[whenthesunhits]

Honestly the stigma against Asian dudes is eroding, at least in major liberal cities in the US. Have been bouncing around different cities over the last 5 years (Portland, NYC, Austin, now in DC for a while). I really credit the gradual inclusions of Asians in the media as well as Kdramas and Kpop. Been taking down lots of white girls. Hard to separate how much is from increased acceptability vs. growth in my personal game and mindset, but it's so much easier than a few years ago. Also been increasing my visibility as a musician and that has definitely helped although I'm still fairly obscure in the grand scheme of things.

[a beer is enough]

(10-21-2018 11:45 PM)whenthesunhits Wrote:  

Honestly the stigma against Asian dudes is eroding, at least in major liberal cities in the US. Have been bouncing around different cities over the last 5 years (Portland, NYC, Austin, now in DC for a while). I really credit the gradual inclusions of Asians in the media as well as Kdramas and Kpop. Been taking down lots of white girls. Hard to separate how much is from increased acceptability vs. growth in my personal game and mindset, but it's so much easier than a few years ago. Also been increasing my visibility as a musician and that has definitely helped although I'm still fairly obscure in the grand scheme of things.

Feel the same way as an Indian guy but I have to say I completely agree with this, Asian guys without a doubt get play this day and age. Recently came back from Minneapolis and saw at least 2 instances of Asian guys with model-tier blonde girls in the city.

I hate to bring controversy into this thread but from what I have noticed most of the times, it seems like a lot of Asian girl and white guy relationships I see are elder older couples, weaboos and instances where you can just tell they are both settling. Now I don't see Asian guys with white girls nearly as often but when I do, she is almost always above average looking.

BTW, wanted to ask this to all Asian dudes on this thread.

I notice a lot of white girls these days dyeing their hair black and even getting tans, think this is due to the popularity of Kim K and the Jenner sisters in media, do you guys notice having a much easier time with this group?

[JWLZG]

(10-22-2018 11:19 AM)a beer is enough Wrote:  

(10-21-2018 11:45 PM)whenthesunhits Wrote:  

Honestly the stigma against Asian dudes is eroding, at least in major liberal cities in the US. Have been bouncing around different cities over the last 5 years (Portland, NYC, Austin, now in DC for a while). I really credit the gradual inclusions of Asians in the media as well as Kdramas and Kpop. Been taking down lots of white girls. Hard to separate how much is from increased acceptability vs. growth in my personal game and mindset, but it's so much easier than a few years ago. Also been increasing my visibility as a musician and that has definitely helped although I'm still fairly obscure in the grand scheme of things.

Feel the same way as an Indian guy but I have to say I completely agree with this, Asian guys without a doubt get play this day and age. Recently came back from Minneapolis and saw at least 2 instances of Asian guys with model-tier blonde girls in the city.

I'm definitely very optimistic too and in terms of interracial play, I believe that Asians (including Indians) have less and less cause to gripe about a dating disadvantage. This is the Asian century, more than ever, we have to act upon our own volition rather than blame external sources. The results are already there.

I seem to do really well with American girls here in Europe — even those hailing from less "asian guy friendly regions" like California — more than what I'd like haha, so I'd be keen to get to the source.

(10-22-2018 11:19 AM)a beer is enough Wrote:  

I hate to bring controversy into this thread but from what I have noticed most of the times, it seems like a lot of Asian girl and white guy relationships I see are elder older couples, weaboos and instances where you can just tell they are both settling. Now I don't see Asian guys with white girls nearly as often but when I do, she is almost always above average looking.

I've sort of observed that over the years, and IMO that's less and less representative of AMXF pairings I've seen more and more. Often times they tend to have gotten together through "regular" means; a social circle through uni, even from athletic backgrounds. Less often, where wallet game has been involved — e.g. through the entertainment or hotel industries.

(10-22-2018 11:19 AM)a beer is enough Wrote:  

BTW, wanted to ask this to all Asian dudes on this thread.

I notice a lot of white girls these days dyeing their hair black and even getting tans, think this is due to the popularity of Kim K and the Jenner sisters in media, do you guys notice having a much easier time with this group?

I can't say I've ever come across that sort of demographic, and I personally can't see them being necessarily easy pickings; firstly given that I'm not attracted to black hair or tans, and I know my niches (generally educated, at least middle class, and usually alternative or creative) and I doubt they fall under those.

[monsquid]

Don't know about you guys but I'm about ready to pack it all up to seek a different life in Asia. Tired of feeling sexually invisible to most women. The amount of effort required to bang a 6 in the mid atlantic is heinous. At 33 I don't have much time left to be fucking around. I just don't see myself getting anymore satisfaction out of life in the US. I've thought this carefully through and I'm ready to take career hit to make this transition. Maybe after I have a family I will come back so I can raise my kids here but even that is questionable if I can maintain a decent of quality of life overseas.

Other than money living in the US seems to offer nothing else. Security and stability can be had in top tier asian cities.

Have you guys had similar thoughts? Maybe my patience is wearing thin.

[brooklynboy]

Hey guys. In the 4th month of my world banging tour (5 more months before my non compete money ends where I get paid not to work in finance) and have actually been bouncing between HK, SG and various SEA states for a while. After I realized third world country living isn't for me, I spent a month in HK and currently in week 3 at SG. The group I've been bumming off easy and hot lays are usually societal outcasts without a strong peer group (see Chinese Malysian in HK or a study abroad girls who came back and didn't fit in with locals). Also white girls are pretty easy here.

I'm confused about Asia a bit. Like, is it white worshiping or what because I used to get told stories about how easy it is for white dudes and how locals worship them? I've read the whole David Bond article that the white guy thing is a myth, but do the girls actually aesthetically prefer asian guys or is it just societal pressure stopping/cultural barriers stopping asian girls from dating white guys and if just a hookup, they'd go white?

I've also read this thread, but it seems confusing still to me.

I don't mind if I bang a white girl that largely prefers white dudes or a latina who prefers blacks. But something about banging a asian girl that prefers a white guy brings back bad memories of growing up in America, back 10-15 years ago when I was a teen and when it seemed like asian guys were untouchable even by asian women.

[Brosemite]

(11-03-2018 08:34 PM)brooklynboy Wrote:  

I'm confused about Asia a bit. Like, is it white worshiping or what because I used to get told stories about how easy it is for white dudes and how locals worship them? I've read the whole David Bond article that the white guy thing is a myth, but do the girls actually aesthetically prefer asian guys or is it just societal pressure stopping/cultural barriers stopping asian girls from dating white guys and if just a hookup, they'd go white?

I've also read this thread, but it seems confusing still to me.

I don't mind if I bang a white girl that largely prefers white dudes or a latina who prefers blacks. But something about banging a asian girl that prefers a white guy brings back bad memories of growing up in America, back 10-15 years ago when I was a teen and when it seemed like asian guys were untouchable even by asian women.

If an Asian chick hooks up with a white guy, how does that make your life any worse?

What do you lose?

Care to elaborate?

[brooklynboy]

(11-03-2018 08:47 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  

(11-03-2018 08:34 PM)brooklynboy Wrote:  

I'm confused about Asia a bit. Like, is it white worshiping or what because I used to get told stories about how easy it is for white dudes and how locals worship them? I've read the whole David Bond article that the white guy thing is a myth, but do the girls actually aesthetically prefer asian guys or is it just societal pressure stopping/cultural barriers stopping asian girls from dating white guys and if just a hookup, they'd go white?

I've also read this thread, but it seems confusing still to me.

I don't mind if I bang a white girl that largely prefers white dudes or a latina who prefers blacks. But something about banging a asian girl that prefers a white guy brings back bad memories of growing up in America, back 10-15 years ago when I was a teen and when it seemed like asian guys were untouchable even by asian women.

If an Asian chick hooks up with a white guy, how does that make your life any worse?

What do you lose?

Care to elaborate?

4 reasons it bugs me:

Mainly it just brings back bad memories of my teenage years. I said that in your quote. It brings back bad memories and bad feelings.

Second, it's a symptom of deeper structural issues. Just like light skin is beautiful because it means you don't need to work or that tanned skin is beautiful because you're sporty and have money for leisure, beauty and preferences are a indicator of what that culture deems as having more value. If girls en masse decides to hookup with a certain type and avoid another type, then it is a societal judgement on what is considered high value and "good". Thus it is a reminder of how backwards asian guys are in this world in terms of social capital.

Third, sexual attention is a zero sum game and governed by the laws of supply and demand. Viewed from a supply and demand perspective, even things that don't seemingly don't have an impact on you, actually do on a macro scale.

Fourth and this doesn't count really for my current purpose. For serious relationships, I would never consider it. I would need a girl to have a strong "us vs them" mentality because then it becomes more consistent with my own identity and frame. But this is irrelevant to me as I've focused mainly on hooking up.

[Brosemite]

(11-03-2018 08:58 PM)brooklynboy Wrote:  

4 reasons it bugs me:

Mainly it just brings back bad memories of my teenage years. I said that in your quote. It brings back bad memories and bad feelings.

Second, it's a symptom of deeper structural issues. Just like light skin is beautiful because it means you don't need to work or that tanned skin is beautiful because you're sporty and have money for leisure, beauty and preferences are a indicator of what that culture deems as having more value. If girls en masse decides to hookup with a certain type and avoid another type, then it is a societal judgement on what is considered high value and "good". Thus it is a reminder of how backwards asian guys are in this world in terms of social capital.

Third, sexual attention is a zero sum game and governed by the laws of supply and demand. Viewed from a supply and demand perspective, even things that don't seemingly don't have an impact on you, actually do on a macro scale.

Fourth and this doesn't count really for my current purpose. For serious relationships, I would never consider it. I would need a girl to have a strong "us vs them" mentality because then it becomes more consistent with my own identity and frame. But this is irrelevant to me as I've focused mainly on hooking up.

Blah blah blah blah blah. Start dating non-Asian chicks on the reg & all that imaginary shit in your head won't even be relevant.

I love being a well put together Asian dude. There's so much shit I can get away with. You sound like a total baby

[brooklynboy]

(11-03-2018 09:42 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  

(11-03-2018 08:58 PM)brooklynboy Wrote:  

4 reasons it bugs me:

Mainly it just brings back bad memories of my teenage years. I said that in your quote. It brings back bad memories and bad feelings.

Second, it's a symptom of deeper structural issues. Just like light skin is beautiful because it means you don't need to work or that tanned skin is beautiful because you're sporty and have money for leisure, beauty and preferences are a indicator of what that culture deems as having more value. If girls en masse decides to hookup with a certain type and avoid another type, then it is a societal judgement on what is considered high value and "good". Thus it is a reminder of how backwards asian guys are in this world in terms of social capital.

Third, sexual attention is a zero sum game and governed by the laws of supply and demand. Viewed from a supply and demand perspective, even things that don't seemingly don't have an impact on you, actually do on a macro scale.

Fourth and this doesn't count really for my current purpose. For serious relationships, I would never consider it. I would need a girl to have a strong "us vs them" mentality because then it becomes more consistent with my own identity and frame. But this is irrelevant to me as I've focused mainly on hooking up.

Blah blah blah blah blah. Start dating non-Asian chicks on the reg & all that imaginary shit in your head won't even be relevant.

I love being a well put together Asian dude. There's so much shit I can get away with. You sound like a total baby

I do. I've lived in Chicago for 4 years where there were barely any asians and hooked up just fine (mostly latinas and blacks).

You made assumptions because you think a well put together asian guy will think EXACTLY like you because everyone else who doesn't think like you, is obviously a baby.

[Aquarius]

@brooklynboy, Before you get banned with this type of attitude as a newbie poster, let me ask you this:

What is your problem?

If your problem is that your disgusted at the sight of AFWM couples, then either try to bang as many white girls as possible (Brosemite is an expert on that and I'm sure he can give you some good advice on getting started on that). If you are not attracted to white girls like many Asian guys are, then just try your best at self improvement and bang as many Asian girls as you can, or get this hot Asian FWB. Once you have your own hot Asian girl(s), your self esteem would be high enough that you'll simply zone out all AFWM couples from your eyesight.

If your problem is that your disgusted at banging Asian chicks who have banged white dudes before, shouldn't you be proud of yourself that you are banging said girl? To do so, you must have had tight enough game to convince an Asian chick whose otherwise a white male groupie to choose a guy of her own race instead (you). In this case, you are specifically contributing to turning the tide for the perception of Asian guys, so be proud!

[Brosemite]

(11-03-2018 10:07 PM)brooklynboy Wrote:  

You made assumptions because you think a well put together asian guy will think EXACTLY like you because everyone else who doesn't think like you, is obviously a baby.

Actually, you're right.

Anybody can be a well put together guy though it's irrelevant if you have:
A) Self-limiting beliefs
B) Inferiority complex

I'm sorry you have issues in that regards though you're message is quite toxic in that it attempts to drag others down in thinking the same way you do. As you can see in this thread, the emphasis is mainly self-improvement so do your best not to drag others into this miserable world that you've created for yourself.

At the end of the day, I absolutely value myself as a person, what I can offer to others, and am resourceful when it comes to getting what I want.

^Being a well-put together guy is absolutely useless if you do not develop a mentality like that

[brooklynboy]

(11-03-2018 10:25 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  

(11-03-2018 10:07 PM)brooklynboy Wrote:  

You made assumptions because you think a well put together asian guy will think EXACTLY like you because everyone else who doesn't think like you, is obviously a baby.

Actually, you're right.

Anybody can be a well put together guy though it's irrelevant if you have:
A) Self-limiting beliefs
B) Inferiority complex

I'm sorry you have issues in that regards though you're message is quite toxic in that it attempts to drag others down in thinking the same way you do. As you can see in this thread, the emphasis is mainly self-improvement so do your best not to drag others into this miserable world that you've created for yourself.

At the end of the day, I absolutely value myself as a person, what I can offer to others, and am resourceful when it comes to getting what I want.

^Being a well-put together guy is absolutely useless if you do not develop a mentality like that

Gotcha, fair points. Thanks for putting together that reply, I won't argue this perspective I have in this thread at least then.

(11-03-2018 10:16 PM)Aquarius Wrote:  

@brooklynboy, Before you get banned with this type of attitude as a newbie poster, let me ask you this:

What is your problem?

If your problem is that your disgusted at the sight of AFWM couples, then either try to bang as many white girls as possible (Brosemite is an expert on that and I'm sure he can give you some good advice on getting started on that). If you are not attracted to white girls like many Asian guys are, then just try your best at self improvement and bang as many Asian girls as you can, or get this hot Asian FWB. Once you have your own hot Asian girl(s), your self esteem would be high enough that you'll simply zone out all AFWM couples from your eyesight.

If your problem is that your disgusted at banging Asian chicks who have banged white dudes before, shouldn't you be proud of yourself that you are banging said girl? To do so, you must have had tight enough game to convince an Asian chick whose otherwise a white male groupie to choose a guy of her own race instead (you). In this case, you are specifically contributing to turning the tide for the perception of Asian guys, so be proud!

You know it's funny, the need to balance out the disparity was the main reason I got into learning game in the first place and kept going out and going into self improvement (though mostly of the aesthetic and game variety). Though even after hooking up with a ton of non-asian girls, it didn't really make me feel much better, I just felt annoyed at screwing a girl society said was attractive and I didn't really find attractive.

As for the 2nd, fair points. Thanks. I'm jumping off here since it's not welcomed here and I'll respect this space.

Apologies

[Aquarius]

Quote:

Though even after hooking up with a ton of non-asian girls, it didn't really make me feel much better, I just felt annoyed at screwing a girl society said was attractive and I didn't really find attractive.

Solution:

Don't game girls you find unattractive period. Don't let society think for you. Think with your brain + dick. Your dick (and brain too obviously especially nowadays in the 21st century) should be guiding who you game.

It seems you don't like non-Asian girls. Its as simple as simply not gaming them. Treat them as street furniture, move to Asia or an Asian-majority part of the US, and there you go, plenty of Asian girls and you'd forget about the presence of non-Asian girls. I see you are already doing that, so keep at it!

[EEnomad]

(10-27-2018 12:53 AM)monsquid Wrote:  

Don't know about you guys but I'm about ready to pack it all up to seek a different life in Asia. Tired of feeling sexually invisible to most women. The amount of effort required to bang a 6 in the mid atlantic is heinous. At 33 I don't have much time left to be fucking around. I just don't see myself getting anymore satisfaction out of life in the US. I've thought this carefully through and I'm ready to take career hit to make this transition. Maybe after I have a family I will come back so I can raise my kids here but even that is questionable if I can maintain a decent of quality of life overseas.

Other than money living in the US seems to offer nothing else. Security and stability can be had in top tier asian cities.

Have you guys had similar thoughts? Maybe my patience is wearing thin.

Whoa hold on there. I'm not saying you are not right, as it is specific to each person but consider this: even the well put together guys of any race are dating down in NA. Those IG thots? They are spinning plates too.

I will say this for your situation: most of the time a western educated and experienced guy going to Asia slots in higher in the social strata upon arrival than a local all else being equal.

[GyopoPlayboy]

bros,

Anyone here able to bust out a datasheet for us Asian dudes on good ol' Los Angeles?

[monsquid]

Yeah I realize this thread is for positive and practical self improvement and practical information sharing so I'm not going to post along this topic. For most of my 20s I focused on self improvement and game. Got some results but now in my 30s I'm not happy with level of effort required to get notches or meet a potential LTR in this system in the west. Maybe my SMV is low but I'm no scrub either. Since I can't change the culture I can only take action and vote my feet and go to asia. That's where I'm at now, especially now I want to focus more on LTR and have kids before I get too old.

If any bro wants to discuss asian male in the west dating frustrations, complaints, or thoughts feel free to PM me.

[Recaross]

(11-04-2018 08:32 AM)GyopoPlayboy Wrote:  

bros,

Anyone here able to bust out a datasheet for us Asian dudes on good ol' Los Angeles?

I'm new to this site so I don't have a datasheet per se, but I'm Korean-American, 5'10" very muscular physique living in LA/OC area for the last couple years. I mainly use online dating to get laid, as I don't go out to the bars anymore really. But it's fairly easy. LA is THE best place for Asian guys in the U.S., besides Hawaii which I had very easy time while living there. But LA happens in seasons, when summer starts coming endless matches and gets cold during the winter. But when it's hot, it's pretty crazy. I will have 3-6 girls at the same time, done 3 dates in same day many times.. 5 different lays in one week. Last two days I was just too tired to go on, but I had some lined up. Mostly match with asian girls though, which is cool with me.

[Asian]

Anyone have been to Vilnius?
Heading there alone for few days in the end of november.

[vettel96]

(11-11-2018 08:45 AM)Asian Wrote:  

Anyone have been to Vilnius?
Heading there alone for few days in the end of november.

I will be in Vilnius too around this time, live close by. PM me if would like to meet up.

[robhay]

I live Hollywood and honestly LA is the best for Asians...maybe NYC is comparable but I do far more lays here doing day game than anywhere i've lived previously. I live next to a tourist hub that the majority of my activity with the occasional night game.

Thinking of hitting the Baltic(Riga, Tallin, Vilanius around NYE...will hit you up)

[Asian]

(11-13-2018 01:54 PM)robhay Wrote:  

I live Hollywood and honestly LA is the best for Asians...maybe NYC is comparable but I do far more lays here doing day game than anywhere i've lived previously. I live next to a tourist hub that the majority of my activity with the occasional night game.

Thinking of hitting the Baltic(Riga, Tallin, Vilanius around NYE...will hit you up)

Come at the end of the month

[Roller1]

Hi All

I'm looking for a wingman in London.

There's the Hyper Japan festival this weekend, and I've done it solo before.

Message me

[Asian]

(11-12-2018 04:15 AM)vettel96 Wrote:  

(11-11-2018 08:45 AM)Asian Wrote:  

Anyone have been to Vilnius?
Heading there alone for few days in the end of november.

I will be in Vilnius too around this time, live close by. PM me if would like to meet up.

I can't send PM, send me one with your number.

[Rok1010]

Hi Brooklyn Boy,

Please specify, i am due for HK, SG, KL visits.
Have you actually banged a white girl in these countries? (Plz no disrespect, if you actually banged one, then how easy is it or you are just speculating?)
Hows logistics, how do you meet them? Where are the international bars these white girls hangout?
I am working on some girls in Beijing and Tokyo.
No luck in Seoul, because I dont know where to meet them.
Your stories would be appreciated. Thanks.

brooklynboy [0]
and have actually been bouncing between HK, SG and various SEA states for a while. .....me, I spent a month in HK and currently in week 3 at SG..... Also white girls are pretty easy here.

[Rok1010]

Robhay, PM, i could join.