Flakey girls in Corrdoba Arrgentina -- can I do something other than move cities?
12-07-2013, 06:12 PM
I really like it here; and apparently other forum members do too. But the flakiness is incredible. I have had dates where I've confirmed with the girl that we have a date the night before,and the morning of; and had her flake with no text or phone call (I then deleted her phone number afterwards). I've collected about 30 different phone numbers from day gaming and night game; and almost all of them just don't answer; or give me excuses when I try to push for meeting up. Yes I know Brazil and Colombia are better; but I'm biding my time to hit Brazil when my financial situation is better and when the World Cup goes down; later next year. Even my super player friend who has had massive success in Argentina has told me that he finds the girls here really frustrating here (histerica).
I've slept with 4 Corrdobaise girls in my month living here; it's not like I've had no success... but I don't know what I can do to increase my ratio of meeting a girl ==> getting her phone number ==> meeting up with her. Only two of these four came from cold approach pickup.
From what I've heard from Corrdobaise girls; it's that the guys here are so pushy and mean if you reject them; that more often than not the girls will give you their phone number if they have no intention of ever seeing you again. I don't see nearly this flakiness in the States where girls who give me their phone number have a high probability of wanting to see me.
So you can give me actionable feedback; I have these specific questions
1) I normally (for the last 30 phone numbers I had) followup immediately with WhatsApp when I have their phone number. I have begun waiting 2-3 days to message them for the first time. Should I keep doing this?
2) When I come to inviting them out; they always seem to be busy. How many times should I invite them out before I give up? I have begun to get pissed off if they don't offer another time to hang out and I invite them out two times. As in I text them that they shouldn't give their phone number out if they have no intention of meeting me.
3) Is it wrong to think that if you invite the girl one time and she offers no suitable other time to hang out... or is vague like "let's talk next week"... that she doesn't want to see me and I should waste no more time with her?
4) I have seen some people send out mass weekly texts to girls that they presumably haven't seen Does this strategy make any sense?
5) Anything I'm missing here? I've tried as an experiment calling them instead of sending the first text; with the result that no one picked up my phone calls.
Your thoughts would be welcome. Thank you!
I've slept with 4 Corrdobaise girls in my month living here; it's not like I've had no success... but I don't know what I can do to increase my ratio of meeting a girl ==> getting her phone number ==> meeting up with her. Only two of these four came from cold approach pickup.
From what I've heard from Corrdobaise girls; it's that the guys here are so pushy and mean if you reject them; that more often than not the girls will give you their phone number if they have no intention of ever seeing you again. I don't see nearly this flakiness in the States where girls who give me their phone number have a high probability of wanting to see me.
So you can give me actionable feedback; I have these specific questions
1) I normally (for the last 30 phone numbers I had) followup immediately with WhatsApp when I have their phone number. I have begun waiting 2-3 days to message them for the first time. Should I keep doing this?
2) When I come to inviting them out; they always seem to be busy. How many times should I invite them out before I give up? I have begun to get pissed off if they don't offer another time to hang out and I invite them out two times. As in I text them that they shouldn't give their phone number out if they have no intention of meeting me.
3) Is it wrong to think that if you invite the girl one time and she offers no suitable other time to hang out... or is vague like "let's talk next week"... that she doesn't want to see me and I should waste no more time with her?
4) I have seen some people send out mass weekly texts to girls that they presumably haven't seen Does this strategy make any sense?
5) Anything I'm missing here? I've tried as an experiment calling them instead of sending the first text; with the result that no one picked up my phone calls.
Your thoughts would be welcome. Thank you!