IMO, it 100% comes down to the deep rapport you have with YOURSELF...
- Knowing your self-worth
- Knowing "you're the opportunity" (based on first hand experience)
- Having a criteria that women must aspire to reach
One thing about so called "10s" is that it's subjective. To me tall bitchy looking model types are 10s. Whereas my boy prefer asians and another likes young pale Americans. This is why I always say "ideal types" instead because for me "that is my 10".
If a chick is my 10 I am HAPPY. However there is no free lunch at all! Just because a chick is hot doesn't mean shit. A hot chick is going to be challenged/tested hardcore because its sort of like a music teacher finding someone with great potential, they're going to give the protege alot of shit to do better because they are hoping that they succeed.
In my case I am giving hot chicks lots of shit because I am hoping they make the cut.
That said, I hang out with alot of hot chicks and many of my female friends are part of big modeling agencies. So for me seeing hot chicks is common and I also see the "bad" side. Thing is it is rare for a man to call a woman out on things and as a result they chase because there is now finally a man who is "willing to walk away"
I started getting consistency after fully understanding based on past experiences that...
"It is rare for a woman to ever meet a guy like me"
Most chicks interactions with men are so cliche, man is "Yes" as soon as he locks eyes on her? far less when she shows signs of interest. She could string him along and he'll play that game.
When women meet me its fun tension because for the first time ever she not only must "make the cut" but she can "fuck up" her opportunity. This cause chicks to mindfuck themselves. (Emotional stimulation without me having to actively do anything)
P.S...2 days on tinder (wanted to do an experiment) ZERO MATCHES hahaha. Cant even implement the experiment.