Man this makes me miss Kiev so much. Just to touch upon one point quickly about the girl making you that pie and your main girl seeing it and not caring...
These girls in Ukraine seem to be both accustomed to and ok with the guys having multiple girls. They expect it. On my last night there where I went through this ridiculous scenario to get this girl to come home with me, including telling her all these fibs about the girl at the club being my ex girlfirend etc., after we had sex she asked me about my girlfriend. I said (in russian) not my girlfriend. She just laughed and said something along the lines of Da Da, kharasho, kharasho, haha. They know what's up.
These girls in Ukraine seem to be both accustomed to and ok with the guys having multiple girls. They expect it. On my last night there where I went through this ridiculous scenario to get this girl to come home with me, including telling her all these fibs about the girl at the club being my ex girlfirend etc., after we had sex she asked me about my girlfriend. I said (in russian) not my girlfriend. She just laughed and said something along the lines of Da Da, kharasho, kharasho, haha. They know what's up.