[uni]

Hi

Imagine this:

You have a girlfriend for 3 years and you live together with her.
You go for a weekend to your parents and that weekend she answers
the phone only sometimes, but she tells you she loves you
and you are so used to her, you push away the bad thoughts.

Actually she is cheating on you, for quite some time, with another guy,
and she's having anal sex and she's swallowing his sperm.

The problem is that your ego is too big to notice that,
and probably it wouldn't work anything...

Sincerely, is there anything in the world which would make you break up with a cheating girlfriend that loves you, but also likes having adventures around, without you knowing it?

Thank you for your thoughts

[KorbenDallas]

Your girlfriend doesn't love you if she's cheating on you. If a girl is cheating on a man and staying with him at the same time, she is using him. She doesn't respect him, views him as an idiot, or worse.

[Jaylow]

Asking her to marry you will solve all those problems. GL!

What gave away the anal? Were her poops way wider than normal?

newb forum ------>

[gandt]

By finding a guy to marry she has officially gained approval in the eyes of her friends, family, and co-workers. She has found a man that will sign off on her and provide for her, thus proving that she is high status.

In the eyes of those around her she appears well behaved and put together now that she has a man who has "spoken" for her. Therefore, she can now go off and do all the freaky shit she wants.

Welcome to the world of marriage - an outdated institution that should have been abandoned as soon as marrying a virgin was no longer important.

[uni]

Why I am asking the above question is that I know such a guy, whose girlfriend is cheating and having passional sex with other guys... and nobody is telling the poor guy, because they all think that nothing is going to change anyway...

and the guy is clueless and has a big ego...

[uni]

and also, in my experience, the guys get much more attached when they find out their girlfriend is cheating on them...

[martaj]

I suspect the guy in question has really low self esteem. No amount of love is worth having a whore like that in your life as a mate. And I refuse to believe that any guy can be clueless about such a whore.

[uni]

People don't want to know what hurts them. People don't want the truth.

And each one of us can put ourselves in this situation.

Really, think of this question:

Is there anything in the world which would make you break up with a cheating girlfriend that loves you, but also likes having adventures around, without you knowing it?


After all, nobody can give you absolute proofs like videos with the sex act with others,
on a silver plate...

[ZeD9]

(04-29-2013 02:40 AM)martaj Wrote:  

I suspect the guy in question has really low self esteem. No amount of love is worth having a whore like that in your life as a mate. And I refuse to believe that any guy can be clueless about such a whore.

Hear, hear, Brother!

[funkyzeit]

I am with my girl for a bit more than 8 months. I've never ever let my guard down. Sure, I behave aloof with her, tease her, have fun with her, but I never fully trust her even though she is very feminine and she takes care of my needs. I do reward her for that.

She used to sometimes praise other dudes when talking to me and I just tell her with a smirk to call them on a date if she likes them so much. If she continued with praising, I spontaneously (without beta butthurt) finished the date and then I was unreachable for a few days to her. Her messages and calls used to get so frequent by the third day that I considered buying another number. On the morning of the 4th day, I'll wake up to see like 7-8 missed calls from her and a message asking me if I'm alive and telling me that she's freaking out. I would then text her with "lets drink tonight" and she always showed up fully dolled up for me and was horny as hell.

Things like these happened four or five times before she stopped with shit tests and started with a practice of choosing words before speaking to me. I can detect those shifts in her speech and I just smirk knowing I did a good job.

[martaj]

(04-29-2013 03:30 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

I am with my girl for a bit more than 8 months. I've never ever let my guard down. Sure, I behave aloof with her, tease her, have fun with her, but I never fully trust her even though she is very feminine and she takes care of my needs. I do reward her for that.

She used to sometimes praise other dudes when talking to me and I just tell her with a smirk to call them on a date if she likes them so much. If she continued with praising, I spontaneously (without beta butthurt) finished the date and then I was unreachable for a few days to her. Her messages and calls used to get so frequent by the third day that I considered buying another number. On the morning of the 4th day, I'll wake up to see like 7-8 missed calls from her and a message asking me if I'm alive and telling me that she's freaking out. I would then text her with "lets drink tonight" and she always showed up fully dolled up for me and was horny as hell.

Things like these happened four or five times before she stopped with shit tests and started with a practice of choosing words before speaking to me. I can detect those shifts in her speech and I just smirk knowing I did a good job.

"Alpha doesn't care if she stays, lays or prays."

Outcome independence.

[funkyzeit]

And yeah, regarding your question, It's not the ego that is keeping you with her, it's being her bitch.

If you suspect something, subtly test her, she is human and she'll make a mistake if she is cheating and if you're good with psychological manipulation.

[uni]

I told the guy that her girlfriend is cheating on him.

He became ultraagressive, made death threats and of course did not believe anything at all.

They live together, and the illusion feeds itself with very good quality sex, because that's what this girl is best at...

11 situations, all end up the same: always the guys get attached more
to the girl who was cheating on them, and in ceash case, their bond is stronger and they end up marrying each other probably...

It proved once again that there is NO PROOF IN THE WORLD THAT A BOYFRIEND WHO WAS CHEATED UPON, will actually believe...

Think ... is there any proof ?

[Therapsid]

(04-29-2013 07:53 AM)uni Wrote:  

I told the guy that her girlfriend is cheating on him.

He became ultraagressive, made death threats and of course did not believe anything at all.

They live together, and the illusion feeds itself with very good quality sex, because that's what this girl is best at...

11 situations, all end up the same: always the guys get attached more
to the girl who was cheating on them, and in ceash case, their bond is stronger and they end up marrying each other probably...

It proved once again that there is NO PROOF IN THE WORLD THAT A BOYFRIEND WHO WAS CHEATED UPON, will actually believe...

Think ... is there any proof ?

If he's threatened your life, who the fuck cares? He's an asshole.

The truth is, you may have planted the seed of doubt that will hasten the end of the relationship, if only in that it will feed his insecurities and compel her to end it herself.

[Matt3B]

You did what you could, it's not your problem any more. There's nothing else you can do about it, he has to go through it himself now and suffer the consequences.

If he's your mate, I would revaluate your friendship with him. If he's not your mate and just someone you know, then leave him to it. No skin off your back and he deserves everything he gets if he's not listening to friendly advice.

Fuck it, maybe you can shag his girl and get away with it. At least you know she puts out.

[MidniteSpecial]

Stop calling her. She should be the one calling you worrying why you're not picking up.

[Hotwheels]

I'll admit that my ego has caused me problems in past relationships and it's still laying there under the surface if I'm not careful.

I think it comes from basically always getting my way growing up. In other words I can be an entitled bitch at times.

And I hate to lose.

And yes, rejection when approaching was a real bitch at one time and I still have to tell myself to let it go at times.

It can take a long time for some emotional traits to change and they don't always leave you entirely no matter how much you try to repress them.

[Seduction Sutra]

There was a time when I used to have a girlfriend that I really loved. She cheated on me with her ex. When I found out about that, I felt sick in my stomach. I never imagined that she could do this kind of thing to me. Then I realized that I couldn't change her. This is not the first time she did this, she did cheat on her ex as well.

I deleted her from my life practically. Her phone number. Her facebook. Her email address. Our photos. Basically everything that reminds me of her. I changed my phone number. Moved to another place. It's probably one of the lowest time in my life. However, I am glad that I did it. There's no way I am going to be with someone who cheated on me.

[Duke Castile]

The op is a troll.

[Power_Ranger]

I'd like to know how Op found about the anal trips. Is she relaxed afterwards in your bathroom OP?

atta boy!

[eradicator]

(05-02-2013 01:41 PM)Power_Ranger Wrote:  

I'd like to know how Op found about the anal trips. Is she relaxed afterwards in your bathroom OP?

atta boy!

I'd like to know how the OP knows the woman is cheating at all? The only way to know for sure would be if he is one of the guys banging her, or has other proof(pix making out with other dudes).

[Duke Castile]

(05-02-2013 02:13 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  

(05-02-2013 01:41 PM)Power_Ranger Wrote:  

I'd like to know how Op found about the anal trips. Is she relaxed afterwards in your bathroom OP?

atta boy!

I'd like to know how the OP knows the woman is cheating at all? The only way to know for sure would be if he is one of the guys banging her, or has other proof(pix making out with other dudes).

He's either the guy being cheated on or he's fucking his friends gf. Or he's making it all up. The op is a troll.

[Samseau]

(05-03-2013 02:35 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

(05-02-2013 02:13 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  

(05-02-2013 01:41 PM)Power_Ranger Wrote:  

I'd like to know how Op found about the anal trips. Is she relaxed afterwards in your bathroom OP?

atta boy!

I'd like to know how the OP knows the woman is cheating at all? The only way to know for sure would be if he is one of the guys banging her, or has other proof(pix making out with other dudes).

He's either the guy being cheated on or he's fucking his friends gf. Or he's making it all up. The op is a troll.

I dunno man. What he said about guys getting more attached when you tell them their GF is cheating rings true in my experience. So many men out there are hopeless.

[uni]

(05-03-2013 08:53 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

What he said about guys getting more attached when you tell them their GF is cheating rings true in my experience. So many men out there are hopeless.

I know because I am the one of the guys with whom the girl cheated on his boyfriend.

She told me she loves to experiment with different guys.

Guess what? After almost one week of staying in my apartment all the time naked and climbing naked on me to have sex without a condom,
her boyfriend is threatening to kill me, and he is going to marry her...

[Christian McQueen]

Troll. Even his wording is idiotic.