[tboz]

I met an idiot girl 2 weeks ago. When I text her to invite her out she comes up with some excuse not to go. But she still texts me. I'm really tired of her stupid shit. Heres an example of what I mean:

Me: hey, lets check out the fashion show i told u about.
Her: really?? oh cool!!! whos the designer???
Me: its blah blah.

--- The next day ---
Her: i want to see another designer.
Me: i have no control over that. the shows cant change designers.
Her: i cant go.

This is just one example of her responses. At this point, I'm mad and could care less if she goes or not. So I'm thinking of responding with this:

Me: i'm tired of playing games with u.. i think u should go back to your country and leave nyc.

If this isn't a good idea, then what do you guys suggest? Thanks.

[ryanf]

Stop responding. She's just using you at this point. If she wanted to fuck you, she would actually show up. Super cancer aids couldn't stop a girl who was really into you from meeting up.

[Rompetoto]

Delete number. Start talking to more girls.

[Stun]

(02-13-2014 08:23 PM)tboz Wrote:  

Me: i'm tired of playing games with u.. i think u should go back to your country and leave nyc.

Don't say that, it makes you sound butthurt.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=ButtHurt

I can't tell you exactly what to say, but when you're thinking of responding to a girl in such a way, always ask yourself if it will have the potential of coming across butthurt. If the answer is yes, don't do it.

Like the guys above said, meet other girls.

[Andoran]

(02-13-2014 08:23 PM)tboz Wrote:  

Me: i'm tired of playing games with u.. i think u should go back to your country and leave nyc.

Based on that text interaction it was fairly obvious you didn't plant a seed for her to see you again, but any hopes you may have had were blown up when you texted her that.

Delete number and move on

[vinman]

Don't delete the number. You might answer it accidentally if you recognize it(half drunk, or just waking up). Change her name to CUNT, or Flake in the caller I.D., and download a silent ringtone for when she calls or sends a text. That way it won't bother you at all.

[Agent 47]

Lol at "SUPER CANCER AIDS".

THE DISEASE OF THE FUTURE!!!

[ObnoxiousStoner]

Shes just wasting your time. She seems like an attention whore.Stop talking to her, but you still can gain from this. Try to reflect on what you did wrong and adjust for the future.

[funkyzeit]

Fashion show? Really? You should've said "no homo" after your text.

[blkgatsby]

^What's wrong with fashion shows? It's actually a prime area to conduct game because there's plenty of girls and gay men. Guess what that means? No competition.

And OP, adjust your frame. Instead of saying:
hey, lets check out the fashion show i told u about (begging her to come with you)

You should have said:
going to xxx fashion show. c u there. ( Inviting her to tag along)

And "fake" delete her number.
By that I mean send her a text saying you're tired of her bs and you're deleting her number. If she cares about you in any way, she'll eventually respond.
Wait a day or two and then reply "Who's this?" if her reply wasn't negative.
Game on.

[not-a-pua]

Next day text was a mistake

"I want to see another designer".
Answer: Cool, let's do that.

Just lie. She doesn't know anyway what she wants.

[pascal32123]

Have one last texting conversation with her. Get the ball rolling, and once you are at a point in the convo to where she expects or knows that you will reply, suddenly stop talking to her. dont respond, move on and game other girls. if she isnt putting out, it isnt worth it. you can be spending your energy on a better prospect.

she will be confused as to why you never responded, because you were in the middle of a conversation. make sure she is the last to send you a text.

do not delete her number, but as the hamster runs, she will get worried and start wondering of the possibilities. she will eventually text you sometime or another. simply respond "who's this?" as if you had deleted her number. she will be confused. like the guy said above^ if the reply is not negative, game on.

[redbeard]

I'm a proponent of deleting her number.

If you change her name to "CUNT" or "IDIOT," you might:

-Get drunk and start cussing her out, or even worse, admitting your feelings for her.
-Change her name back and start trying to get the ball rolling again
-Be so in her grasp that you'll continue texting her despite the name change.

If you delete her number, you will stop texting her. If you're on a smartphone, delete her contact info and the text thread. This way there is no possible way for you to initiate conversation.

If she texts you, you will obviously send a "who's this?" text. This could go two ways, depending on if she wants to sleep with you.

She's not interested, you're an orbiter -----> "omg you are a bad friend. You need to make it up to me. Go like 5 of my facebook photos PRONTO."

She's interested -----> she'll instantly begin requalifying herself. "omg I can't believe you didn't my number! When are we getting drinks?"

See? It's all about frame.

[Odin]

Text her and say you have tickets for " some band she would like" ...and that you would like her to come with you, ..wait for a response... then tell her to meet you somewhere next to the venue ...then go out with your mates and play pool or something ...and wait for her crazy text messages..

[LeBeau]

Ask yourself if this girl is likely to make thread titles like yours, or even bring it up with frustrated emotions to her girlfriends.

That's the underlying issue here, you wouldn't be REACTING like this if you were PROACTIVE with building abundance, and would naturally come off less needy.

Work on that foundation first, the rest is just details.

[tboz]

[quote] (02-13-2014 08:38 PM)ryanf Wrote:  

Stop responding. She's just using you at this point. If she wanted to fuck you, she would actually show up.[/quote]

Youre right. As a matter of fact, I deleted her number and i dont care about her.

[quote] (02-13-2014 09:30 PM)Sugar Wrote:  

[quote='funkyzeit' pid='653392' dateline='1392366682']
Fashion show? Really? You should've said "no homo" after your text.[/quote]

No, you don't understand. I suggested to her the fashion show, she didn't.

[quote] (02-14-2014 09:51 AM)not-a-pua Wrote:  

Next day text was a mistake

"I want to see another designer".
Answer: Cool, let's do that.

Just lie. She doesn't know anyway what she wants.[/quote]

Next time I'll use similar text tactic. Thanks.

[quote] (02-14-2014 12:45 PM)pascal32123 Wrote:  

Have one last texting conversation with her. Get the ball rolling, and once you are at a point in the convo to where she expects or knows that you will reply, suddenly stop talking to her. dont respond, move on and game other girls. if she isnt putting out, it isnt worth it. you can be spending your energy on a better prospect.

she will be confused as to why you never responded, because you were in the middle of a conversation. make sure she is the last to send you a text.[/quote]

I like that one. I'll use that one if another idiot girl tries to play kiddy games like this with me.

[quote] (02-14-2014 03:53 PM)Odin Wrote:  

Text her and say you have tickets for " some band she would like" ...and that you would like her to come with you, ..wait for a response... then tell her to meet you somewhere next to the venue ...then go out with your mates and play pool or something ...and wait for her crazy text messages..[/quote]

I used something like this in college on a stupid bitch once. She flaked two times so I told her I could hook her up with a job with a guy I knew at a company. She showed up and got so upset that she called me to ask if I sent her to the right place. It was a halfway house for retarted people. I was laughing big time. I hung up on her twice. Good riddance.

[quote] (02-14-2014 04:30 PM)LeBeau Wrote:  

Ask yourself if this girl is likely to make thread titles like yours, or even bring it up with frustrated emotions to her girlfriends.

That's the underlying issue here, you wouldn't be REACTING like this if you were PROACTIVE with building abundance, and would naturally come off less needy.[/quote]

You're right. I'm working on abundance. The problem is all the snow and the cold makes it difficult to game females.

[ryanf]

(02-15-2014 06:22 PM)tboz Wrote:  

[quote] (02-13-2014 08:38 PM)ryanf Wrote:  

Stop responding. She's just using you at this point. If she wanted to fuck you, she would actually show up.

Youre right. As a matter of fact, I deleted her number and i dont care about her.

(02-13-2014 09:30 PM)Sugar Wrote:  

Fashion show? Really? You should've said "no homo" after your text.

No, you don't understand. I suggested to her the fashion show, she didn't.

(02-14-2014 09:51 AM)not-a-pua Wrote:  

Next day text was a mistake

"I want to see another designer".
Answer: Cool, let's do that.

Just lie. She doesn't know anyway what she wants.

Next time I'll use similar text tactic. Thanks.

(02-14-2014 12:45 PM)pascal32123 Wrote:  

Have one last texting conversation with her. Get the ball rolling, and once you are at a point in the convo to where she expects or knows that you will reply, suddenly stop talking to her. dont respond, move on and game other girls. if she isnt putting out, it isnt worth it. you can be spending your energy on a better prospect.

she will be confused as to why you never responded, because you were in the middle of a conversation. make sure she is the last to send you a text.

I like that one. I'll use that one if another idiot girl tries to play kiddy games like this with me.

(02-14-2014 03:53 PM)Odin Wrote:  

Text her and say you have tickets for " some band she would like" ...and that you would like her to come with you, ..wait for a response... then tell her to meet you somewhere next to the venue ...then go out with your mates and play pool or something ...and wait for her crazy text messages..

I used something like this in college on a stupid bitch once. She flaked two times so I told her I could hook her up with a job with a guy I knew at a company. She showed up and got so upset that she called me to ask if I sent her to the right place. It was a halfway house for retarted people. I was laughing big time. I hung up on her twice. Good riddance.

(02-14-2014 04:30 PM)LeBeau Wrote:  

Ask yourself if this girl is likely to make thread titles like yours, or even bring it up with frustrated emotions to her girlfriends.

That's the underlying issue here, you wouldn't be REACTING like this if you were PROACTIVE with building abundance, and would naturally come off less needy.

You're right. I'm working on abundance. The problem is all the snow and the cold makes it difficult to game females.

2 pieces of advice that really got me through the rough winter we had in my area this year:

1. Try to muscle your way into an LTR for the winter, or at least a stable FWB. A little can go a long way when the bars and clubs are empty due to weather.
2. Don't worry about game, maybe do some reading, but focus on improving yourself in winter. If you are not going to be going out, try learning to cook. Or correcting your diet. Or crush the fuck out of the gym (that's what I did this winter). Read some books. When spring comes, it's rabbit season.

[tboz]

(02-15-2014 06:53 PM)ryanf Wrote:  

2 pieces of advice that really got me through the rough winter we had in my area this year:

2. Don't worry about game, maybe do some reading, but focus on improving yourself in winter. If you are not going to be going out, try learning to cook. Or correcting your diet. Or crush the fuck out of the gym (that's what I did this winter). Read some books. When spring comes, it's rabbit season.

Wow! You won't believe this. Coincidentally, I was thinking this very notion today. My plan now is to read some pua material and looking at some videos to make sure that by Spring I'll be fully prepared for the females. Working out is on my agenda as well. Thanks again.

[augen sehen]

(02-15-2014 06:22 PM)tboz Wrote:  

I used something like this in college on a stupid bitch once. She flaked two times so I told her I could hook her up with a job with a guy I knew at a company. She showed up and got so upset that she called me to ask if I sent her to the right place. It was a halfway house for retarted people. I was laughing big time. I hung up on her twice. Good riddance.

Ahahha, that is beautiful. Brought a tear to my eye.

[ryanf]

(02-17-2014 12:54 AM)tboz Wrote:  

(02-15-2014 06:53 PM)ryanf Wrote:  

2 pieces of advice that really got me through the rough winter we had in my area this year:

2. Don't worry about game, maybe do some reading, but focus on improving yourself in winter. If you are not going to be going out, try learning to cook. Or correcting your diet. Or crush the fuck out of the gym (that's what I did this winter). Read some books. When spring comes, it's rabbit season.

Wow! You won't believe this. Coincidentally, I was thinking this very notion today. My plan now is to read some pua material and looking at some videos to make sure that by Spring I'll be fully prepared for the females. Working out is on my agenda as well. Thanks again.

The material is fine to read, but nothing beats approaches and practice IRL. I stopped reading material pretty much altogether at this point. I use this forum constantly, but mostly for lifestyle advice.

You will get better results from an hour a day in the gym than you will at a PUA forum, *assuming* you have the basic strokes down. Day bang is great or Mystery Method is not bad, if not a little dated. But once you have been in it for awhile, practiced a lot, and know the basics, then focus on lifestyle. Money, skills, hobbies, physical appearance, clothing, style, whatever you can. If Mystery Method is Game 101, then RVF and lifestyle are Game 201 - 401.

[tboz]

(02-17-2014 10:37 PM)ryanf Wrote:  

(02-17-2014 12:54 AM)tboz Wrote:  

(02-15-2014 06:53 PM)ryanf Wrote:  

2 pieces of advice that really got me through the rough winter we had in my area this year:

2. Don't worry about game, maybe do some reading, but focus on improving yourself in winter. If you are not going to be going out, try learning to cook. Or correcting your diet. Or crush the fuck out of the gym (that's what I did this winter). Read some books. When spring comes, it's rabbit season.

Wow! You won't believe this. Coincidentally, I was thinking this very notion today. My plan now is to read some pua material and looking at some videos to make sure that by Spring I'll be fully prepared for the females. Working out is on my agenda as well. Thanks again.

The material is fine to read, but nothing beats approaches and practice IRL. I stopped reading material pretty much altogether at this point. I use this forum constantly, but mostly for lifestyle advice.

You will get better results from an hour a day in the gym than you will at a PUA forum, *assuming* you have the basic strokes down. Day bang is great or Mystery Method is not bad, if not a little dated. But once you have been in it for awhile, practiced a lot, and know the basics, then focus on lifestyle. Money, skills, hobbies, physical appearance, clothing, style, whatever you can. If Mystery Method is Game 101, then RVF and lifestyle are Game 201 - 401.

Hi Ryan. I hear you. I'm not letting winter prevent me from day gaming. And anyway, the cold is winding down somewhat as we head towards spring. Thanks for the suggestion. Greatly appreciate it.