice to meet you" or "Have a good night", but sometimes (not often) girls deserve worse. Sometimes girls need to hear something that puts them in their place.

What do you guys say in these situations?

I usually have good luck with, "It was nice meeting you". That says enough. However I did have a scenario where I was out with my friends where I had to go Ike Turner, though....It's early Sunday morning (5:00 am after being out since Saturday night), so logic dictates that anyone still at the bar has been drinking considerably or we wouldn't be here. I'm with 2 friends of mine winding down and getting ready to call it, when I see 3 broads sit down accross the bar. I invite them over for a group shot with me and mine, and start chatting them up. I go for the best looking of the 3 (I opened the meeting), and all seems well for about 10 minutes. I'm still talking with my target when she interrupts me mid-sentence and says, "You know what? You're drunk." Not in a playful way; not in a fun way; not in a challenging 'get me back for being direct' way. In a bitch way. Everyone that heard her interrupt knew the difference, and so did I. I immediately, and without hesitation, responded, " It was nice meeting you." I turned my back to her and continued a conversation with my buddies as if she was nothing more than a table in the room. She paused for about 20 seconds, trying to figure out what to do since I had begun and was controlling the conversation between her group and mine. She tried to playfully re-inject herself back into our conversation, and when she did I interrupted the first sentence out of her mouth by quickly and sharply saying, " I don't think you understand....we're done here!" She looked like an ASS in front of her friends and mine for killing the party mood, and scurried back over to some other part of the bar with a humiliated look on her face.

I understand me and my wingmen didn't get laid, and that we all probably could have. But she acted like a bitch without cause, and it felt great to verbally and emotionally pimp smack her in front of people. Not as raw as some of the true gammers comments to women, I know, but did the same job.

I've also used one-liners like, "Wow! ...good thing you're cute". I follow this one with immediate and total dismissal. Another one I've used a couple times was, "Wow! If you're looks were as ugly as your personality, you'd still be in line outside!". I also follow this with immediate dismissal. (I like to begin with 'Wow" because it gets the surrounding audience's attention just before the burn. Also, if you have some great facial expressions to use while you say it, it cuts even deeper)

[Screwston]

Good job Dueyz. Not to many guys out there will put a bitch in her place.

[Dueyz]

(03-14-2011 05:10 PM)houston Wrote:  

Good job Dueyz. Not to many guys out there will put a bitch in her place.

The next day, my buddies were a little pissed that I killed our chances for poon. But they all bragged about how I checked this woman for acting foolish. I've been an Alpha my whole life, but spent too many years thinking like a Beta. Once I realized the deal, I never looked back. I take NO personal enjoyment in being a dick, but the fact is that Westernized women can be bitches. When you have no choice, reach down and grab a pair and do what you must to remind a woman that she's behaving like a dumb bitch.

[Screwston]

I completely agree Dueyz. The problem is beta guys out number alpha guys who let their nuts hang with females. They're used to being pampered and being able to talk shit to guys.

[Dueyz]

(03-15-2011 04:26 PM)houston Wrote:  

I completely agree Dueyz. The problem is beta guys out number alpha guys who let their nuts hang with females. They're used to being pampered and being able to talk shit to guys.

No argument here. Our society is not the best example of how to succeed inspite of this. I guess.....do your part to empower the Betas, and do your part to help train the females. Don't beat yourself up too much over the unfortunate social environment we find ourselves in. If you take the time to absorb some of Roosh's writings (I'm not kissing his ass and I don't always agree with his point of view) he really does a good job explaining these topics. Don't ever let a woman talk shit to you, and in turn, don't be the asshole that talks shit. Nobody respects either. Just be empowered and be in control, and we can only hope for the best. Good luck.

[Screwston]

I definetly feel u Dueyz. You have to know where to draw the line. Don't be a complete asshole but don't let a girl EVER try to put u in line. I think the best examples of this are old school married couples who are happy.

[afronoob]

(03-16-2011 06:39 PM)houston Wrote:  

I definetly feel u Dueyz. You have to know where to draw the line. Don't be a complete asshole but don't let a girl EVER try to put u in line. I think the best examples of this are old school married couples who are happy.

Quote:

I usually have good luck with, "It was nice meeting you". That says enough. However I did have a scenario where I was out with my friends where I had to go Ike Turner, though....It's early Sunday morning (5:00 am after being out since Saturday night), so logic dictates that anyone still at the bar has been drinking considerably or we wouldn't be here. I'm with 2 friends of mine winding down and getting ready to call it, when I see 3 broads sit down accross the bar. I invite them over for a group shot with me and mine, and start chatting them up. I go for the best looking of the 3 (I opened the meeting), and all seems well for about 10 minutes. I'm still talking with my target when she interrupts me mid-sentence and says, "You know what? You're drunk." Not in a playful way; not in a fun way; not in a challenging 'get me back for being direct' way. In a bitch way. Everyone that heard her interrupt knew the difference, and so did I. I immediately, and without hesitation, responded, " It was nice meeting you." I turned my back to her and continued a conversation with my buddies as if she was nothing more than a table in the room. She paused for about 20 seconds, trying to figure out what to do since I had begun and was controlling the conversation between her group and mine. She tried to playfully re-inject herself back into our conversation, and when she did I interrupted the first sentence out of her mouth by quickly and sharply saying, " I don't think you understand....we're done here!" She looked like an ASS in front of her friends and mine for killing the party mood, and scurried back over to some other part of the bar with a humiliated look on her face.

I understand me and my wingmen didn't get laid, and that we all probably could have. But she acted like a bitch without cause, and it felt great to verbally and emotionally pimp smack her in front of people. Not as raw as some of the true gammers comments to women, I know, but did the same job.

I've also used one-liners like, "Wow! ...good thing you're cute". I follow this one with immediate and total dismissal. Another one I've used a couple times was, "Wow! If you're looks were as ugly as your personality, you'd still be in line outside!". I also follow this with immediate dismissal. (I like to begin with 'Wow" because it gets the surrounding audience's attention just before the burn. Also, if you have some great facial expressions to use while you say it, it cuts even deeper)

CLASSIC! You showed the zombie hoe several extremely important facts men must never forget
-you will never compromise your dignity for the mere possibility of pussy
-women must never forget their real function in life and when they do MUST be immediately reminded
-you kept it short without long explanations that would confuse the simple female brain
All newcomers should print this out!

[afronoob]

(03-20-2011 03:34 AM)afronoob Wrote:  

(03-16-2011 06:39 PM)houston Wrote:  

I definetly feel u Dueyz. You have to know where to draw the line. Don't be a complete asshole but don't let a girl EVER try to put u in line. I think the best examples of this are old school married couples who are happy.

Quote:

I usually have good luck with, "It was nice meeting you". That says enough. However I did have a scenario where I was out with my friends where I had to go Ike Turner, though....It's early Sunday morning (5:00 am after being out since Saturday night), so logic dictates that anyone still at the bar has been drinking considerably or we wouldn't be here. I'm with 2 friends of mine winding down and getting ready to call it, when I see 3 broads sit down accross the bar. I invite them over for a group shot with me and mine, and start chatting them up. I go for the best looking of the 3 (I opened the meeting), and all seems well for about 10 minutes. I'm still talking with my target when she interrupts me mid-sentence and says, "You know what? You're drunk." Not in a playful way; not in a fun way; not in a challenging 'get me back for being direct' way. In a bitch way. Everyone that heard her interrupt knew the difference, and so did I. I immediately, and without hesitation, responded, " It was nice meeting you." I turned my back to her and continued a conversation with my buddies as if she was nothing more than a table in the room. She paused for about 20 seconds, trying to figure out what to do since I had begun and was controlling the conversation between her group and mine. She tried to playfully re-inject herself back into our conversation, and when she did I interrupted the first sentence out of her mouth by quickly and sharply saying, " I don't think you understand....we're done here!" She looked like an ASS in front of her friends and mine for killing the party mood, and scurried back over to some other part of the bar with a humiliated look on her face.

I understand me and my wingmen didn't get laid, and that we all probably could have. But she acted like a bitch without cause, and it felt great to verbally and emotionally pimp smack her in front of people. Not as raw as some of the true gammers comments to women, I know, but did the same job.

I've also used one-liners like, "Wow! ...good thing you're cute". I follow this one with immediate and total dismissal. Another one I've used a couple times was, "Wow! If you're looks were as ugly as your personality, you'd still be in line outside!". I also follow this with immediate dismissal. (I like to begin with 'Wow" because it gets the surrounding audience's attention just before the burn. Also, if you have some great facial expressions to use while you say it, it cuts even deeper)

CLASSIC! You showed the zombie hoe several extremely important facts men must never forget
-you will never compromise your dignity for the mere possibility of pussy
-women must never forget their real function in life and when they do MUST be immediately reminded
-you kept it short without long explanations that would confuse the simple female brain
All newcomers should print this out!

I've just remembered how I dealt with one empty headed narcissist some time back. Similarly, I didn't attempt to argue or explain.
One hand in the air shutting off her non stop flow of self adulatory mindless bullshit I said:"I think I get it. You're extremely busy doing extremely important things with very important people-don't let me keep you."
For a second there was disbelief,anger ,astonishment and yes even sadness. She gathered up her dignity and left the pub.

[Lumiere]

If a chick accuses you of being drunk you can always use the Winston Churchill line - 'And madam, you are ugly. In the morning, I shall be sober.'

[Dueyz]

(03-20-2011 05:59 AM)Lumiere Wrote:  

If a chick accuses you of being drunk you can always use the Winston Churchill line - 'And madam, you are ugly. In the morning, I shall be sober.'

Good form, sir! Ha ha.

[Seven11]

Tell her she will never be able to piss in public. That right there should show her who ranks higher in society. Or don't say a damn thing, nothing fcks with a girls head more than silence.