[Wavy]

How do I humor her? Do I even humor her?

For example: I was chillen with this girl tonight, and she really wanted to show me the kia commercial where the gerbils get skinny (this isnt the first girl I have met who seems to think those commercials are hilarious). Problem with this is I dont find them funny. Should I pretend to be entertained? Should I say its not funny? How should I generally handle situations similar to this?

[j r]

Tease her for liking them. Not in a mean way, though.

[Tuthmosis]

We don't use textspeak here.

[Wavy]

(01-16-2014 12:26 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

We don't use textspeak here.

Okay...my apologies. Care to provide some input on the situation?

[WestIndianArchie]

(01-16-2014 12:08 AM)Wavy Wrote:  

How do I humor her? Do I even humor her?

For example: I was chillen with this girl tonight, and she really wanted to show me the kia commercial where the gerbils get skinny (this isnt the first girl I have met who seems to think those commercials are hilarious). Problem with this is I dont find them funny. Should I pretend to be entertained? Should I say its not funny? How should I generally handle situations similar to this?

You've kinda got a dick attitude here, but that's necessary for the game. Part of building your Alpha is having an unfavorable opinion and expressing it about shit that she likes and you don't.

Most beta dudes will just agree and encourage, with no kind of agenda. But she sees the guys that just lap up that shit as pushovers.

It's important to lay down the boundaries early.

So breaking down your problem

The biggest question is Have you already slept with her? or Not?

If you have, just be diplomatically honest, or change the subject.

But If you haven't fucked her yet,

1. be brutal, hold your frame, and be honest - and prepare yourself for the consequences

- she can either love your honesty
or
- hate you for being a humorless jerk and leave

2. Neither admit or deny the lack of funny in them, and ask her why she thinks they're funny, and get her to show you more funny stuff.

Dig into this chick's brain. And chicks love to talk and perform.

The more you get her to tell you about herself, to invest, the further down the path you are into making a deposit into the bank between her legs. I swear, chicks will swear they know *you* better, after telling you *their* hopes and dreams.

Longer i've been in the game, the harder it is for me to take chicks like this seriously. Being a bit dismissive can be a positive in terms of attraction, but it can cut the other way as well.

Also, none of the gurus seem to talk about this, but you've got an opportunity to screen the chick before you fuck her when you run into situations like this

- chick has no pass port?
- chick doesn't work out?
- she can't cook?
- she orders california rolls when you eat sushi
- she likes Kevin Hart or Adam Sandler or Carlos Mencia
- She only likes cornball music, doesn't mess with anything else

I tend to be a bit dismissive if a chick is into mainstream bs. It's not that she's not going to get "me". She doesn't realize there's a me to "get".

*cue tortured soul music*

WIA

[Branimir]

How to react with girls that on the first date are talking all the time about social problems with their friends I don't even know or have ever seen?
Why do they even do this?
Is this a shittest?

Should I just get up and leave?

[eradicator]

(01-17-2014 04:39 PM)Branimir Wrote:  

How to react with girls that on the first date are talking all the time about social problems with their friends I don't even know or have ever seen?
Why do they even do this?
Is this a shittest?

Should I just get up and leave?

It's funny, i go out on a lot of first dates lately and oftentimes the girl is a train wreck and I always ask myself "OK, this is going horribly, do I leave or see if this can get better"? I almost always stay and try to turn things around and almost always regret it lol.

As to your specific questions of "why do they do this, is it a shittest, should I just leave", I think it depends: is she flirting with you at all? are you doing everything you can to ramp up the sexual tension with kino? Do you have any good insight to what she is bitching about?

[Ziltoid]

Make it obvious through action that they're boring you, and that you aren't amused.

Chick: "(Insert stupid anecdote here.)"
You: Glaze your eyes over, start looking around the room, maybe occasionally smile and nod at her, "Mhm, yup". Abruptly change the topic in the middle of one of her sentences. If she shows you a video or whatever, stare at it blankly, just say you didn't find it funny, adopt mild disbelief that she found it funny.

Never go out of your way to make a girl feel smart/funny/anything, or to hide your displeasure of where they're trying to lead the conversation... Exactly the wrong move.

[Parlay44]

When girls pull shit like this they're trying to pull you into their "fan club" as I call it.

Ohh isn't this cute? It's so cute. Blah blah blah.

If you follow her lead you fall into her trap and end up in her fan club.

You need to be a man and take control of the situation. Just agree and amplify but escalate at the same time and add some kino. Feel her up. She'll either laugh or get pissed. Either way you get out of that situation.

[Draugr]

I just make non commital remarks or some observation.