Most winging threads that I read were some combination of three scenarios:
1) Wing has higher skill and member either learns a lot from them, or member gets butt hurt that they don't get the girl they wanted.
2) Wing has similar skill and member either is proud to have someone to grow with and motivate them to succeed, or member gets pissed at them for some other ego related reason.
3) Wing has less skill and member either takes the opportunity to help mold a future player, or member gets pissed they are getting held back and missing out on pussy, and drops the wing entirely.
I'm lucky enough that right now I have one of each kind that I trust with my life, and an extra of flavor 1.
There are plenty of posts of all three, although most are the negative attitude of 3 (not always a bad thing when wing is hopeless and truly bringing down your life, I've done it).
My insight is on #1, because if I have a choice is rather learn than teach because it motivates me more.
One game mentor is Fox, he's been hardcore MM for eight years, well over 100 notches, and a true sociopath and friend. We've been wings for about two years.
The other is Shears, he is the most inspiring red pill individual I have ever met, a year younger than myself, and inspires me to take that pill every morning with my ACV/NOS elixer every morning.
Anyways the insight is only useful if your wing is a True Bro. This means you have no ego or petty jealousy with them, or if you do you can quickly logic yourself out of it (we are men, after all, and we can do this where women have a much harder time or are incapable). The level of Bro-manship has to be such where you'd be willing to die, to jump on a literal or metaphorical grenade for.
The insight is this: your results are maximized when the more best player goes after the more difficult target.
I can out-energy Fox, but because he is a TB he can step back and let me lead if my target is more extroverted and needs a strong leader (see AFC Adam's 3 male and female personalities).
I've gotten laid with all 3 wing scenarios, and that one underlying pattern is a better predictor of success than any other.
1) Wing has higher skill and member either learns a lot from them, or member gets butt hurt that they don't get the girl they wanted.
2) Wing has similar skill and member either is proud to have someone to grow with and motivate them to succeed, or member gets pissed at them for some other ego related reason.
3) Wing has less skill and member either takes the opportunity to help mold a future player, or member gets pissed they are getting held back and missing out on pussy, and drops the wing entirely.
I'm lucky enough that right now I have one of each kind that I trust with my life, and an extra of flavor 1.
There are plenty of posts of all three, although most are the negative attitude of 3 (not always a bad thing when wing is hopeless and truly bringing down your life, I've done it).
My insight is on #1, because if I have a choice is rather learn than teach because it motivates me more.
One game mentor is Fox, he's been hardcore MM for eight years, well over 100 notches, and a true sociopath and friend. We've been wings for about two years.
The other is Shears, he is the most inspiring red pill individual I have ever met, a year younger than myself, and inspires me to take that pill every morning with my ACV/NOS elixer every morning.
Anyways the insight is only useful if your wing is a True Bro. This means you have no ego or petty jealousy with them, or if you do you can quickly logic yourself out of it (we are men, after all, and we can do this where women have a much harder time or are incapable). The level of Bro-manship has to be such where you'd be willing to die, to jump on a literal or metaphorical grenade for.
The insight is this: your results are maximized when the more best player goes after the more difficult target.
I can out-energy Fox, but because he is a TB he can step back and let me lead if my target is more extroverted and needs a strong leader (see AFC Adam's 3 male and female personalities).
I've gotten laid with all 3 wing scenarios, and that one underlying pattern is a better predictor of success than any other.