[369eyedea]

Hey guys
I'm 18 and i'm getting into gaming increasingly. Quite often i'll pick targets that are in their late 20s or even 30s and they'll brush me off simply for my age despite the rest of my humour and talking going well on them.

Is there anyway to get around this, apart from the obvious way of just adding 3 years to my number? How do you frame it so they don't get turned off by someone younger...I mean i'm not trying to be their husband..just fun times!
Cheers

[Floss]

Out of curiosity, why are you doing this? Don't you have a sea of high school girls to hit on?

[Remington]

I'm with Floss. Stick with targeting high school girls and develop your game. Grow a little hair on your chest before trying to get older women.

Realize that a girl that's 27 will most likely not take you seriously.

[Steve Derekson]

Do you have any moral issue with lying?

[WestIndianArchie]

To be 18 again

Mess with young chicks, never have that opportunity again.

But next chick out of your age range, beat them to the punch, talk to them, then.disqualify *them* for being too young.

"See ladies, I'm in my.sexual prime, and.you look like you won't see that for a few years.
You don't have the mental skills to.handle.all.this. professionally, you probably worry about what people will think, especially your jealous girlfriends.

You're still too invested in "all of this" to truly get.what you want out of life...

This is your chance to.subvert the hamster.

Agree and amplify

WIA

[Floss]

(12-03-2013 05:23 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

To be 18 again

Mess with young chicks, never have that opportunity again.

But next chick out of your age range, beat them to the punch, talk to them, then.disqualify *them* for being too young.

"See ladies, I'm in my.sexual prime, and.you look like you won't see that for a few years.
You don't have the mental skills to.handle.all.this. professionally, you probably worry about what people will think, especially your jealous girlfriends.

You're still too invested in "all of this" to truly get.what you want out of life...

This is your chance to.subvert the hamster.

Agree and amplify

WIA

This would need to be done so fucking sleekly to work. OP will have far more luck just fucking chicks his age. Age is a big deal for women for whatever reason. I'm 21 and i have trouble with older chicks. Luckily, I look like I'm 25, so I often just have them guess and imply that's the truth.

[horn]

why on earth are you hitting on 30-yr olds. Smacks of insecurity. You're surrounded by sweet, sweet teenage poon. Get some.

[Remington]

Grow a beard.

[369eyedea]

Thanks for the response, really appreciate it!
Why am i doing it? if i see a girl who's cute and happens to be older than me, why not man, no need to limit things! School has finished so i'm doing some daygame...i went to private all boys school..my parents choice..now i'm rebelling..of course i prefer teenage chicks...my girlfriend is same age as me..why limit yourself though!

Thanks especially WIA...great advice, you really know what you're talking about
and i have a beard
I don't really have an issue with lying, i just need to be careful and more creative..will do it, but its not preferred.

[CJ]

Don't lie about your age, just challenge them. Flip it around, and agree by saying something like, "You're probably right, I'd have way too much energy for you to handle."

[Aliblahba]

(12-03-2013 05:23 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

To be 18 again

Yeah, I can't remember the last time I heard "You're too young for me".

[RXB]

When I was 19 I hooked up with a 29 year old.

Basically the whole age taboo went down like this:

Her: "I'm 29, that's too old for you."

Me: "You're right. That'd be like having sex with my grandma."

Her: "[laughs] I'm only 10 years older than you!"

Me: "When you put it that way... [resumed making out with her]"

Having sex with a girl who's older than you is better than not having sex, however you'd be better off sleeping with girls your own age.

[funkyzeit]

You have to have this James Bond vibe when being a young guy talking to an older chick. Older chicks know they don't have much time so they won't waste it on some kid's talk about his bad grades, no matter how hot he looks.

But a kid with a sense of style, a strangely extensive life experience that came from unknown things will make them tingle as they imagine what kind of alpha you'll be at 30. Of course, for you to know how to fake that experience you'll need some time in the company of ie. ex military, travelers and seducers, so read the stories on this forum and learn to tell them from your own angle.

Or, be a regular 18yo dude and bang highschool tight asses.

[Plutoman]

Yeah, I've dealt with this several times... still learning how to deal with it. A&A is prolly the best bet. Call them out for overthinking shit. I dated a 30 y/o (I'm 22) for 9 months or so, beautiful girl. Good genes. That worked out because we were on the date before age actually got discovered by both of us. The second one I'd like, age was covered before the date, and she freaked a bit.

As to how it goes, I go for 'em all. As long as it's hot and legal and fun.

[Shotgun Styles]

First things first: never let anyone tell you what you can't do. That includes me, and anyone else you come across.

Having said that, here's what I think you should do. DON'T be her friend, that route rarely works.

Build up your value. "Too young" in woman speak usually translates to "you don't bring enough to the table".

Do you dress well? Do you have cash in your pockets? Do you have transportation (if you're not in a subway hub like Chicago or NY). Have a job, dress well, demonstrate calm and control.

Her: "You're too young for me".

You: "I know, but you're going to go to ___________ with me anyway".

Tell her, don't ask her. It doesn't matter how old a woman is, if you act like her daddy, she'll treat you that way. But you've got to look the part, and you've got stay under control. She may act like this is a cute game at first, or a joke and go along with it. If you stay in control she won't realize it's for real until your dick is inside her and by then it's too late.

Most importantly: DO NOT GIVE A FUCK. If she says yes, great. If she salts your game, whatever. There's ten more of her in that venue. Don't get mad, and say "fuck her". You get upset at rejection and she wins. Don't care either way.

Seen Get Shorty? Great part in there with Travolta and DeVito. He's teaching Devito's character, and actor named Peter Weir, how to play a gangster. Devito tries to give several intimidating looks but fails. Travolta tells him, you hold this guy's life in your hands and he could live or die, but you don't care either way. Devito then nails the look.

[Dancer]

I'm fairly young, and used to always tell older girls my real age, thinking that it wouldn't matter, or that it would turn them on to be fucking a younger guy.

After realizing that I had lost some sure things after telling girls my age, I adopted a new policy.

Don't tell girls your age until after the bang.

Any time she asks you just answer with obviously false, and different numbers.

I look older than I am, so YYMV.

[MrXY]

MILF porn is to blame for this......

[Tenerife]

I'm mid twenties but look like I could be 18. can't grow facial hair, and just appear to be very young and have a babyface.

I tell girls that I am older than I am. Even though I look young, the number often matters.

Since you're 18, you should really focus on hitting the GYM and eat tons of protein. By the time you are 22 you can have an awesome physique and at that point it will decrease the importance of the age factor.

Also, game outside of america.

[Plutoman]

(12-06-2013 02:33 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

MILF porn is to blame for this......

If you're banging a couple 18 y/o's, at say, 30, and a gorgeous 28 y/o comes up to ya and wants to join the harem, are you gonna turn her down? Why would it matter?

If a girl looks good, she looks good... it's rarer at an older age, but just because you have better access to 18 y/o girls doesn't mean you should walk away from getting with an older chick.