[TPD]

I recently read that pussy is the holy grail for men. That's sure true for me. However, I'm also guilty of putting it on a pedestal and worshiping it. As some of you might know, worshiping it tends to inflict a worse wound when another guy fucks a woman you've been working on and would love to see naked. When the other guy gets to see her naked and I don't it literally breaks me. I guess the first step would be to not worship it. So how do we view it as the holy grail without worshiping it?

[TonySandos]

My holy grail is gaining knowledge and experiencing thing unique to me in travel and leisure

[Mage]

Not viewing it as Holy grail works for me.

[Windom Earle]

Imagine it has an offensive smell. Oh wait, it probably does, no need to imagine.

[TPD]

My mindset has been that dime pussy is elusive and only the "special" ninjas among us are blessed with getting it. So I guess my first step is in smashing this self-defeating pov. Am I right?

[Virtus]

I pretty much despise my animal nature. Severly dislike, on an intellectual level, the sense of peace that comes over after sex. Because before, evenif andmost deff out is fun, it's a terrible way toget a hit of that dopamine high. A for you being 61. I dont reaaaaaly believe you.

[kaotic]

I think this is where abundancy comes into play, the more pussy you have around the better, the less focused you'll be on one certain pussy.

I wouldn't view it as the holy grail at all, my holy grail would be financial independence, acquiring wealth, starting a business, traveling, knowledge (like Tony mentioned)

If you do view pussy as a holy grail and DON'T put it on a pedestal, that's a step in the right direction. Why don't you view yourself as a holy grail that pussy comes too? If you work on yourself financially & aesthetically, the rest follows in step with the help of game !

[WestIndianArchie]

(04-08-2014 06:39 AM)TPD Wrote:  

I recently read that pussy is the holy grail for men.

You read this?
Or do you believe it?

Best way to get past this mentality is to fuck more than a few. Preferably with the most stomach turning and vile things you can think of.

Does she look desperately in love? Newly married? Hit her with the coldest game you can, and see how much she will flirt with you/danger until she pulls back.

I pulled a republican Indian chick while she was on her first date with some herb. Even years into the game, I still remember how horrible the whole thing was.

The more you see of them, the less it will look like a grail, to you. The only way I have been able to stomach the deceit, the treachery, is to love them for the moment, and appreciate the present.

WIA

[TPD]

(04-08-2014 11:46 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

I think this is where abundancy comes into play, the more pussy you have around the better, the less focused you'll be on one certain pussy.

I wouldn't view it as the holy grail at all, my holy grail would be financial independence, acquiring wealth, starting a business, traveling, knowledge (like Tony mentioned)

If you do view pussy as a holy grail and DON'T put it on a pedestal, that's a step in the right direction. Why don't you view yourself as a holy grail that pussy comes too? If you work on yourself financially & aesthetically, the rest follows in step with the help of game !

I agree on abundancy. My biggest challenge is putting myself in a location where there is abundancy.

[TonySandos]

My man. Abundance is a great help, but not a need. During off times I still maintain my same strength of self acceptance through my drive for success, being supportive of family, learning new things, staying fashionable, finding ways of overcoming obstacles in work or money, being well versed because of my hobbies and so on. The less importance you place on women, the more power you hold in your interactions with them

[TPD]

(04-08-2014 02:07 PM)TonySandos Wrote:  

My man. Abundance is a great help, but not a need. During off times I still maintain my same strength of self acceptance through my drive for success, being supportive of family, learning new things, staying fashionable, finding ways of overcoming obstacles in work or money, being well versed because of my hobbies and so on. The less importance you place on women, the more power you hold in your interactions with them

Well said and noted.

[kaotic]

Very good point, you should always be working on yourself, women come second and usually come in step to improving yourself. See i've got no family, hardly see my friends, hobbies are hard to come by besides the gym. I honestly feel like the rat race has me by the balls (for now). I agree the less you care, the more you win with women. Just like in a relationship the person who cares the least (or needs the ltr the least) is the one with the most power.

(04-08-2014 02:07 PM)TonySandos Wrote:  

My man. Abundance is a great help, but not a need. During off times I still maintain my same strength of self acceptance through my drive for success, being supportive of family, learning new things, staying fashionable, finding ways of overcoming obstacles in work or money, being well versed because of my hobbies and so on. The less importance you place on women, the more power you hold in your interactions with them

[TPD]

(04-08-2014 02:32 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

Very good point, you should always be working on yourself, women come second and usually come in step to improving yourself. See i've got no family, hardly see my friends, hobbies are hard to come by besides the gym. I honestly feel like the rat race has me by the balls (for now). I agree the less you care, the more you win with women. Just like in a relationship the person who cares the least (or needs the ltr the least) is the one with the most power.

(04-08-2014 02:07 PM)TonySandos Wrote:  

My man. Abundance is a great help, but not a need. During off times I still maintain my same strength of self acceptance through my drive for success, being supportive of family, learning new things, staying fashionable, finding ways of overcoming obstacles in work or money, being well versed because of my hobbies and so on. The less importance you place on women, the more power you hold in your interactions with them

By abundance I mean in a place where there are women but not necessarily in my life at the time. If there are never women around, fishing will come up pretty short.

[TonySandos]

That depends on if your endeavors are prolific enough to eclipse that or lead directly into more women