Quote: (02-25-2011 04:41 AM)gringoed Wrote:
Quote: (12-31-2010 12:59 PM)Quasi Wrote:
The women the screwing and all that is just a phase..that New York dude touches upon the subject that being good with women will give you another emptyness. I think thats true... My goals is not about women.. women is just a by product, like happiness is from doing what you where meant to do, become who you so wished to be..living up to your own subconscious ideals of "meaningsfullness" and given less about the mainstream concepts of "common sense" which mostly is common idiocy... I do what I want and plan long term for maximal financial freedom and the ideal setup, I work hard and play hard..I strive to ever improve my skills and view and talents to succeed. The more I lived this, the better women throw themselves at my feet and the lesser amounts of game is needed, or the rules of gaming starts to disappear..you get the feeling is not about what you do, but who you are.. since the concept of game is 50% bullshit and most internet profets is ugly geeks who makes themselfes self-chosen experts on women... most game in my book is being a man, its very simple and its doesnt involve small rodents pulled out of hats or dancing monkeys... but each to his own.. the thing is... its about you.. your dreams, what you feel about living.. once you start living in tune with your subconsicous dreams, women will gravitate towards you... I promise... your frame..your integrity.. your inner beings strength from self-acknowledgement and insight will be profound and lend you the fundament of a carm ocean in the world full of furious amounts of bullshit and instant happyness solutions for the desperate and frightfull.
Nice post Quasi. Well said!
Yes, this is a nice explanation by Quasi. I agree mostly.
Being good with girls and banging alot of them can lead to a feeling of...
"ok, so is this all there is ???"
Well, the short answer is...Yes. Banging a variety of cute girls IS "all there is". HA. Of course, there is also family, finances, friends, hobbies, and other creative outlets.
My point is this:
Don't chase girls just for the sex or for their validation of you. Chase them because doing so is an exercise in manhood. Learning how to be good with girls should improve your all around life and increase your core happiness. But it doesn't always work like that. Too many guys try to cheat the Game.
Abusing alcohol and drugs, living an unhealthy lifestyle, lying to themselves and everyone else, becoming more of a fictitious character and less of their real selves. Sure you can bang alot of chicks this way but in the long run it can be a trap that leads to less fulfillment, energy, money, passion, etc.
There are other perspectives to take with this Game shit. Chase girls because its a worthy challenge that will make you a stronger man. Just like guys who work out, golf, make money, have hobbies, read books, etc. You do those things because they make you happy and hopefully improve you in some way. I look at chasing girls the same way. Its a hobby that I enjoy and I feel it makes me a stronger, better man. It allows me to my more successful in all areas of my life.
I rarely drink, I go to bed early, I live a clean lifestyle, i'm getting more in touch with my core values and what I really want out of life while at the same time i'm learning what types of values and lifestyles don't work for me. Similar to what Quasi said, I'm working on myself, getting girls is just a by-product of that. i'm not gonna sacrifice my health, wealth, or progress for a piece of ass. If a girl wants to come and explore my world on more of my terms then that is a different story.
I have been focused on uncovering and maximizing my natural talents while at the same time loving myself unconditionally and not bullshitting myself. I'm getting more and better quality girls because of the vibe that they get from me naturally. i'm working on being real and being in touch with my core desires. When i'm just totally real and without any fear or heavy-hearted-ness, thats when I get the best response from them. When I do it like this i feel like I could chase girls for a long time and i never get any "empty" feeling.
How could I feel empty when my i'm filling my life with stuff that makes me happy and removing all the bullshit fake stuff.
