I am sure I am doing something wrong, but I don't know what. I would like to get your perspective here... So it is about two girls, and similar thing has happend. Let's call them Girl A and Girl B
Girl A
was summer. went out with a friend and when sun was down, went to bars and then early to club. club was only half full yet so we grabbed a drink and before the floor just started filling up we went on there. We danced for like 2 minutes when this hot chick (7/8) was coming to me and talking to me and dancing!!! my friend told me to be careful with her, as he seen her arguing with a guy and thinks they are a couple and fighting and she wants to make him jealous. that rang a bell. She then also went to a guy and argued with him. So I turned away from her and talked to my friend and told him: you were right ...
5 minutes later she came again to me and I asked if that was her boyfriend? i don't want to get into any shit ... and she was like ... nah only a friend and they are only discussing a minor issue. she went to the smoking room with me. talked for 5 min ... exchanged numbers and facebook. went back to the floor. she started kissing me and told me she won't fuck with me. i was like OK. 5 min later she said: OK, can we go to your place? ... i was sure. lets get a cab. we went to my place. i went to bathroom and when i came in my sleeping room she was already naked and told me that she is not fucking without condom immediately. I had to fight with myself not start laughing and said SURE. got condoms. laid on bed, wanted to make out first. one minute later she told me already to put the condom on. i did. she said she wants to be on top. i again said sure. she was riding me for like 10 minutes and wondered why I was not coming. I told her I drunk too much, it will take longer and might not happen at all. She was really trying to get me cum. We went to missionary, 2 minutes later she wanted to ride me again. OK ... on top of me she was asking me "are you sure your german. you seem to be more of a latin lover" ... i was ... haha and did not know what to say. in the end i did not come. was not sure if she came and wanted to finger and lick her. put two fingers in her and she was already exhaused from riding and it seemd quite intense and she acted like she could not take no more and asked me to stop. i did not care at that time as I was tired as well and had to work next day. we agreed to sleep. no cuddling. just sleeping.
got up next morning. showered, dressed, small talk. she forgot already that she has given me her number i think and when saying good bye she said: see you in the club next time. i thought, OK, she does not want to see me again too soon then. I texted her in the afternoon again some stuff like how her day went or so ... and after 5 messages forth and back she told me she wants to date someone else. I think that was just an excuse. never heard of her again.
Girl B
similar. also a 7 or 8.i was writing her on an online platform like facebook talked for a week and decided to meet in a bar. went to the bar. talked for like 1/2 hours. got a bit drunk. sat next to each other. started touching her legs. then SHE kissed me to my surprise. I was already thinking, how the fuck am i going to kiss her now and she did it. made out. went out of the bar and continued making out (it was cold ... winter). i told her i am gonna take a cab home now and she can join. but she told me she did not want to have sex on first date. i said, is she sure that she does not want to come and she was thinking for a few seconds and said: OK i am coming. but no sex .... bla bla ... i was like OK.
arrived at my place ... making out. putting my finger in her vagina. she was very wet. so wet that i had to get that shit of my fingers as it was creeping me out. i put that wet shit on my sheets (and did laundry next day hahaha). I was like: too bad you don't want to fuck. and she goes OK OK OK ... get a condom. i got it on put my dick in her pussy. fucked her. again, was too drunk to come. but i wanted to as the blue balls were on the way form the whole making out. so i told her that i want to fuck her from behind. she goes ... hmmm sometimes it hurts a bit and sometimes does not. but she agreed. so we went to doggy and i fucked her from behind. she said "wrong hole" and i noticed she thought i wanted to fuck her in the ass. I did not and thought that the good old doggy will make me cum. i told her ... no its OK. again, i did not come. i was too drunk. she was too.
so i had to again get up early next day and we left together. kissed and texted for many days. we had one coffee in a coffee shop before she went home to south america for christmas, i went to my home as well. we texted all the time on facebook. she came back, so did i after christmas. we met again and she told me she wants to go back to south america and work for her dad's company. (meaning ... no long term relationship). i was ok. that night she did not want to come to my place. i tried to set up a date at my place two or three times again on some other days and she always had excuses. so i told her ... fine ... if you don't want to come that is OK. she used that of course to tell me that she does not not want to come, btu she cant and if think that, i should fuck off. silence for a month when she texted me on my birthday. i invited her to a club to celebrate with me and my friends. she again had an excuse. two months later, i texted her again and she said maybe ... and in the end she had an excuse again. now i stopped ... dating some one else now.
Clearly, i am making something wrong. am i just to big of a pussy? of bad coincidence? or was it that the sex was not great? (if that is true, i should stop drinking) ... and no it is not that i was not attracted to them. they were really hot ... and i had some good sex in my life before but the first time is usually the worst time especially if alcohol is involved. do you see what is going wrong there? and sorry for the long text, but i thought that all details could be important to understand the issue ...
Girl A
was summer. went out with a friend and when sun was down, went to bars and then early to club. club was only half full yet so we grabbed a drink and before the floor just started filling up we went on there. We danced for like 2 minutes when this hot chick (7/8) was coming to me and talking to me and dancing!!! my friend told me to be careful with her, as he seen her arguing with a guy and thinks they are a couple and fighting and she wants to make him jealous. that rang a bell. She then also went to a guy and argued with him. So I turned away from her and talked to my friend and told him: you were right ...
5 minutes later she came again to me and I asked if that was her boyfriend? i don't want to get into any shit ... and she was like ... nah only a friend and they are only discussing a minor issue. she went to the smoking room with me. talked for 5 min ... exchanged numbers and facebook. went back to the floor. she started kissing me and told me she won't fuck with me. i was like OK. 5 min later she said: OK, can we go to your place? ... i was sure. lets get a cab. we went to my place. i went to bathroom and when i came in my sleeping room she was already naked and told me that she is not fucking without condom immediately. I had to fight with myself not start laughing and said SURE. got condoms. laid on bed, wanted to make out first. one minute later she told me already to put the condom on. i did. she said she wants to be on top. i again said sure. she was riding me for like 10 minutes and wondered why I was not coming. I told her I drunk too much, it will take longer and might not happen at all. She was really trying to get me cum. We went to missionary, 2 minutes later she wanted to ride me again. OK ... on top of me she was asking me "are you sure your german. you seem to be more of a latin lover" ... i was ... haha and did not know what to say. in the end i did not come. was not sure if she came and wanted to finger and lick her. put two fingers in her and she was already exhaused from riding and it seemd quite intense and she acted like she could not take no more and asked me to stop. i did not care at that time as I was tired as well and had to work next day. we agreed to sleep. no cuddling. just sleeping.
got up next morning. showered, dressed, small talk. she forgot already that she has given me her number i think and when saying good bye she said: see you in the club next time. i thought, OK, she does not want to see me again too soon then. I texted her in the afternoon again some stuff like how her day went or so ... and after 5 messages forth and back she told me she wants to date someone else. I think that was just an excuse. never heard of her again.
Girl B
similar. also a 7 or 8.i was writing her on an online platform like facebook talked for a week and decided to meet in a bar. went to the bar. talked for like 1/2 hours. got a bit drunk. sat next to each other. started touching her legs. then SHE kissed me to my surprise. I was already thinking, how the fuck am i going to kiss her now and she did it. made out. went out of the bar and continued making out (it was cold ... winter). i told her i am gonna take a cab home now and she can join. but she told me she did not want to have sex on first date. i said, is she sure that she does not want to come and she was thinking for a few seconds and said: OK i am coming. but no sex .... bla bla ... i was like OK.
arrived at my place ... making out. putting my finger in her vagina. she was very wet. so wet that i had to get that shit of my fingers as it was creeping me out. i put that wet shit on my sheets (and did laundry next day hahaha). I was like: too bad you don't want to fuck. and she goes OK OK OK ... get a condom. i got it on put my dick in her pussy. fucked her. again, was too drunk to come. but i wanted to as the blue balls were on the way form the whole making out. so i told her that i want to fuck her from behind. she goes ... hmmm sometimes it hurts a bit and sometimes does not. but she agreed. so we went to doggy and i fucked her from behind. she said "wrong hole" and i noticed she thought i wanted to fuck her in the ass. I did not and thought that the good old doggy will make me cum. i told her ... no its OK. again, i did not come. i was too drunk. she was too.
so i had to again get up early next day and we left together. kissed and texted for many days. we had one coffee in a coffee shop before she went home to south america for christmas, i went to my home as well. we texted all the time on facebook. she came back, so did i after christmas. we met again and she told me she wants to go back to south america and work for her dad's company. (meaning ... no long term relationship). i was ok. that night she did not want to come to my place. i tried to set up a date at my place two or three times again on some other days and she always had excuses. so i told her ... fine ... if you don't want to come that is OK. she used that of course to tell me that she does not not want to come, btu she cant and if think that, i should fuck off. silence for a month when she texted me on my birthday. i invited her to a club to celebrate with me and my friends. she again had an excuse. two months later, i texted her again and she said maybe ... and in the end she had an excuse again. now i stopped ... dating some one else now.
Clearly, i am making something wrong. am i just to big of a pussy? of bad coincidence? or was it that the sex was not great? (if that is true, i should stop drinking) ... and no it is not that i was not attracted to them. they were really hot ... and i had some good sex in my life before but the first time is usually the worst time especially if alcohol is involved. do you see what is going wrong there? and sorry for the long text, but i thought that all details could be important to understand the issue ...
