[Screwston]

Can you tell if a guy is decent with girls or one who falls in love with every girl that gives him some pussy? I mean a stranger or associate, not your buddy who you know well. Girls always tell me that I look like a hoe. I guess I just can't hide it baby


I'll never forget going out to the club for my first time when I was 18. The guys I went with asked me if I was gonna pull anything and started laughing. They were all football players and I was a skinny snake that moved like a cheetah through the fatties and cock blockers. Anyways, I was the only one that brought a girl home and they just looked in shock when we went into the room.

I think we come in all shapes, sizes and colors but I can usually chalk up a beta within a few minutes of conversation or by hawking. I wonder if girls can do the same?

[Deluge]

(10-20-2012 03:33 AM)houston Wrote:  

I think we come in all shapes, sizes and colors but I can usually chalk up a beta within a few minutes of conversation or by hawking. I wonder if girls can do the same?

They can do it better than we can.

[Neo]

(10-20-2012 06:09 AM)P Dog Wrote:  

(10-20-2012 03:33 AM)houston Wrote:  

I think we come in all shapes, sizes and colors but I can usually chalk up a beta within a few minutes of conversation or by hawking. I wonder if girls can do the same?

They can do it better than we can.

I can usually tell quickly if a guys a player or not, but sometimes it takes a bit of conversation. I need to hear their beliefs and how they go about their lives. If they seem to get worried and anxious about every damn thing, I guarantee they aren't getting anywhere with women.

Chicks get an initial impression of us and then use our behavior to put us in certain categories. I need to figure how to post a screen shot of a text exchange I had about a week ago. Basically I banged this girl on the same night, had sex with her a few more times then decided I didn't want to continue seeing her.

She sent me long text messages about how she wanted a LTR, but thought I just wanted something short term because I wanted sex right away and banged her on the first date. So aggression and going for sex early is a factor.

[Bacchus]

It's hard to tell if a dude's just killing it or is just a normal guy sometimes. It's much easier to see if a guy is a beta pussy or not. Men without options broadcast their low status through poor body language and ugly clothes.

But being a true player is much more than superficial things like body language and style, although it certainly helps. Every player is not a simp, but not every non-simp is a player.

[Tuthmosis]

I think of myself as a very low-key player; the untrained eye sees me as a normal-ass guy on the street. But, lately girls have been calling me out and saying stuff like, "I think you do this a lot." That doesn't stop things from progressing, but it definitely changes my traditionally under-the-radar approach that has defined my game for some time.

Random dudes I don't really know have also been confiding their exploits or asking me random advice within a few minutes of knowing them. In other words, something tells me that I'm putting off these "player vibes" you speak of.

[Screwston]

Is it better to be a low key player or an obvious one?

[Joga Bonito]

(10-20-2012 12:46 PM)houston Wrote:  

Is it better to be a low key player or an obvious one?

Kinda depends where you're at. As a student, in a college town being obvious can probably work against you eventually, whereas in a big city with varied venues it probably doesn't matter either way.

[FretDancer]

(10-20-2012 12:46 PM)houston Wrote:  

Is it better to be a low key player or an obvious one?

I rather be low-key. Let the girl find out you are actually very good with girls but still not sure about the 'player' thing yet. What she finds out next, well thats another thing.

I think its also good because it might help you reduce and avoid some drama and gossip.

[Knowledge Seeker]

I'd rather be known as a player than a guy who's afraid of pussy.

The funny thing is that even when girls call you out (ie. "You say this to all the girls dont' you?), they still remain attracted to you.

[Basil Ransom]

(10-20-2012 12:46 PM)houston Wrote:  

Is it better to be a low key player or an obvious one?

Depends on the time span.

If you're going to have extended contact with a girl, low-key. Think work, social circles, etc. She's going to be on-guard against players where there are social repercussions, and she'll have to keep seeing you if things go awry.

If you'll never see her again unless you close, you can be more obvious. If you're just a normal guy, girls won't feel motivated to invite a stranger into their life and fuck him, because they already know plenty of normal guys.

There are normal guys that get laid, that I wouldn't necessarily classify as players. The biggest tell is simply a guy who enjoys talking about meeting and banging girls. Provided he's not lying.

[Samseau]

(10-20-2012 12:46 PM)houston Wrote:  

Is it better to be a low key player or an obvious one?

I always prefer low-key. Nothing gets haters faster than being known as a player.

White-knights and angry spinsters will be headed your way as soon as word gets out.

[booshala]

I always thought that I occupied that weird gray area between beta and a real alpha type...

But the past two girls that I've taken home straight accused me of being a player... Right before we got down. afterward, it kind of opened my eyes to see the progress that I've made in the last six months. I'm digging the transformation and I've seen it extend in my choice of clothing and general body language.

That being said, my style is definitely low-key, sneaky, girl-says-to-herself "what did I just do with his guy?" type of game.