[ZonZon]

Forgive me. Be patient ... I am only 25% PUA; 25% Monger; 45% Romantic; and 5% Porn addict .. but, why are we supposed to TRY SO HARD to get pussy again?

Believe me, I have had enough for a platoon: Sometimes pussy ain't that great. There I said it. I feel better now. It is the God Damn Truth. Three years ago, I swore off one-night-stands, and with modest relapses, I have been successful. What is more a turn off that having to SELL in the wee hours? (Hell, I don't want to have sex with myself after a night on the town, hittin it hard. That's not ideal)

I have turned the opposite! I play with women, with the firm idea that a minority are worthy of my time sexually. I require a little anticipation, and if the woman in front of me is not naked and heaving, f I do not see signs of authentic desire, then I can have it my way - it aint worthy. I have passed on more naked women in the last 2 years, than I had in my early 30's. I would rather have it only one more times ON MY OWN TERMS than every night in the flavor of vanilla.

Is this such a minority view?

I am not BRAGGING! I am just saying, who said "garden variety pussy" is worth all the effort anyway? If I was stuck in the USA only - YEAH, that would be a dark day, indeed.

PS - When in the USA, I am a big fan of fetish models. Everybody needs a gimmick.

[alphanov]

True. I've recently proven to myself that I can get laid at will with a stranger pretty chick within at most 24 hours (say, 4 nights, 6 hours approaching per night). Since this realization all my horniness has vanished. I forced myself to go out the other night, but the drive is just not there. I figure that my brain doesn't need a notch per week to feel proud of itself.
For the first time in my life I'm happy all by myself. I can fart and have all the bed to myself, and I can focus on my career without constantly being worried about pussy. Most importantly, whenever I get horny, I can just go out and claim what's mine.

[Vitriol]

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Sometimes pussy ain't that great. There I said it. I feel better now. It is the God Damn Truth.

Well I don't think anyone honestly believes that getting some pussy is the greatest thing that can happen to you, or the only thing that matters in life.

Even if you read some of the posts that Roosh has made over the past several months it seems like he's less interested in chasing pussy and getting laid than he was a few years ago.

[gamepadawan]

is that the point where players decide to settle down?

[Lemmo]

It seems to be the fundamental problem in male-female relations. When societal pressure to marry has disappeared, teenage hormones have subsided and ONSs are readily available, how/why would a man ever come close to valuing a woman's vagina as much as she does? A woman is basically a baby making device and her outlook is correspondingly limited. It is kind of like if we had toasters walking around with minds and actions focused on making toast. Sure, I may like a hot piece of toast with butter and jam once in a while, but am I going to value it as much as the talking toaster? Or am I going to be willing to invest a lot of time and/or money in what is for me just a transient enjoyment (a piece of toast) but is for it the center of its existence? We'll never reach an agreement because buyer and seller are too far apart.

[sixsix]

My first thought: "Another I-don't-need-to-chase-women troll."

Too many guys rationalize their failure into the idea that they have standards, but...

My second thought: "Yeah, I have recently been feeling similar."

I have been going on many dates recently (hadn't done that before) and having too-easy sex. It makes me feel fucking empty. Go fuck then other chicks, but I still miss this one girl.

What I should and will do:

1. Aim higher

The girls have been good looking, but can be better looking. Going for 9s instead of 7s will make me feel better. Especially since looks-wise I am hotter than the girls I'm fucking so that means I can't really credit my game.

2. Find cool girls

Focus on the vibe and connection. I have been feeling empty because I don't respect these girls and don't want to see them again. So no new feelings to replace old feelings. I don't need to fall in love, but I do want to like the girl, hanging out and shooting the shit.

Seriously, it should make you feel better, not worse, so just focus on a satisfying strategy. Many girls? Fuck them all. One special girl? Get her. Many special girls? Haha, I'm on it.

[Woodpecker]

I find that the actual fun in 'pussy' is the seduction of a woman.

Of course I have 1000s of different fetishes, I find new ones when I see them.

Love tattooed girls some days, others like clean cut girl next door types

[tiggaling]

(03-31-2013 06:36 PM)ZonZon Wrote:  

but, why are we supposed to TRY SO HARD to get pussy again?

haha, the pussy needs it to be that way! otherwise it cannot spurt out new humans!

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Believe me, I have had enough for a platoon: Sometimes pussy ain't that great. There I said it. I feel better now. It is the God Damn Truth.

yeah, no shit. especially with anglo chicks.

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I have turned the opposite! I play with women, with the firm idea that a minority are worthy of my time sexually. I require a little anticipation, and if the woman in front of me is not naked and heaving, f I do not see signs of authentic desire, then I can have it my way - it aint worthy. I have passed on more naked women in the last 2 years, than I had in my early 30's. I would rather have it only one more times ON MY OWN TERMS than every night in the flavor of vanilla.

Is this such a minority view?

no, it sounds like most guys I know.

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I am not BRAGGING! I am just saying, who said "garden variety pussy" is worth all the effort anyway? If I was stuck in the USA only - YEAH, that would be a dark day, indeed.

Garden variety pussy isn't worth much effort. One guy said to me some time ago, "with a lot of the fucks you get, you would be better off using your hand!" A lot of females are just going to drain you rather than energising you - big difference between the two!

I'm a romantic though - and the right female can completley energise my life.

I think men do themselves a disservice by believing in "pussy power". As it is often not really about the pussy, it also about her ability to connect and energise and enrich you through making you feel good, in a metaphysical sense. I'm sure a lot, if most here know what I'm talking about. Now that is great stuff, and worth all the effort in the world.

[ZonZon]

(04-01-2013 06:01 AM)sixsix Wrote:  

My first thought: "Another I-don't-need-to-chase-women troll."

My second thought: "Yeah, I have recently been feeling similar."

1. Aim higher

2. Find cool girls
Focus on the vibe and connection.

No Troll - I have been biting my lip for some time. Aim higher, yes ... I can see how that would work for a younger guy. But, I date women that are 10 - 15 years younger, so when you get to this stage that whole "connection thing" takes on a different meaning.

Aim higher? Physically Hotter - game, money, right location ... and its a turkey shoot.

I think there is value in the concept of a rotating harem.