[legacy]

Hey guys! I'm Legacy, and I've just began my journey to becoming a pickup artist. I know I have to go a long way, so any advice/criticism/whatever you guys have to give me is greatly appreciated. I have quite good natural game, but I can only use it when "pumped up/psyched" if that makes sense. I want master day game, because I'm still a year away from being able to go to bars/clubs.

Approach #1. Coach Station
Girl of Indian Ethnicity. A 7. I sat down next to her and said "Hey, you look bored"
Her: Erm, not really (she was quite polite)
Legacy: Haha Well, you're pretty attractive anyway (said in the most unconfidant manner possible), so I thought I'd come and talk to you.
Her: Oh...
Legacy: So why are you in Bristol?
Her: Oh, Im studying Law, blah blah blah.
***As I am a soon to be law student, we chatted about that for about 3 minutes***
Legacy: Where are you from?
Her: Oh, australia.
Legacy:You're of Indian origin though, right?
Her: Oh yeah, I'm half indian.
***Note: I've lived in India for 5 years as a child, so I'm pretty much fluent at the spoke dialect. I saw this as a better opening to the conversation. Boy, I was wrong***
Legacy: Ah, so do you speak Hindi?
Her:Nope. None at all.
Legacy: Ah, that sucks.(I then proceed to pussy-out) Anyway, I've got to go, whats your name, I'll facebook you later. (I know I did this way to early. When do you guys think you should go for the facebook close. By the way, I would of gone for a number close, but didn't have a phone at the time)
Her: Erm, I'm not so sure about that...
Legacy: Why?
Her: I don't really know you that well...
Legacy: Hey, look. Whats the worst that could happen? I'll send you a request, and you can be like "Hey, fuck that guy." And not respond. OR... You could be like "hmm...Aw what the heck", and we could see what happens.
Her: But I have a boyfriend...
Legacy: But you have friends, right?
***She proceeds to give me her name and facebook address, and I leave***

[JoyStick]

Fuck Facebook closes dude. Go for the insta-date or go for the number.

[legacy]

(07-11-2014 09:07 AM)JoyStick Wrote:  

Fuck Facebook closes dude. Go for the insta-date or go for the number.

Was planning to go for that, but had no phone (just back from abroad). And was waiting for the coach to London so no insta-date. But, I have a phone now, so I'll keep that in mind with my next approaches. Thanks!

[Travesty]

You may get lukewarm responses in the beginning as you said yourself you spoke in a less than confident way at times.

Just push through a few dozen approaches that should ease up.

When you feel more at ease the conversations won't feel as rushed and you won't feel the need to bail.

Just knock the first 50 out without spending too much time reflecting. You need to ease the nerves.

[legacy]

(07-11-2014 04:34 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

You may get lukewarm responses in the beginning as you said yourself you spoke in a less than confident way at times.

Just push through a few dozen approaches that should ease up.

When you feel more at ease the conversations won't feel as rushed and you won't feel the need to bail.

Just knock the first 50 out without spending too much time reflecting. You need to ease the nerves.

Thanks Travesty! I didn't think I'd get a response from you, I've read your entire approach diary. I'll be doing much more approaches next week. For now I'm stuck at my parents house.

[Travesty]

Okay #1, it is great you are focusing on game.

Finding a way or the money to move from your parents house into your own bedroom will do you a world of good.

I'd say a good 70%+ of game is logistics and a numbers game.

Not having logistics to your own place or with roommates near where girls hang out is like trying to swim with a weighted backpack on.

You can live with your parents to save cash, know that things will get incredibly easier when you move to the right place in the right city.

I banged chicks living at home it isn't too difficult, still just another hurdle.

[legacy]

(07-11-2014 05:18 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Okay #1, it is great you are focusing on game.

Finding a way or the money to move from your parents house into your own bedroom will do you a world of good.

I'd say a good 70%+ of game is logistics and a numbers game.

Not having logistics to your own place or with roommates near where girls hang out is like trying to swim with a weighted backpack on.

You can live with your parents to save cash, know that things will get incredibly easier when you move to the right place in the right city.

Yeah, I'm going to college in september, so that should be fun. Right now I'm legally obligated to stay with my parents. Life sucks when you're 17.

[Travesty]

No it doesn't. It is great at 17. You won't realize this for awhile, maybe a decade. Hit on and bang or befriend (if they are a queen bee) all the 15-17 yo chicks this summer.

Make some connections so you can hit them up when you come back from college on break.

[Travesty]

Last bits of advice if you are in the U.S. get in shape this summer, rush a good fraternity for the connections and parties.

Plan to study abroad for a semester or even a year if you can swing it.

These are 2 things I did not do in college in which I regret both because I partied and slacked off too much and did not have my shit together.

Take a foreign language class and stuff like dance, theater, art, fitness, health etc as electives outside your major. Again I was dumb and did literature and history because I liked them. Guess what? I could have read that stuff in my free time after college. In college use the opportunity to learn something very useful like a language and take electives with hot girls.

[legacy]

(07-11-2014 07:28 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Last bits of advice if you are in the U.S. get in shape this summer, rush a good fraternity for the connections and parties.

Plan to study abroad for a semester or even a year if you can swing it.

These are 2 things I did not do in college in which I regret both because I partied and slacked off too much and did not have my shit together.

I'm in the uk. Pretty good shape, as I swim and run alot. But perhaps this belongs in PM?

[legacy]

Approach #2:
Caucasian Blonde. 6.
Standing at train station when I saw a 4 set of girls. Was a bit intoxicated, so was feeling really confident. So I sauntered over to them.
Legacy: Hey guys want to see a magic trick?
Girls: **giggle for a good 30 seconds before saying ok**
Legacy: Alright, Shut your eyes.
(One of them just straight out refused to do so, but I thought fuck it and continued anyway, and grab Blondie by the hands and take her a couple of meters away)
Blondie: Hehehe smooooth!
(This completely broke my frame)
Legacy: (becomes unconfidant and mumbles about a few things, but shes obviously interested, so I number close)

[SydneyD]

Very smooth indeed ^