Over the past few months I've become a regular at a local bar. I'm friends and on a first name basis with a few of the bartenders and usually get there early on fridays before it gets crowded and talk sports with the bartenders and other regulars, etc. I'm a generous tipper (~$1.50 per beer).
Last night the bar was decently crowded and the bartender I'm most tight with saw me with an empty glass and said "hey, need another beer?" and filled me up. He placed the beer down and immediately turned around to start serving other customers and never asked for money (he also knows I know the price). This has happened before and I've stuck my arm out with money in it and they end up grabbing it. This time I just waited for him to ask for the money and he never did.
I tipped him, but felt like I may have "stole" the beer. Is there any chance he forgot to grab my money and was not subtly hooking me up here? I'd like to know what the protocol is for future situations so I can save money but at the same time avoid looking like I'm trying to avoid paying.
Last night the bar was decently crowded and the bartender I'm most tight with saw me with an empty glass and said "hey, need another beer?" and filled me up. He placed the beer down and immediately turned around to start serving other customers and never asked for money (he also knows I know the price). This has happened before and I've stuck my arm out with money in it and they end up grabbing it. This time I just waited for him to ask for the money and he never did.
I tipped him, but felt like I may have "stole" the beer. Is there any chance he forgot to grab my money and was not subtly hooking me up here? I'd like to know what the protocol is for future situations so I can save money but at the same time avoid looking like I'm trying to avoid paying.