[Giovonny]

Guys contact me all the time looking for day game help.

I often ignore their pm's. I want to see if they will pm me again.

Most guys never do. They want it but they don't need it.

Other guys will pm me 2-3 times a week. They won't take "no" for an answer. These guys need it! They say -- "Gio, when are you available", "I will come to you", "I will pay you", "I'm only in town for 3 days, I have to see you"

It can be annoying but I have to respect it.

I have noticed a trend..

Guys that only try once and then give up don't improve much. They are afraid to take risks, afraid to put themselves out there, afraid of rejection, etc.

Guys that are very persistent get better quickly. They are so focused on their goals that they don't even notice little rejections and set backs.

Some guys want it, some guys need it, some guys have to have it.

Another strange thing I noticed is this...

Guys who have this persistent mindset have money.

Guys who give up easily are broke.

It has been interesting to observe.

Wanting it is not enough. You must need it. You must crave it. You must bleed for it.

Wanting is not enough.

[DVY]

Good stuff Gio. Maybe, Ill have the opportunity to daygame w/you sometime. Our schedules didn't work out my last trip.

You need your own thread brother. Love your little reflections.

Another side-benefit is that itll all be aggregated in 1 spot, which makes reference easier- a sort of "Gio Pontificates on Game and Life" thread.

[el mechanico]

Umm.. Gio if I pm you and ask you something and you don't respond I'm just going to think you're a dick.

[worldwidetraveler]

(08-16-2013 04:38 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Umm.. Gio if I pm you and ask you something and you don't respond I'm just going to think you're a dick.

Gio is shit testing them. haha

[Giovonny]

(08-16-2013 04:38 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Umm.. Gio if I pm you and ask you something and you don't respond I'm just going to think you're a dick.

I am a dick, but..

I would never ignore you Uncle El.

My heart is Greek!

[worldwidetraveler]

Actually, it is a good way to make sure you don't waste time.

[el mechanico]

(08-16-2013 04:49 PM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  

Actually, it is a good way to make sure you don't waste time.

In the business world it's a good way to dig your grave.

[worldwidetraveler]

(08-16-2013 04:53 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(08-16-2013 04:49 PM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  

Actually, it is a good way to make sure you don't waste time.

In the business world it's a good way to dig your grave.

I'm confused, is Gio in the coaching business?

[Giovonny]

(08-16-2013 04:53 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

In the business world it's a good way to dig your grave.

Fuck! You're right!

I will start answering all pm's.

Thanks for the reminder.

(08-16-2013 04:58 PM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  

I'm confused, is Gio in the coaching business?

Yes

[worldwidetraveler]

(08-16-2013 05:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Yes

That is a little different then. I thought you were just helping guys for some good mojo. hah

Qualifying customers is a good thing if you want to really help people. Not answering requests wouldn't be a good way to qualify. You can have them approach 20 girls and write up the experience of each one to send to you before you take them on.

Something like that would qualify them and if they don't follow through it is on them.

[el mechanico]

How much is your coaching? I charge 1000 a day or 2500 for the weekend..Fri night- Sunday night.