[Jaylow]

I havent got any STD's or girls preggers and I am going to guess thats worse but I find that the worst feeling by far is getting rejected by a 4-6. Basically someone that just barely qualifies as being attractive to you and turns you down. How often does this happen to you guys?

[presidentcarter]

Everyone has their own preferences. You shouldn't let that affect you at all.

[guerrilla]

You have to reframe it internally & not take it personally at all. When I get rejected by spinster who is likely overweight and has an awful personality I laugh it off, it's kinda funny that someone who is really that LOW on the totem pole of what it is to be a good person has such supremely high standards.

I've noticed that a big part of how you take so-called rejections is how you come into the set. If you approach with the mindset that you're going to seduce them, then a rejection is a rejection. If, however, you approach just on the basis of being cool & social and see where a little bit of communication takes you, then the "rejection" isn't really a rejection at all, but just something funny like "wow this person can't even talk to strangers hahahaha"

The again, a rejection isn't ever really a rejection, it could just be how you come off at that particular moment of time, especially if you're not socially warmed-up (especially important for natural introverts). Don't ever let it stop a re-approach because later on when you're more warmed-up and in a really outgoing mood, that same girl might be like "heyy!!! you're cool!!!! say something funny and amuse me!!!" haha

[bojangles]

(02-05-2013 11:03 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  

I havent got any STD's or girls preggers and I am going to guess thats worse but I find that the worst feeling by far is getting rejected by a 4-6. Basically someone that just barely qualifies as being attractive to you and turns you down. How often does this happen to you guys?

some girls reject you because you are too high value for them and have the feeling they will be just a pump and dump to you.

This is how I reframe it

[Matt3B]

(02-06-2013 06:26 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

(02-05-2013 11:03 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  

I havent got any STD's or girls preggers and I am going to guess thats worse but I find that the worst feeling by far is getting rejected by a 4-6. Basically someone that just barely qualifies as being attractive to you and turns you down. How often does this happen to you guys?

some girls reject you because you are too high value for them and have the feeling they will be just a pump and dump to you.

This is how I reframe it

Nah they're just lesbians haha.

Jaylow lad, our mate Jimmy opened a 3 set of ugly bitches for the hell of it one night and they tried to give him advice on how to pick women up. They turned him down as if they were all 10s and had a choice between all the thirsty guys in the world who were queuing up to hit on them after he was done talking to them. They were chubby and ugly, and they turned him down even though he wasn't even hitting on them. It happens mate. Don't let it affect you.

[lush1]

Yea its fucking annoying but reassuring in a way - it just proves that if you get knocked back its often because the lizard has poor judgement, rather than you being an ugly git with poor game. You can apply this to the 8s and 9s of this world so if you get KB by them you dont take it personal.

[Mikev75]

(02-05-2013 11:12 PM)guerrilla Wrote:  

I've noticed that a big part of how you take so-called rejections is how you come into the set. If you approach with the mindset that you're going to seduce them, then a rejection is a rejection. If, however, you approach just on the basis of being cool & social and see where a little bit of communication takes you, then the "rejection" isn't really a rejection at all, but just something funny like "wow this person can't even talk to strangers hahahaha"

sound advice

[RandalGraves]

It's their loss and they missed their shot.

[MikeinMKE]

yeah you'll get rejected by people from EVERY group. It's just the ratio is much lower from 4's and 5's - but it can still happen. I actually find that when I'm drunk and desperate and decide I'm horny enough to try and fuck a 5 then my game is very edgy and balls to the walls, because I refuse to give them the same effort/rapport building that I would with a 7 or 8. So I'll get rejected by 5's a time or two a month most likely. I don't dwell on it - there's a good chance that 24 hours later I'll be getting it on with a 7.5.

[Hannibal]

This is a good attitude to have.

[RouteBackwards]

(02-05-2013 11:03 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  

I havent got any STD's or girls preggers and I am going to guess thats worse but I find that the worst feeling by far is getting rejected by a 4-6. Basically someone that just barely qualifies as being attractive to you and turns you down. How often does this happen to you guys?

I've had uglies reject me just so they could feel good about rejecting an attractive guy.

Don't be that guy gaming those women in the first place and you have nothing to worry about.