One of my new years resolutions is to constantly put myself in situations where I was happy and comfortable. In the long run, that just makes me a happier and more fun person to be around.
I live in Germany, and one of my honeys is a cute German college girl. She's mad cool, and I really like hanging out with her. We laugh, we make fun of people, we have great sex, we go on vacations together. Thing are great. But to be honest, her friends aren't that hip on the fact that she dates me. And I don't know how to handle this fellas. I could get into mad detail about the Germany psyche and why German girls like hip hop music and club booty bouncin but cringe whenever they're around actual black people, or why after 8 years of formal English study in school still most can barely say "thank you," but I think the bigger problem for me is getting along with her friends. I just don't have the energy for it anymore lol. Because German education is pretty much the same country wide, I run into the same lame fucking questions at parties with her friends, if at all, and I'm afraid my boredom is starting to show. And because I talk to everyone in English, her friends now are at the point where they just don't talk to me when we all go out cause they just don't fucking understand English. They can ask basic questions but anything deeper than a drunken convo is impossible. Here's a lesson for all you kats in the states who wanna visit Germany. THEY DON'T SPEAK A WORD OF ENGLISH here, or they do and just don't want to. And I understand that. Its their country and they shouldn't have to change just for one dude, not even for the night. So now her peeps avoid me and if my girl leaves the room they follow her. I mean its cool with me, but pretty soon, due to my resolution this year, I'm going to have to suggest she goes out with her friends without me. But this might disrupt the harmony we have in our relationship, or worst. Shes a young girl and her friends are everything to her. How do i diffuse this little situation before it becomes a problem?
Just FYI, I don't normally hang out with Germans. I don't speak well enough German to do so, so usually I'm in the UK or somewhere where most people speak English. So this just isn't my scene to begin with. But I try for my girl.
I live in Germany, and one of my honeys is a cute German college girl. She's mad cool, and I really like hanging out with her. We laugh, we make fun of people, we have great sex, we go on vacations together. Thing are great. But to be honest, her friends aren't that hip on the fact that she dates me. And I don't know how to handle this fellas. I could get into mad detail about the Germany psyche and why German girls like hip hop music and club booty bouncin but cringe whenever they're around actual black people, or why after 8 years of formal English study in school still most can barely say "thank you," but I think the bigger problem for me is getting along with her friends. I just don't have the energy for it anymore lol. Because German education is pretty much the same country wide, I run into the same lame fucking questions at parties with her friends, if at all, and I'm afraid my boredom is starting to show. And because I talk to everyone in English, her friends now are at the point where they just don't talk to me when we all go out cause they just don't fucking understand English. They can ask basic questions but anything deeper than a drunken convo is impossible. Here's a lesson for all you kats in the states who wanna visit Germany. THEY DON'T SPEAK A WORD OF ENGLISH here, or they do and just don't want to. And I understand that. Its their country and they shouldn't have to change just for one dude, not even for the night. So now her peeps avoid me and if my girl leaves the room they follow her. I mean its cool with me, but pretty soon, due to my resolution this year, I'm going to have to suggest she goes out with her friends without me. But this might disrupt the harmony we have in our relationship, or worst. Shes a young girl and her friends are everything to her. How do i diffuse this little situation before it becomes a problem?
Just FYI, I don't normally hang out with Germans. I don't speak well enough German to do so, so usually I'm in the UK or somewhere where most people speak English. So this just isn't my scene to begin with. But I try for my girl.