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07-02-2014, 12:58 AM
Just some background. I'm in my 30s and my single mom is in her early 60s, but she's one of those rare women who looks 20 years younger than her real age. She met a doctor over 25 years ago when she was in her late 30s and he was in his early 30s. The doctor wooed her, then had an affair with her without revealing he was married. She was upset, but they remained friends over the years, especially as she values his opinions, however, she made it abundantly clear that since he's married with children, she doesn't want a sexual relationship with him. This has not deterred him and he continues to call, email, and tries to visit her. She may relent sometimes by his emotional gaming, but recently has emphasized she only wants to be "phone friends" and not meet-up friends.
As everyone is an adult, this should not concern me. However, I feel a little irked that my mom is being taken advantage of by a married guy. I feel somewhat defensive towards my mom. I only want the best for her, that's all.
What do you guys think? What would you do, if anything?
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I'm not a cockblocker, but what if a married dude is hitting on your mom?
07-02-2014, 03:48 AM
"I'm not a cockblocker, but what if a married dude is hitting on your mom?"
Now let's change the title of this thread:
"I'm not a cockblocker, but what if a married chick is hitting on my son?"
Or, if you're married:
"I'm not a cockblocker, but my married son is hitting on this poor chick."
What would your opinion be if she started a thread like this?
Your mother likes feeding the hamster as much as any woman - and she did and probably still does like taking dick. Deal with it.
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07-02-2014, 04:10 AM
I'd white knight my mum or sister. Would you guys do the same for your daughters? I would.
It's my family. Their happiness comes first to me and if some dude is playing any one of them, I'm stepping in. Not even arsed.
I'd talk to my mum about it, then tell the dude to back off and threaten to tell his wife if he comes back.
BUT only if it's making your mum miserable. If she's happy, then whatever.
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07-02-2014, 05:31 AM
Quote: (07-02-2014 12:58 AM)arribaperro Wrote:
The doctor wooed her, then had an affair with her without revealing he was married... she made it abundantly clear that since he's married with children, she doesn't want a sexual relationship with him.
Super hamster alert!
That said, women think with their pussies too much to know what's good for them. You can't be responsible for all of society, but you can be responsible for your immediate family. I'd collect the necessary incriminating evidence, tell the Dr. to back off or you
will tell his wife.
You are the man-in-charge now - be the patriarch and tell that fucker to take a hike. He can get his pussy elsewhere.
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07-02-2014, 11:37 AM
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07-02-2014, 12:26 PM
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07-02-2014, 02:53 PM
I've seen no mention of whether OP's mom is married or not.
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07-03-2014, 04:25 PM
It's your mom. Do what makes you feel comfortable.
Plenty of people you don't know on RVF will decry people they call "white knights" at every chance they get. Everyone has their own reasons for this, some being legitimate and some probably not. However, keep in mind that you are entitled to pursue a feeling of tranquility and satisfaction with your family life, and you shouldn't feel guilty about "white knighting" your own mom. Part of a man's role in a family is to take care of his own.
At the same time, I get the impression that your mom likes the attention. She has lived life for over 60 years, and she probably knows exactly what she's doing. Plus, she herself is single, so it's not like she's breaking any promises by talking to this dude on the phone.
I personally would leave it be, but not out of fear of being a "white knight."
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07-12-2014, 09:48 AM
It is none of your business, yet at the same time, I'd use shame as a tactic.
"Talking to a married man trying to bang you again mom? Classy."
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07-12-2014, 01:24 PM
This has been going on for 25 years. There is no way doc is taking advantage of anything. Mom likes the attention. Frankly, mom probably has a super pussy for doc to keep trying for a quarter of a century to break off another piece.
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07-12-2014, 03:23 PM
I've seen my mom do this, so I don't particularly care. She knows exactly what's going on. Women have way more game than all but some of the best players out there. They're born--no bred for this sort of thing. I totally get why you're bent out of shape, but you just have to keep yourself out of it. If I snooped around on all my mother's "activities" then I would have lost my mind a long time ago.
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