This last year has been truly fruitful in terms of game. A lot of sex, a lot of new notches, a lot of lessons learned, and even some moments of feeling 'in love'.
There are a lot of factors that play into it, but I've noticed in particular that the more I focus on systematically applying key basic principles, the better my results get.
Key word here is 'systematically'. As in, even when I don't feel like it.
Case in point is the first approach of the day, which is almost always when I'm getting on the subway.
The minute I see a cute girl who I think I'd like to possibly get naked with, I go and say 'hi'. Sometimes it's pretty half-hearted and I'm still waking up and look & feel tired.
But I stoically make myself do it.
I've found that this first approach inoculates me from giving a fuck for pretty much the rest of the day. It's like a give a fuck vaccine.
Even if the first girl blows me off, which happens often, there's something about it that fortifies me for the next 12 hours.
After this, chatting to girls happens almost on autopilot.
I say almost... but of course there are a lot of other habits I'm systematically practicing in parallel (good body language, awareness, eye contact, voice projection, scanning for IOIs, etc). It's just that this one came first to mind.
The journey of a thousand bangs begins with one approach. ...or something.
There are a lot of factors that play into it, but I've noticed in particular that the more I focus on systematically applying key basic principles, the better my results get.
Key word here is 'systematically'. As in, even when I don't feel like it.
Case in point is the first approach of the day, which is almost always when I'm getting on the subway.
The minute I see a cute girl who I think I'd like to possibly get naked with, I go and say 'hi'. Sometimes it's pretty half-hearted and I'm still waking up and look & feel tired.
But I stoically make myself do it.
I've found that this first approach inoculates me from giving a fuck for pretty much the rest of the day. It's like a give a fuck vaccine.
Even if the first girl blows me off, which happens often, there's something about it that fortifies me for the next 12 hours.
After this, chatting to girls happens almost on autopilot.
I say almost... but of course there are a lot of other habits I'm systematically practicing in parallel (good body language, awareness, eye contact, voice projection, scanning for IOIs, etc). It's just that this one came first to mind.
The journey of a thousand bangs begins with one approach. ...or something.