[awra]

I think I should be frank about my situation as you guys would need the full truth if you were able to help me.

I'm 16, and I live in India. I suffer from both an anxiety disorder and clinical depression, and just got rejected by my best friend (girl) who I've been in love with for the last six months. The depression is extremely bad. A friend recommended getting laid. Is there anyway to go about this.... Seriously I'm on medication and everything but it's not working. I know I sound pathetic, but I really would like some advice. I don't wanna go to a whore, is there any other way to go abt this....?

[awra]

Please help me out here guys....

[MiXX]

Dude, you seriously sound like a troll. But, I'll give you some free advice anyway.

You will NEVER attract women to bed, if your inner game is in the toilet, and depression is definitely something you do not want to show a potential fuck buddy.

You want a girl to fuck you? Simple: demonstrate you are a catch, and she should be lucky to have you before someone else does...you have a lot of work to do before you're ready for banging and should focus on inner healing first, and pussy will naturally come just by your fun vibe.

Also, get the fuck out of India - a place where men outnumber women 50:1 is not helping your chances of getting laid.

Mixx

[Invictus]

Hey kid, start exercising. Lift heavy.

Single best thing you can do. And while you're chillin' after your pump with your huge plate of bee... I mean chicken, start putting some hard-work, patience and motivation into developing yourself mentally. No one is going to do that for you, so you might as well make a decision whether you want to be a loser crying over a girl who doesn't give two shits about you, or whether you want to be the guy tugging at a girl's hair while you pound her from behind.

There are tons of tips and resources in here.

[Sirob]

(12-02-2010 04:33 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

Dude, you seriously sound like a troll. But, I'll give you some free advice anyway.

You will NEVER attract women to bed, if your inner game is in the toilet, and depression is definitely something you do not want to show a potential fuck buddy.

You want a girl to fuck you? Simple: demonstrate you are a catch, and she should be lucky to have you before someone else does...you have a lot of work to do before you're ready for banging and should focus on inner healing first, and pussy will naturally come just by your fun vibe.

Also, get the fuck out of India - a place where men outnumber women 50:1 is not helping your chances of getting laid.

Mixx

This sentence is pure gold. As always Mixx cuts thru to the core and lays it out as it is.

Chances of getting laid in India if you're not super rich and/or famous = 0

Chances of an ordinary good looking guy, successful, with game, getting laid in India = 0

[Saladin]

(12-02-2010 04:15 PM)awra Wrote:  

I think I should be frank about my situation as you guys would need the full truth if you were able to help me.

I'm 16, and I live in India. I suffer from both an anxiety disorder and clinical depression, and just got rejected by my best friend (girl) who I've been in love with for the last six months. The depression is extremely bad. A friend recommended getting laid. Is there anyway to go about this.... Seriously I'm on medication and everything but it's not working. I know I sound pathetic, but I really would like some advice. I don't wanna go to a whore, is there any other way to go abt this....?

First step- Break all contact with this girl and don't talk to her for 6 months-1 year until you're over her and don't really care about her. This will help you not think about her.

While you're doing this work on your self confidence by choosing some hobbies and meeting new people. lifting weights is a great idea. You could find resources to help you with that on the internet.

Second Step- Get the fuck out of India. It is possible to get laid in India, but it extremely rare. It depends on where you are, but even my friends in India consider hugging a girl something couples do. Sex is unheard of and there are very few high school couples who have done anything like that.

IF you want to get out of India, be sure to be amazing at academics. If you have amazing grades you could always get a scholarship to another country for undergrad. I'm' sure you could relocate to a cheap Asian country with better quality of life and higher chances of getting laid with hot women. This forum is a great resource for that. When you get to that country you have to practice the language that is spoken there and learn how to be an alpha male there. Most Indian or Asian males who are fresh in the US or Canada tend to be act horribly beta. Those who have lived in the USA and Canada for most of their upbringings are much better. Its not gonna be easy, but if you practice your game each weekend then you'll improve rapidly. I have no idea where you gonna relocate to but moving to another Asian country is a much better idea.

[speakeasy]

You are lucky to be onto this stuff at 16. I only wish it was around when I was in my mid teens.

[Bukowsky]

Aren't you betrothed to someone?

[MiXX]

(12-03-2010 12:49 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  

You are lucky to be onto this stuff at 16. I only wish it was around when I was in my mid teens.

When I was sixteen, I had to rely on my extremely expensive beeper (yes, you read that right, beeper), and public pay phones to close deals. A forum like this would have been heaven sent!

[IshGibbor]

Dude, you are a teenager. Women your age are dripping in hormones looking to have sex. It shouldn't be difficult at all to get laid. Approach girls in high school, get numbers, go on a coffee dates and ask if they want to mess around.

Ish

[MiXX]

(12-03-2010 10:47 AM)IshGibbor Wrote:  

Dude, you are a teenager. Women your age are dripping in hormones looking to have sex. It shouldn't be difficult at all to get laid. Approach girls in high school, get numbers, go on a coffee dates and ask if they want to mess around.

Ish

He's in India........not the case, they are all being set-up for marriage by their parents at that age, and maybe even younger.

[IshGibbor]

(12-03-2010 10:54 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

(12-03-2010 10:47 AM)IshGibbor Wrote:  

Dude, you are a teenager. Women your age are dripping in hormones looking to have sex. It shouldn't be difficult at all to get laid. Approach girls in high school, get numbers, go on a coffee dates and ask if they want to mess around.

Ish

He's in India........not the case, they are all being set-up for marriage by their parents at that age, and maybe even younger.

Oh, my bad I thought he was in America. That is an interesting predicament to be in I must say.

Ish

[oldnemesis]

(12-03-2010 10:43 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

When I was sixteen, I had to rely on my extremely expensive beeper (yes, you read that right, beeper), and public pay phones to close deals.

Wow, you were such a rich snob, you even had a beeper!!!

[awra]

I'm gonna be in Washington DC in the last 10 days of December (not New Years unfortunately). Staying with a cousin but I can hang out in malls a lot. Advice?

[Invictus]

You just got a shitload.

Take responsibility for your life and DO something. Passiveness is your enemy.

[Saladin]

(12-03-2010 10:54 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

(12-03-2010 10:47 AM)IshGibbor Wrote:  

Dude, you are a teenager. Women your age are dripping in hormones looking to have sex. It shouldn't be difficult at all to get laid. Approach girls in high school, get numbers, go on a coffee dates and ask if they want to mess around.

Ish

He's in India........not the case, they are all being set-up for marriage by their parents at that age, and maybe even younger.

Come on now, child marriages are not as common as you think.......
They do occur in many places in India but its been on the decline over the years.
But yeah, the chances of him getting laid are very small....