[dirt]

Just wanted to get a discussion going regarding your favorite positions with "smaller" girls.

I know I have pretty much ruined the night for a few girls by going too deep. And want to avoid this as much as possible but still like to fuck hard/fast most of the time.

One of my favorites is girl laying flat, face down, with legs together ...laying on top of her from behind. Really easy to just push her ass/hips down into the mattress and get a good bouncing rhythm going.

Input appreciated.

[Samseau]

If she's really hurt by your size, let her go on top and control how deep she goes.

[Veloce]

Small girls are my bread and butter.

Pound away. If she starts complaining about the pain, cover her mouth.

I'm serious. Afterwards she'll say, "I've never been fucked like that before."

[kinjutsu]

I co-sign what thedude3737 said.

I just fuck her however i like.
She wil be blown away that any guy has fucked her like a piece of meat.
Your pleasure comes 1st before hers. Remember that.

[Walter White]

(02-28-2014 10:40 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

Your pleasure comes 1st before hers. Remember that.

I think a woman's greatest pleasure doesn't come just from the sex act itself - orgasm etc. They can do that with a vibrator, but they crave connection. The reason I endorse the comments above - your pleasure comes first, fuck her as you please, etc - is that I believe that a woman's greatest sexual pleasure is knowing that she is DESIRABLE, that the man she desires is OVERCOME with lust for her. That's my belief.

[Merenguero]

(02-28-2014 11:42 PM)Walter White Wrote:  

(02-28-2014 10:40 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

Your pleasure comes 1st before hers. Remember that.

I believe that a woman's greatest sexual pleasure is knowing that she is DESIRABLE, that the man she desires is OVERCOME with lust for her. That's my belief.

This is a very important point and I've been think about this a lot lately. A lot of the sex from the girl's end is just validation. Girls who are at least somewhat savvy know that I'm horrible boyfriend or husband material, but that I serve an important purpose in the validation or short-term department. I had a girl specifically tell me that about forty-eight hours ago.

[Walter White]

(02-28-2014 11:52 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(02-28-2014 11:42 PM)Walter White Wrote:  

(02-28-2014 10:40 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

Your pleasure comes 1st before hers. Remember that.

I believe that a woman's greatest sexual pleasure is knowing that she is DESIRABLE, that the man she desires is OVERCOME with lust for her. That's my belief.

This is a very important point and I've been think about this a lot lately. A lot of the sex from the girl's end is just validation. Girls who are at least somewhat savvy know that I'm horrible boyfriend or husband material, but that I serve an important purpose in the validation or short-term department. I had a girl specifically tell me that about forty-eight hours ago.

Indeed - women are external-oriented and must obtain their validation from others. Guys, while also seeking some degree of external validation, are much more inclined to seek INTERNAL validation, or validation from a small group they value (family, work, etc). Also, in my experience, validation is "stickier" in guys - once we feel validated, it tends to linger. In some of us, it lingers and swells - one reason why if insecurity is a woman's curse, arrogance is a man's. In women, validation is fleeting and must be refreshed - daily!

When I got married, I woke up the next day and was focused on my career. I said to myself "OK, this woman chose me, she made her choice, we'll probably have kids - I need to bust my ass to provide for this new family!". But women don't think that way. They think "I wonder if he loves me today. He loved me yesterday, and the day before yesterday - BUT WHAT ABOUT TODAY?? What if he doesn't love me ANYMORE?!?"

It must be a terribly exhausting way to go through life.

[MidniteSpecial]

Get on top of her. And follow this thrusting pattern.

Nine shallow. One deep. Eight shallow. Two deep. Seven shallow. Three deep. Six shallow. Four deep. Five shallow, five deep. Four shallow. Six deep. Three shallow. Seven deep. Two shallow. Eight deep. One shallow. Nine deep!!!!!!!

*after nine deep go back to eight deep etc etc repeat the cycle for however long you want. They usually can't take it for that long.

Cures premature ejaculation.

[Veloce]

Jesus...I've never heard of a mathematical algorithm application to sex...

What is that the fibonacci sequence?

[MidniteSpecial]

(03-01-2014 12:19 AM)thedude3737 Wrote:  

Jesus...I've never heard of a mathematical algorithm application to sex...

What is that the fibonacci sequence?

It's my sexual algorithm. Stole it from an ancient Chinese sage who fucked 360 virgins.

Be careful with that. I should have put a disclaimer underneath. It will make bitches dig their nails into your back.

It will make a female stalk you and tap on your bedroom window at 3:30 am after not answering her calls.

It will make your lady buy you new Jordan's and a 20 bag of sour diesel.

It's a very powerful tool use it wisely.

When I say shallow I mean just the tip by the way.

And when I say deep, get all the way in there till your balls are inside. BALLS DEEP!

[Tytalus]

(03-01-2014 12:15 AM)MidniteSpecial Wrote:  

Get on top of her. And follow this thrusting pattern.

Nine shallow. One deep. Eight shallow. Two deep. Seven shallow. Three deep. Six shallow. Four deep. Five shallow, five deep. Four shallow. Six deep. Three shallow. Seven deep. Two shallow. Eight deep. One shallow. Nine deep!!!!!!!

*after nine deep go back to eight deep etc etc repeat the cycle for however long you want. They usually can't take it for that long.

Cures premature ejaculation.

Huh. I will try this and report back with a small data sheet.

[Virtus]

http://www.spiritualtantra.net/sexploration-page-2

[Benoit]

It's a powerful technique. Unless you're counting out loud the chick will be incapable of figuring out the sequence. Plus they won't care.

[MidniteSpecial]

Yes. Many times they will be begging for it deeper. Grabbing onto your waist and pulling you in. Don't give in to temptation push her backdown and continute the formula. It's your world she's just in it. And she will appreciate you for it.

[soup]

IF you are worried about going too deep, you can either get a small dildo to fuck her with while you jerk off in secret, or hire a midget to sneak in while you do the same.

[Walter White]

(03-01-2014 11:36 AM)Benoit Wrote:  

Unless you're counting out loud the chick will be incapable of figuring out the sequence.

LOL. I do not recommend counting out loud...

[Parlay44]

Going too deep

[Benoit]

Sometimes you really want to piledrive a girl and she's in genuine pain from having her cervix pummelled.

In that case get her to lie on her front with her legs together. Go at it from on top, and her legs and ass cheeks will add friction without you bottoming out.

[eradicator]

If she is that small, pick her up and fuck her while you are standing up. It can be extremely gratifying to just let her slide up and down on your dick as you lift her up and down with your hands at her armpits. Also if she is that tiny, you can move her around easier, throw her onto the bed(literally) and plow away

[Tytalus]

Alright, I am back.

I'm a normal sized guy, 6". My wife is plump and short. 5'3-4" or so. She's small enough down there that I think a guy with a 8" would be regularly uncomfortable for her, it's pretty easy for me to hit her cervix as it is - she will say "ow! not so deep!!" unless she's super horny.

Background: Mom of my 3 kids. Is on an SSRI med that does lower her libido.

Foreplay: Minimal I'd say. Hugging, bit of kissing. Bit of alpha talk before hand.

The technique: I followed the technique at first, and my wife warmed right up to it. MidniteSpecail is correct, after a cycle of the algorithm she kept trying to put her hands on my low back to keep me in deep.

Felt really good, after a while kind lost track a bit myself. Followed by grinding, then went to hard pound town and she was clawing my back and really screaming.

Conclusion?

Excellent technique to try out. Will keep using it to see how else I can make it work.

[AnonymousBosch]

^^ I've always alternated strokes in small patterns based on speed, depth, angle, whatever - mainly as a self-control tool as I like long sessions - but have never been so methodical about it. Part of the tease of sex is her anticipation of your full length, and by offering it freely then withholding it at other times, she'll get herself into a frenzy.