Quote: (06-13-2010 03:30 PM)clr Wrote:
So real quick I have to board the plane now but I was thinking, I love the qualities of Colombianas for example. They are hot, sexy, love sex, take care of their man. Cons, you kinda have to worry about infidelity, they chase the money and are jealous as hell,
I was thinking about how good girls turn to bitches from moving to the US and hanging out with american girls. They end up being more american like.
So what if you got a nice colombian girl and moved her to say.... Japan, or south east asia, where women are more submissive, dont cheat near as much (generalizing) etc.... they would start to act in accordance to the locals???!??!?!!? The whole opposite effect.
thoughts?
It's already been done by many hopeless romantic men my friend. There are 3 major problems with doing this:
1- Colombian culture dictates that especially women, are extremely tied to her mother and immediate family.
2- Take her 3,000 miles away from what she normally is used to, and chances are within 6 months, she'll be begging/fighting you to bring her back. The novelty, and romance of running away with you as your bride/fiance to a foreign land will wear off fairly quick, and when it does, you are in for an emotional roller coaster of hell. Eventually, Skype is just not going to cut it, and she'll drive you to insanity with her constant bitchiness after a while from her emotions of being away from her culture, family and friends. So, I don't see how this can be a long-term thing that has any chance of surviving for more than 3 years if you make it that far.
3- If she is not educated, then she must become educated not only in a new language, but also a new career - because the last thing you want, is her sitting at home "bored out of her mind"....bored women, WILL find ways to entertain themselves - and here comes the boy next door (a.k.a Jodi), or the new girlfriend who has a brother/cousin/good guy friend - with a serious eye on your trophy.
Colombianas who are taken out of their own society where they must compete for men, amongst women more beautiful than they are, and in record numbers - will change no matter where you take them. That is, unless its a remote island where its just you and her. =)
I'va banged colombian women with husbands and boyfriends in Argentina, Panama, Miami, New York, London, and Puerto Rico, Costa Rica and even Spain. So, this just tells me it's in their nature, not their environment.
I am not sure if you heard how a recent beauty pageant queen in Colombia had her face disfigured because someone threw acid on her face in Cucuta. This was very recent in the last 2 days or so. Competition amongst girls is extremely brutal to be the sexiest, and most beautiful, and most sought after. I have never seen any other country in the world place so most social pressure on women and vanity to such extremes.
As a result, Colombian women are the most needy and clingy women I have ever met on the planet. Constant attention, and a sense of security must be given to her on an hourly basis!! Fail to do this, and she'll look elsewhere to satisfy this craving for attention, just like we need to satisfy our craving for sex.
There are countless of stories like the one I just told you about - as much as I love banging Colombian women, I would never take her out of her natural element and bring her elsewhere to marry - the chances of infidelity have now increased by more than 75% for you simply because they are never satisfied, and want more....this is just how they are.
This is not to say that if you keep her in Colombia, she will be faithful to you, hell - I've banged girls with boyfriends in Colombia dozens of times, as I am almost certain that you have too. So, even in Colombia, there is no guarantee that cheating will not happen if she can get away with it.
After 20 years of dating and banging Colombian women, I have learned to not bother trying to change them - it's their culture. It is what it is. Enjoy them while you have 'em 'cuz exclusivity is not permanent.
Mixx