[Felix88]

I just noticed recently, every time when I'm running game on a girl, there is something like a voice in my head tell me that's it wrong and not morally right. Thinking back, growing up in an extreme traditional Asian family, since I was a child, I was taught that having sex before marriage is wrong and approach a women just for the sake of sex and not marrying her is immoral and looked down upon (actually I didn't even know what sex is until I was 17 and that was from porn, I thought semen was pee ), that thought creep up in my mind from time to time even I know it's just bullshit and I'll be honest, it still is a biggest mental block for me. What's the best way to deal with it to improve my game? Any input is appreciate.

[PompeyChris]

The best thing you can do is to just push through it.

It might kill your game with that interaction.

But after 10, 20, 30 approaches...

... it'll go. And the fanny will be yours.

[Statsi]

So you think you should be closing but don't because you think it's morally wrong? Man do what you feel, not everyone needs to be a prolific shagger. If you really have a moral objection to casual sex then go get a wife, get destroyed in a divorce, find out years later that she'd been cheating on you since before you were married. Continue to pay child support while wondering why your children look so much like the various members of this forum who believe sex is natural and great.

Moral conviction does not trump reality. Truth is your future wife is being pumped and dumped on the cock carousel right now. Good for her in my eyes, sex is a natural and awesome thing. However since you're the kind of guy who'd stop washing if someone with some pretense to authority told you it was immoral I guess you'll never know.

[Felix88]

I don't think it's morally wrong, I love women and want to fuck all the cute girls I see, it's just that I has some weird cognitive dissonance(especially the time when I has my hands all over a girl on the train) and pussied out some times, I guess it's in the subconcious.

[PompeyChris]

Felix, is this performance anxiety?

You are making good head way with a girl but begin to doubt yourself thus blaming it on your upbringing?

[Parlay44]

You're still looking at girls as sweet innocent creatures

My advice is to have a drink or two and mellow out. Women weren't
put on this earth to be admired and protected. They were meant to be defiled.

Maybe it's the age thing. Most of the girls you know are probably younger
and still act like little girls. Girls themselves don't know how to act when
being pursued sexually.

A grown woman knows what's up and will know what to do and how to act
with men. She'll know how to loosen up YOUR inhibitions.

You have to take charge and control the situation with younger girls.

[Felix88]

(12-15-2013 05:53 AM)PompeyChris Wrote:  

Felix, is this performance anxiety?

You are making good head way with a girl but begin to doubt yourself thus blaming it on your upbringing?

May be that's it, I'm trying to indentify the problem

Most girls I know are 16~21 age range, the thing about acting like little girls is especially true with Japanese girls, I will look at them like sluts or sluts in the making now.

[PompeyChris]

(12-15-2013 04:23 PM)Felix88 Wrote:  

(12-15-2013 05:53 AM)PompeyChris Wrote:  

Felix, is this performance anxiety?

You are making good head way with a girl but begin to doubt yourself thus blaming it on your upbringing?

May be that's it, I'm trying to indentify the problem

Most girls I know are 16~21 age range, the thing about acting like little girls is especially true with Japanese girls, I will look at them like sluts or sluts in the making now.

All but one girl in the last 3 months with me has made me think 'your going to be a slut'. They weren't before. I believe girls becomes sluts for two reasons:

1. They're a 5 or 6 and need the male attention to feel secure and happy.

2. They have a great experience with an alpha male, once split they bang around hoping to find that guy who is alpha.