[Boyky]

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I guess there are a million strategies that lead to getting laid. I thought it would be great to hear from others about what has worked well for you.

As an older guy hitting on younger chicks, I devise ways of spending time with them in a non-threatening manner, friends, buddies, and then slowly move toward something sexual. I can always feel the sexual tension. Then make my move. It usually includes being with just a few friends and some alcohol. It often leads to bed and a hot night of fucking.

[L M McCoy]

I'm not sure I understand; are you advocating to go in the friends zone first and then try to bang?

[Boyky]

(07-26-2014 08:42 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  

I'm not sure I understand; are you advocating to go in the friends zone first and then try to bang?

Yes I am, otherwise , I think older guys can be perceived as dirty old men. The friend buddy thing is not threatening. This does not have to take a long time. It puts you in a position to spend some time with them. This sets you up for the kill.

[Dusty]

[Truth Teller]

(07-26-2014 08:42 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  

I'm not sure I understand; are you advocating to go in the friends zone first and then try to bang?

I think I understand his point of view. He's putting her in his friend zone, but he's keeping the sexual tension there. She's never completely sure of him. This seems like basic social circle game.

[LaCobra]

(07-26-2014 09:00 PM)Boyky Wrote:  

This sets you up for the kill.

Don´t forget the windowless van, rope, shovel, gloves, apron, etc

[polymath]

..."the kill"?

Friendzone can work. It's like the relationship back office. Less compensation for the same hours, but sometimes you can transition to a decision making role.

This is effective with conservative girls.

I think the best way to do the friendzone thing is to actually focus on other girls while spending lots of time hanging out with the friend girl. In my experience, she eventually feels left out of the attention that you're giving to others, and consequently tightens up the friendship until it starts to blur the line between platonic and romantic/sexual.

The key is making it clear with actions, not words, that you have seemingly better options available.

[Redwood]

(07-27-2014 04:06 AM)polymath Wrote:  

..."the kill"?

Friendzone can work. It's like the relationship back office. Less compensation for the same hours, but sometimes you can transition to a decision making role.

This is effective with conservative girls.

I think the best way to do the friendzone thing is to actually focus on other girls while spending lots of time hanging out with the friend girl. In my experience, she eventually feels left out of the attention that you're giving to others, and consequently tightens up the friendship until it starts to blur the line between platonic and romantic/sexual.

The key is making it clear with actions, not words, that you have seemingly better options available.

Solid advice. However, the last sentence should be on your mind, all the time.

[bigbait]

(07-27-2014 08:40 AM)Redwood Wrote:  

(07-27-2014 04:06 AM)polymath Wrote:  

..."the kill"?

Friendzone can work. It's like the relationship back office. Less compensation for the same hours, but sometimes you can transition to a decision making role.

This is effective with conservative girls.

I think the best way to do the friendzone thing is to actually focus on other girls while spending lots of time hanging out with the friend girl. In my experience, she eventually feels left out of the attention that you're giving to others, and consequently tightens up the friendship until it starts to blur the line between platonic and romantic/sexual.

The key is making it clear with actions, not words, that you have seemingly better options available.

Solid advice. However, the last sentence should be on your mind, all the time.

The girl better have a billion dollar trust fund to make this worthwhile. Or maybe the problem is just living in a area with there are not easier girls.

[mbare]

And already banned.

Classic social circle game is what he was describing. What a beating-the-dead-horse thread.

As far as my best game technique: Just show up.