.. if They Find Out About Your Other Girls.
If she's got an ounce of empathy or rationality, she's got to understand that you can't just break it off with other girls. She has to put herself in the other girls' shoes; there is an emotional bond between a man and his women. You'd be causing a separate amount of misery for each girl, and if you are seeing five girls at the same time, that's four times as much misery that you'd be putting out into the world than what she's "suffering" by tolerating your multiple relationships.
These girls should know never to even bring this up with you. I'm pretty sure that the girls in my rotation are aware that I'm "out a lot," and I try to keep my distance when they start to get clingy because I need to communicate to them that I will stop texting them if I sense drama on the horizon. I think this is easier to pull of for me because I'm a musician and their is a stereotype that musicians are ladies' men.
That said, my current crop of girls are well-behaved so-far.
If she's got an ounce of empathy or rationality, she's got to understand that you can't just break it off with other girls. She has to put herself in the other girls' shoes; there is an emotional bond between a man and his women. You'd be causing a separate amount of misery for each girl, and if you are seeing five girls at the same time, that's four times as much misery that you'd be putting out into the world than what she's "suffering" by tolerating your multiple relationships.
These girls should know never to even bring this up with you. I'm pretty sure that the girls in my rotation are aware that I'm "out a lot," and I try to keep my distance when they start to get clingy because I need to communicate to them that I will stop texting them if I sense drama on the horizon. I think this is easier to pull of for me because I'm a musician and their is a stereotype that musicians are ladies' men.
That said, my current crop of girls are well-behaved so-far.