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I've noticed that after many many approaches, conversations and interactions with girls, that whenever I see that there was success, the girl started saying yes from the beginning of the interaction.
By saying yes to little questions, the interaction allowed me to gauge into a better chance of rapport. However, even if there was attraction, opening a girl with a question in which the most likely answer was "no", her availability started to decline, unless you did something about it like ask her another question, but already in a lower percent of success.
For Example:
I'm walking by the mall and I see a smokeshow of a girl, great body and a cute face, she's chilling, kinda bored, just standing waiting for her friend, with a book on her hand. Let's say you're kinda familiar with the book (or pretend to be) and see the name of the book.
From my experience, applying this principle, you can ask two kinds of questions, the yes question or the no question.
Yes Question would go:
Me: "Hey"
Her: " Hi" (Most girl I know prefer saying "hi", I don't know why)
Me: "Is that the book (insert name of the book)?"
Her: " Yeah!" (the tone usually gives her away, whether she's attracted, maybe or not)
Me: "You know that book is actually on my reading list. How's it going so far?"
Her: " It's awesome/boring (insert whatever her answer is) it's about..."
Now after this you at least open yourself up for gaming or taking it from there.
You use questions that are open-ended and their answer is yes, and that yes gives you momentum.
This works best with yes or maybe girls, and make the uninterested not as hard to blow you off during day game.
It usually works because at least she'll tell you a little about herself and you can make a judgement descision on where to take it from there. Instead of giving her the chance to answer a deadpan "No" or "I don't know" which will shoot you down
The No type of question, same situation, would be:
Me: " Hey"
Her: "Hi"
Me: " Do you know where the nearest Bank of america is?"
Her: " Nah, sorry"
Unless you push through it or ask another question which will most likely be try-hard, it'll come back and bite you in the ass. Now, nothing is written in stone, but she can definitely give you more play with yes-questions and open-ended questions.
Sometimes, when girls don't truly know what you're asking, they feel disqualified. Even if they liked you at first, because they don't know what to say, and they don't know how to lead a conversation in most cases.
I learned this after I noticed that I used to ask questions that most people wouldn't know the answer to, like where I could find places only I frequent, and even when the girl was curious about me, they would say no and just stand there, probably feeling self-concious, or for the maybe girls to not even try (kinda like when we say, "she's ok, but I'd only fuck her if I don't have to put any effort")
The yes questions don't really require a lot of thinking, which is perfect for turning off their brain and getting them to express themselves better emotionally. It's a way for the yes and maybe girls to game on!
To pull this off better, you need to be observant, usually noticing what kind of thing she's doing, wearing etc
Another one could be just asking a question that you know they're going to say yes, like where starbucks is, when you know it's like a couple blocks or in the same area you're at..
It's all about the details.
These are my two cent, feel free to disagree.
I've noticed that after many many approaches, conversations and interactions with girls, that whenever I see that there was success, the girl started saying yes from the beginning of the interaction.
By saying yes to little questions, the interaction allowed me to gauge into a better chance of rapport. However, even if there was attraction, opening a girl with a question in which the most likely answer was "no", her availability started to decline, unless you did something about it like ask her another question, but already in a lower percent of success.
For Example:
I'm walking by the mall and I see a smokeshow of a girl, great body and a cute face, she's chilling, kinda bored, just standing waiting for her friend, with a book on her hand. Let's say you're kinda familiar with the book (or pretend to be) and see the name of the book.
From my experience, applying this principle, you can ask two kinds of questions, the yes question or the no question.
Yes Question would go:
Me: "Hey"
Her: " Hi" (Most girl I know prefer saying "hi", I don't know why)
Me: "Is that the book (insert name of the book)?"
Her: " Yeah!" (the tone usually gives her away, whether she's attracted, maybe or not)
Me: "You know that book is actually on my reading list. How's it going so far?"
Her: " It's awesome/boring (insert whatever her answer is) it's about..."
Now after this you at least open yourself up for gaming or taking it from there.
You use questions that are open-ended and their answer is yes, and that yes gives you momentum.
This works best with yes or maybe girls, and make the uninterested not as hard to blow you off during day game.
It usually works because at least she'll tell you a little about herself and you can make a judgement descision on where to take it from there. Instead of giving her the chance to answer a deadpan "No" or "I don't know" which will shoot you down
The No type of question, same situation, would be:
Me: " Hey"
Her: "Hi"
Me: " Do you know where the nearest Bank of america is?"
Her: " Nah, sorry"
Unless you push through it or ask another question which will most likely be try-hard, it'll come back and bite you in the ass. Now, nothing is written in stone, but she can definitely give you more play with yes-questions and open-ended questions.
Sometimes, when girls don't truly know what you're asking, they feel disqualified. Even if they liked you at first, because they don't know what to say, and they don't know how to lead a conversation in most cases.
I learned this after I noticed that I used to ask questions that most people wouldn't know the answer to, like where I could find places only I frequent, and even when the girl was curious about me, they would say no and just stand there, probably feeling self-concious, or for the maybe girls to not even try (kinda like when we say, "she's ok, but I'd only fuck her if I don't have to put any effort")
The yes questions don't really require a lot of thinking, which is perfect for turning off their brain and getting them to express themselves better emotionally. It's a way for the yes and maybe girls to game on!
To pull this off better, you need to be observant, usually noticing what kind of thing she's doing, wearing etc
Another one could be just asking a question that you know they're going to say yes, like where starbucks is, when you know it's like a couple blocks or in the same area you're at..
It's all about the details.
These are my two cent, feel free to disagree.
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