This post is an observation/small reflection of my thoughts.
When I was in Brazil last year, and did several nights out, I made some observations.
Girls and groups of girls are out to meet guys. Sure, they are there to have fun, dance, get attention/feel good as well.
However, they are receptive and encourage guys to approach them. If a guy approaches a girl in a group and they start talking, after maybe some introduction to the group (or not) the girl will peel away from the group, or the group will peel away and let the two talk. If the girl likes the guy, it's on, and he will escalate.
If she doesn't, she will go back to her group, and the guy will approach a new girl.
Of course you have to account for a different culture. Guys are players, and good or bad with girls they approach.
Girls love it, encourage it, and accept the pick up culture with open arms. They either want a cool guy that has game, or a guy that can provide. Ideally a mix of both.
Why isn't it like this in North America?
Yes, you find small groups of girls from time to time that are out like this, but it's very rare. Usually for me to succeed in a club scenario I have to pick out a girl that's strayed from her group or build enough attraction that she doesn't care about her friends when they try to cockblock (it's almost unheard of where I was out in brazil).
The music that is very popular with the young girls crowd in brazil (sertanejo universitario) actually promotes the whole pick up as well. Many songs about guys out to pick up girls for the night, make out with many, take that one cool girl home. Girls love it and go along with it.
I know I must game regardless. But it sucks sometimes when it comes down to it. I feel bad for the average guy who isn't game aware and tries to meet girls at clubs. He's working against almost impossible odds if he is average, and has never experienced a culture that promotes hooking up so much.
Also, it's not as slutty as it sounds. These girls are very smart and have game themselves and are looking for relationships. This part of the country is known for its traditional vibe as well. Basically, if you are an LTR guy or a guy that likes variety and short flings, you can find it here.
Surely the guys familiar with Roosh's writing on Brazil or who are familiar with latin culture, specifically Brazil in general know what I am talking about. If you are one of the guys that isn't, and you have some decent game and can do well in North America for night game, if you were to bypass the language barrier you would kill in brazil.
Just putting some thoughts to paper. It sucks sometimes seeing girls out only for attention whoring around here. Or running into some really cool girls on a night out but having to fight against a group barrier. I have a 'next' mentality on nights out and I don't have the energy to try and plow through a group or mother hens. If only friday nights, girls were thinking, let's go out, as a group, each of us are going to meet a cool guy tonight. I miss that.
When I was in Brazil last year, and did several nights out, I made some observations.
Girls and groups of girls are out to meet guys. Sure, they are there to have fun, dance, get attention/feel good as well.
However, they are receptive and encourage guys to approach them. If a guy approaches a girl in a group and they start talking, after maybe some introduction to the group (or not) the girl will peel away from the group, or the group will peel away and let the two talk. If the girl likes the guy, it's on, and he will escalate.
If she doesn't, she will go back to her group, and the guy will approach a new girl.
Of course you have to account for a different culture. Guys are players, and good or bad with girls they approach.
Girls love it, encourage it, and accept the pick up culture with open arms. They either want a cool guy that has game, or a guy that can provide. Ideally a mix of both.
Why isn't it like this in North America?
Yes, you find small groups of girls from time to time that are out like this, but it's very rare. Usually for me to succeed in a club scenario I have to pick out a girl that's strayed from her group or build enough attraction that she doesn't care about her friends when they try to cockblock (it's almost unheard of where I was out in brazil).
The music that is very popular with the young girls crowd in brazil (sertanejo universitario) actually promotes the whole pick up as well. Many songs about guys out to pick up girls for the night, make out with many, take that one cool girl home. Girls love it and go along with it.
I know I must game regardless. But it sucks sometimes when it comes down to it. I feel bad for the average guy who isn't game aware and tries to meet girls at clubs. He's working against almost impossible odds if he is average, and has never experienced a culture that promotes hooking up so much.
Also, it's not as slutty as it sounds. These girls are very smart and have game themselves and are looking for relationships. This part of the country is known for its traditional vibe as well. Basically, if you are an LTR guy or a guy that likes variety and short flings, you can find it here.
Surely the guys familiar with Roosh's writing on Brazil or who are familiar with latin culture, specifically Brazil in general know what I am talking about. If you are one of the guys that isn't, and you have some decent game and can do well in North America for night game, if you were to bypass the language barrier you would kill in brazil.
Just putting some thoughts to paper. It sucks sometimes seeing girls out only for attention whoring around here. Or running into some really cool girls on a night out but having to fight against a group barrier. I have a 'next' mentality on nights out and I don't have the energy to try and plow through a group or mother hens. If only friday nights, girls were thinking, let's go out, as a group, each of us are going to meet a cool guy tonight. I miss that.