So are you going to tell us where you went and your experience?
Itinerary suggestions for Indian dude - 2 weeks
Ok where do I start. I’ll outline my experiences overall in each place. Feel free to ask about anything specific and I will elaborate.
India – I went there for work (Gurgaon, New Delhi area) and a lot of the girls I met at work were 20-something Indian. Out of about a 100 of them 2 were probably 8s, 5 – 10 7s and the rest were 5- with some 6s thrown in there. However, there were also a couple “expats” from France and the other was from Norway I think. The Norweigan was a short blond (a 7) and the French, a tall brunette (a 6.5 to 7) and another tall arabian girl (7.5). I spoke to all of them and hung out with all of them. However, when it came time to spit game, I was finally at a dinner with the tall French brunette, she asked me if I was married. I had already told certain people I met in the office that I was married. She may have already gathered that from someone else from the office maybe. I choked and told her yes. I don’t think it mattered that I told her I was married; I think the fact that I myself thought that my chances are gone after telling her mattered more. I made a judgment on how the girl thinks and that was a mistake. Other than that, the blonde had asked me to come with them on short trips over the weekend to Goa etc. I declined because I had friends that I grew up with that I wanted to see. I also went to Connaught place and a few other areas known to have Russian women but didn’t see anything. There is also a Russian shopping area that I went to. There were some mean looking Russian dudes in the store but it was early Saturday morning and no traffic. I presume the Russian girls that would have gone there likely were with high paying clientele the night before. I did make it to a fairly mixed club one night and noticed a lot of dollish looking Russian girls there (obviously prostitutes). They looked superficial and considering I was one of the 100 Indian guys in the place and it was loud, it wouldn’t have been easy to get any anyways. India was the best I felt when I was out there; a close one with Thailand.
Thailand – 4 nights; I stayed close to Soi Cowboy; very close. First night, I went out later at night (8-9 pm ish) to Soi Cowboy. I can’t remember the bar I went to but it had coyote girls dressed like cow girls and the bar girls (strippers) dressed in red lingerie. I dressed well when I was out there. I wore a solid color bright shirt with nice jeans and boots with a jacket. That was my set up when I was out. I also generally spike my hair in the front. This gives me a clean cut American look even though I am a fairly dark skinned Indian guy. I got enough attention from the girls; really no different from the white guys I thought. The girls and mamasans at the bars did push me for tips though and it was hard to resist them too much. I eventually took an older girl back; she was likely in her early 30s; not bad looking, nice body. She took good care of me.
The next day, I was feeling bad about myself but went out to Club Poseidon (it is supposed to be an elite gentlemen’s club). I eventually found a girl I liked. She had an amazing body and a fairly inviting face. She took amazing care of me and I did things that I always wanted to do. Great girl.
The next day I went to a “teen massage” place and had a younger girl there. She wasn’t that into it and the encounter finished quickly. The next night, I went out really late, ended up at a Soi Cowboy bar about the time they were closing. I finally caught the attention of a dancer; she talked to me for a bit; she was skinny and hot. All of a sudden the club closed and this girl ran like there was no tomorrow. She left; I should have paid early. I went to a nearby “dance club,” and met some white girls there; they happened to be from Switzerland. However, I was being very beta and put too much value on them. I walked away and ended up back in the room, lonely for the night. I flew out the next day to Stockholm.
Sweden – As far as the quality of good-looking people you will see, my opinion is that Stockholm has to be one of the best. I’m not saying this because of sheer good looks. It’s also the way people (not just women) dress. They wear expensive clothes and take very good care of themselves. At this point, I was feeling very low about what I was doing and because of this, felt it was okay to “not” put in effort. I was planning on staying one night in Sweden and booked a ferry to Finland. I stayed at the Hilton in Stockholm and walked to the Ferry. See below regarding the ferry. I like Indian food; I went to an Indian restaurant and met up with some Indian guys there. One of them was smooth; could talk to women well. The other was just an older guy that settled there (had a Swedish wife though). We went out one night, the smooth guy talked to a few women but ended up calling it a night. I could have probably had some if I tried as well but I was too chickenshit. This guy did tell me about a club that had slightly older women (MILFs) that would be easily interested; dude said that all you had to do was be dressed well, go in and stand there. I can’t remember the name of the place though. The older guy invited me to stay at his place but I respectfully declined. The streets out there at night are riddled with cute to hot women. Mornings and evenings are no different in this respect. There were some hipster chicks out there too trying to get me to wear a poster and walk around ; weird but cute white chicks make me nervous so rather than hold the conversation longer, I said no and walked away. One thing I noticed about Stockholm was that once night rolls around, the nearby bars and restaurants (especially in the hotels) get packed and loud. That to me implies friends socializing rather than complete strangers. I was too chickenshit. With some amount of motivation, I could have done it. However, based on my past and my situation, I really wasn’t mentally there.
Ferry from Stockholm to Helsinki – This ferry is supposed to apparently be some type of girl fest. However, be warned; you need to take the “right” ferry to have young chicks there. Ask the locals if you can. I think some guy mentioned that it’s the Friday night ferry or something that has the partying. There were nothing but older couples, guys etc. There were some girls. I met up with this Russian dude that was going for work and he had some female cohorts. They were all a bit aggressive; this dude danced with some random chick. She pushed him and he pushed her back; she came back to him after that. She was hammered drunk. I was just chilling out in my corner and not doing anything; just observing. I hit on some chicks once I was totally drunk, but no results whatsoever. There wasn’t great talent anyways. It was 6 – 7s there at best.
Finland – I got to Finland and checked into a Hilton there. I also stayed by a “Scandic” hotel by the ferry. I felt like shit by this point. I missed my kids and felt like a sleazebag. I went out, enjoyed the scenery and came back. I did go to a mall in the Helsinki area and noticed that there are some women that look decent. Otherwise, nothing to write home about ; definitely nothing close to Sweden. I did see, however, the bars were packed and it would be easy for someone with game to pick up a finnish girl fairly easily. I stayed in Finland for a good 3 nights; none of them fruitful. I just couldn’t get myself into that mood. I think the fact that Sweden and Finland have cultures that are fairly cold didn’t help either.
Ferry from Helsinki to Stockholm – same deal here, nothing special; however, I do think the talent was better on the way back to Stockholm. I met up with some very crazy Swedish dudes (jock type). They put on women’s clothes and were walking around. I talked to them and they invited me over to their cabin. Had some drinks and they weren’t afraid to talk to chicks. They talked to a finnish girl but nothing came of it. She was a 8 for sure. They weren’t closers was what I noticed. I don’t think any of them took a girl back. I think they were expecting a bunch of drunk chicks like I was and didn’t find any. One thing I absolutely recommend if you go – buy the dinner buffet. A lot of people go to this and getting in line for food is a good time to game some women.
When the trip was all said and done and I was back for another night at the Hilton in Stockholm, I was ready to go home because I felt so bad for what I did.
Anyhow, a few years later, I’m in the same spot, but realize that I don’t need to feel bad even though it’s tough. I just need to emotionally detach myself. I am definitely not looking for anything remotely resembling an affair. I just want to have some fun on the side to keep my marriage sane. This being said, I know that the answer isn’t going out gaming women. I think I need to make myself a better man overall: I mean work out, socialize and do things to feel good about myself (which may include flirting). Now I am in a job with less hours and have more free time. I just need to use that time to better myself. I just haven’t exactly figured out how yet.
I know this comes late and some details have gone into the dust but better late than never.
India – I went there for work (Gurgaon, New Delhi area) and a lot of the girls I met at work were 20-something Indian. Out of about a 100 of them 2 were probably 8s, 5 – 10 7s and the rest were 5- with some 6s thrown in there. However, there were also a couple “expats” from France and the other was from Norway I think. The Norweigan was a short blond (a 7) and the French, a tall brunette (a 6.5 to 7) and another tall arabian girl (7.5). I spoke to all of them and hung out with all of them. However, when it came time to spit game, I was finally at a dinner with the tall French brunette, she asked me if I was married. I had already told certain people I met in the office that I was married. She may have already gathered that from someone else from the office maybe. I choked and told her yes. I don’t think it mattered that I told her I was married; I think the fact that I myself thought that my chances are gone after telling her mattered more. I made a judgment on how the girl thinks and that was a mistake. Other than that, the blonde had asked me to come with them on short trips over the weekend to Goa etc. I declined because I had friends that I grew up with that I wanted to see. I also went to Connaught place and a few other areas known to have Russian women but didn’t see anything. There is also a Russian shopping area that I went to. There were some mean looking Russian dudes in the store but it was early Saturday morning and no traffic. I presume the Russian girls that would have gone there likely were with high paying clientele the night before. I did make it to a fairly mixed club one night and noticed a lot of dollish looking Russian girls there (obviously prostitutes). They looked superficial and considering I was one of the 100 Indian guys in the place and it was loud, it wouldn’t have been easy to get any anyways. India was the best I felt when I was out there; a close one with Thailand.
Thailand – 4 nights; I stayed close to Soi Cowboy; very close. First night, I went out later at night (8-9 pm ish) to Soi Cowboy. I can’t remember the bar I went to but it had coyote girls dressed like cow girls and the bar girls (strippers) dressed in red lingerie. I dressed well when I was out there. I wore a solid color bright shirt with nice jeans and boots with a jacket. That was my set up when I was out. I also generally spike my hair in the front. This gives me a clean cut American look even though I am a fairly dark skinned Indian guy. I got enough attention from the girls; really no different from the white guys I thought. The girls and mamasans at the bars did push me for tips though and it was hard to resist them too much. I eventually took an older girl back; she was likely in her early 30s; not bad looking, nice body. She took good care of me.
The next day, I was feeling bad about myself but went out to Club Poseidon (it is supposed to be an elite gentlemen’s club). I eventually found a girl I liked. She had an amazing body and a fairly inviting face. She took amazing care of me and I did things that I always wanted to do. Great girl.
The next day I went to a “teen massage” place and had a younger girl there. She wasn’t that into it and the encounter finished quickly. The next night, I went out really late, ended up at a Soi Cowboy bar about the time they were closing. I finally caught the attention of a dancer; she talked to me for a bit; she was skinny and hot. All of a sudden the club closed and this girl ran like there was no tomorrow. She left; I should have paid early. I went to a nearby “dance club,” and met some white girls there; they happened to be from Switzerland. However, I was being very beta and put too much value on them. I walked away and ended up back in the room, lonely for the night. I flew out the next day to Stockholm.
Sweden – As far as the quality of good-looking people you will see, my opinion is that Stockholm has to be one of the best. I’m not saying this because of sheer good looks. It’s also the way people (not just women) dress. They wear expensive clothes and take very good care of themselves. At this point, I was feeling very low about what I was doing and because of this, felt it was okay to “not” put in effort. I was planning on staying one night in Sweden and booked a ferry to Finland. I stayed at the Hilton in Stockholm and walked to the Ferry. See below regarding the ferry. I like Indian food; I went to an Indian restaurant and met up with some Indian guys there. One of them was smooth; could talk to women well. The other was just an older guy that settled there (had a Swedish wife though). We went out one night, the smooth guy talked to a few women but ended up calling it a night. I could have probably had some if I tried as well but I was too chickenshit. This guy did tell me about a club that had slightly older women (MILFs) that would be easily interested; dude said that all you had to do was be dressed well, go in and stand there. I can’t remember the name of the place though. The older guy invited me to stay at his place but I respectfully declined. The streets out there at night are riddled with cute to hot women. Mornings and evenings are no different in this respect. There were some hipster chicks out there too trying to get me to wear a poster and walk around ; weird but cute white chicks make me nervous so rather than hold the conversation longer, I said no and walked away. One thing I noticed about Stockholm was that once night rolls around, the nearby bars and restaurants (especially in the hotels) get packed and loud. That to me implies friends socializing rather than complete strangers. I was too chickenshit. With some amount of motivation, I could have done it. However, based on my past and my situation, I really wasn’t mentally there.
Ferry from Stockholm to Helsinki – This ferry is supposed to apparently be some type of girl fest. However, be warned; you need to take the “right” ferry to have young chicks there. Ask the locals if you can. I think some guy mentioned that it’s the Friday night ferry or something that has the partying. There were nothing but older couples, guys etc. There were some girls. I met up with this Russian dude that was going for work and he had some female cohorts. They were all a bit aggressive; this dude danced with some random chick. She pushed him and he pushed her back; she came back to him after that. She was hammered drunk. I was just chilling out in my corner and not doing anything; just observing. I hit on some chicks once I was totally drunk, but no results whatsoever. There wasn’t great talent anyways. It was 6 – 7s there at best.
Finland – I got to Finland and checked into a Hilton there. I also stayed by a “Scandic” hotel by the ferry. I felt like shit by this point. I missed my kids and felt like a sleazebag. I went out, enjoyed the scenery and came back. I did go to a mall in the Helsinki area and noticed that there are some women that look decent. Otherwise, nothing to write home about ; definitely nothing close to Sweden. I did see, however, the bars were packed and it would be easy for someone with game to pick up a finnish girl fairly easily. I stayed in Finland for a good 3 nights; none of them fruitful. I just couldn’t get myself into that mood. I think the fact that Sweden and Finland have cultures that are fairly cold didn’t help either.
Ferry from Helsinki to Stockholm – same deal here, nothing special; however, I do think the talent was better on the way back to Stockholm. I met up with some very crazy Swedish dudes (jock type). They put on women’s clothes and were walking around. I talked to them and they invited me over to their cabin. Had some drinks and they weren’t afraid to talk to chicks. They talked to a finnish girl but nothing came of it. She was a 8 for sure. They weren’t closers was what I noticed. I don’t think any of them took a girl back. I think they were expecting a bunch of drunk chicks like I was and didn’t find any. One thing I absolutely recommend if you go – buy the dinner buffet. A lot of people go to this and getting in line for food is a good time to game some women.
When the trip was all said and done and I was back for another night at the Hilton in Stockholm, I was ready to go home because I felt so bad for what I did.
Anyhow, a few years later, I’m in the same spot, but realize that I don’t need to feel bad even though it’s tough. I just need to emotionally detach myself. I am definitely not looking for anything remotely resembling an affair. I just want to have some fun on the side to keep my marriage sane. This being said, I know that the answer isn’t going out gaming women. I think I need to make myself a better man overall: I mean work out, socialize and do things to feel good about myself (which may include flirting). Now I am in a job with less hours and have more free time. I just need to use that time to better myself. I just haven’t exactly figured out how yet.
I know this comes late and some details have gone into the dust but better late than never.
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