[TryingToFindJustice]

Howdy my peeps. So far i am loving a ton of threads. But I do want to know, can going abroad really substantially improve one's lay count if they do not get laid much if at all? Right now i average about 3 per year. I live in the District Of Cunts and seem to have zero success. The times i have went away even if its only a few times, is where I got my success. Vegas, a few beaches and a few other cities in the East Coast.

If i were to improve my logistics and find much better bars with girls who do want to leave with a guy in better cities, would that improve the lay count? I don't have trouble making the move or going through all the phases. But i wonder if its halting my progress.

Do you guys feel location can really transform a guy's success from lack of results to much better results? I am brotha but I don't think thats a big reason why i am struggling...

[WestCoast]

(03-02-2013 05:32 PM)TryingToFindJustice Wrote:  

Howdy my peeps. So far i am loving a ton of threads. But I do want to know, can going abroad really substantially improve one's lay count if they do not get laid much if at all? Right now i average about 3 per year. I live in the District Of Cunts and seem to have zero success. The times i have went away even if its only a few times, is where I got my success. Vegas, a few beaches and a few other cities in the East Coast.

If i were to improve my logistics and find much better bars with girls who do want to leave with a guy in better cities, would that improve the lay count? I don't have trouble making the move or going through all the phases. But i wonder if its halting my progress.

Do you guys feel location can really transform a guy's success from lack of results to much better results? I am brotha but I don't think thats a big reason why i am struggling...

Moving will improve your count. That's like asking "if I go where it is easier will it be easier"...

If you can bounce, do it.

[Khaleth]

While DC is definitely ripped upon daily on here, maybe it has something to do with your attitude while travelling. Maybe you're getting laid in different cities because you're in a good mood and more outgoing while travelling and that is conveyed in your attitude? Sometimes people kill a city on vacation, then find it lacklustre when they actually live there.

Or maybe DC really does just suck... Haha

[Menace]

Obvious questions are obvious. Please check one of the billion dc threads. Get a place in the city or move.

[NYC_HipsterDouchebag]

Move to NYC

[bgbusiness]

Big cities like Chicago, New York are the best for daygame and even for night game is pretty good.

If you REALLY REALLY WANT TO get into pickup, I say move to Las Vegas, live there for a year.

[LAKings]

While there is something to be said for going abroad and you may very well have better success there, I would improve your logistics first. DC is kind of lame for gaming, and I love foreign girls, but you shouldn't have a problem if you know what you are doing. I do think moving can change things, but make sure you do it for the right reasons. If you are in a position to move abroad, then do that.

[spaceman]

I worked my ass off to get laid in DC, but I had horrible logistics and crap game back then but I'd say move.
DC sucks like everyone else said, Roosh has a thousand threads about it.

[yankeetravels]

(03-02-2013 05:55 PM)Khaleth Wrote:  

While DC is definitely ripped upon daily on here, maybe it has something to do with your attitude while travelling. Maybe you're getting laid in different cities because you're in a good mood and more outgoing while travelling and that is conveyed in your attitude? Sometimes people kill a city on vacation, then find it lacklustre when they actually live there.

Or maybe DC really does just suck... Haha

I think there's something to be said for this. I'm convinced I have a better attitude when I'm on vacation and people see that which makes them more receptive to me. In my opinion, it's what I like to call the chicken and egg theory.

What I mean by that is the more friendly city/country will make your life easier and successful with less effort, but it will also make you feel better on the inside and more open to people, which in turn makes people more open to you. The environment can activate the gamer and the gamer can activate the environment.

I'm in a similar situation as OP. Live in one of the worst states in America for women by their attitude so I have less success there and I'm less motivated. But when I travel abroad, it's like another world.

[Irish]

Why are you worried so much about laycount? Really you should be focusing more on quality than quantity of notches.

When I was younger I thought notches meant something. But having been in the game for some time now, it has become almost entirely meaningless to me. The main reason for this being that in the vast majority of cases I have noticed 2 things about guys with particularly high notch counts:
(1) they have a big ego about their batting average and seem to be more in it to impress other guys than the actual pleasure of having sex with hot girls;
(2) they have zero standards and almost exclusively chase/bang chicks well beneath their potential

That said, from what I hear about DC it is really not the place to be for either quantity or quality. Get out. And do it not just for the chicks...