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Did you get the bang? Even after a bad rejection
04-24-2014, 03:23 PM
As the title states. Have you fucked up with a girl and some time later cross paths with her again and managed to override her bad impression of you and still banged her. And I mean after a really bad beta reaction to her rejection. How did you do it? What did she say? How did you feel gaming her differently again?
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Did you get the bang? Even after a bad rejection
04-24-2014, 04:27 PM
Of course, but not by immediately reengaging her.
Stepped to a chick at my local club. She passed. Cool.
I routinely pull at this spot, and would bring new talent to enjoy the love buzz.
She saw this, got intrigued, and now I'm in a position of power. Bang was good, but she missed her chance at anything more.
You can rarely stalk a chick into liking you. But she can be lured and she will talk herself into it.
It's not what you want to hear, but it's exactly what you need to do, bang other chicks
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Did you get the bang? Even after a bad rejection
04-25-2014, 12:50 AM
Difficult to reinvent a different Frame.
If she blew you off in a club basically instantly then it is easier, since she did not know you. She sees you pull a hot chick or two and she might reengage.
If you went out on a date or she is an acquaintance and has an unfavourable impression of you - that is more tricky. You are in a bad frame - changing her opinion of you will require some major DHV and a massively improved strong frame and Game on your side. Especially difficult if you reacted badly as a Beta to the rejection. Best choice is to leave the Beta state behind you, game and pull other chicks. She might realize that you are different and show interest. I don't think there is another realistic way.
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Did you get the bang? Even after a bad rejection
04-25-2014, 04:06 AM
Only sure way is to get a hotter girl than her and to make sure she sees it.
But girls often go to bars specifically to reject dudes and get attention fix. Call her out on it with bored "oh, another one of those attention whores" look, leave her table and have fun nearby totally ignoring her. I guarantee that she'll elevate you above other dudes, she'll remember you next time she sees you there and she'll even approach you. They hate being labeled as members of "boring gray zone of girls" so they'll do anything to become special in your eyes.
