[CJ]

With the weather getting warmer in most areas, I've got to ask what some of the experts here think are the best places to run day game?

The park? Obviously the beach when it gets much warmer. I've heard coffee shops are somewhat decent, however, I don't drink coffee. Other ideas, suggestions? This is one area of my game I really want to improve this season!

[speakeasy]

I don't know what city you live in, but maybe those type of outdoor malls or streets with lots of boutiques and restaurants. I don't know about approaching women walking down the street. Probably best to find women that are sitting down somewhere. I don't believe in hitting up moving targets, too difficult to get any connection with a girl who's trying to get somewhere. Check out this Australian guy's day game. He's pretty damn good! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-MIKGyhwKQ

The video is a bit old and he using canned material which I don't like, but he does a great job of blowing through bitch shields.

[Giovonny]

No one can just say ..."The mall is good for Day Game" or "The beach is good for Day Game". You gotta pick a spot that fits your vibe and conversational skills. Girls who are gonna feel you and girls who you are comfortable talking to. Stay in your "sweet spot". (Unless your are working on expanding your game)

Only you can decide where your best fit is. Only your personal experience. Where do you get the best reactions/vibes from girls? Where do the girls give you the best eye contact? Where do your types hang out? Etc.

This is where you gotta have a little street sense/social sense/observation skills/animal intelligence, etc.

Roosh used a word in one of his posts the other day that i loved...."HYPERAWARENESS"

This is one of the things that seperates the guys who get laid from the guys who don't.

It also happens to be one of the things that seperates guys who are good at sports from guys who are bad at them.

[CJ]

Sigh... I figured as much. How about things you can control regarding day game, like do you guys suggest going solo or having friends around, or is it all situational as well?

[BaronStanley]

This really depends on where you live.

Bookstores, grocery stores (Whole Foods is good), that trendy area of town with lots of boutiques and cafes (like speakeasy mentioned), public transportation, downtown areas where lots of ppl walk around, near or on college campuses.

Just pay attention as you go about your everyday mundane activities and approach the attractive woman you see.

Also as a general rule of thumb: the "nicer" the part of town you are in, the more hot vag there is. Slightly alter your daily routine so that you are naturally in more place where u will find attractive woman. For example, when I lived in a suburb of Dallas, I could drive 8 mins to the Wal Mart in the poorer part of town full of overweight Mexican ladies or drive 13 mins to the brand new Wal Mart in the upscale part of town. The extra 5 mins was worth it . Or better yet go to Target or Whole Foods instead if you are not a miser like me.

[Giovonny]

(04-26-2010 06:57 PM)CJ Wrote:  

How about things you can control regarding day game

Here is something you can control.

If there is not alot of cute girls there. Don't go there.

With freinds or going solo???

Why are you asking us? You should ask yourself which way are you most comfortable with? And, Which way has gotten you the best results?

[docsedated]

Day Game can run from Dawn to Dusk.... Situational Openers work for me , Pay attention to what the girls are buying , wearing , ask for help related to what they seem into that will get them talking...... Hit on Every single girl that comes in your field of vision, getting coffee @ DD, hit on girl in her business suit or college student, aboard Bus/train , flirt @`work, Business Acquintance, GO get Lunch at a Different place, Eat outside undera tree strike up a conversation with nerdy looking research assistant, Dedicate 15 min of time for a Hot spot of your choice what is described by Roosh as " Know your market " where you always get some attention.

At the end it's a numbers game ............ Approah a lot and later in your game you know or your cold read will get better and you will select venues/girls with favorable outcome.............

[Nonpareil]

My wiseass answer is 'wherever the girls are'. I love day game, it's really all I do anymore, since I'm not really a club guy these days and I only go to the bar or a lounge to watch the game of if I'm already on a date. That being said I do fuck less girls than I used to, but it's a personal victory. Some random thoughts that some have (and haven't said) on day game:

My favorite spots: A nice stretch of street, outdoor malls, flirting with girls while they work, parks, stores that are catered to women (seriously, no one does this but me? Flower shops, embroidery shops, boutiques, they're everywhere!) and of course, the bookstore. If it can be counted a University campus is also way up there.

Find your niche; if you're an ignorant prole, don't hit up the bookstore to chop that HB8 brunette with that wicked naughty librarian look you see glancing over Saussure, debating whether or not to buy it. If you are, go nuts. The only way is practice.

You gotta look good, like fresh, fly and in charge, and you need your confidence, charm and game at full measure, like spring-loaded. If you look good, you will get IOIs. Day game is the purest form of game, and its what seperates the men from the boys. Any fool can dragnet a club with a few teachings in play and make out with drunk girls and even get the odd same night lay...picking up a girl cold, sober, in a well-lit everyday environment then banging her is game.

That trendy new shopping district up the street, hit it. Girls will always go out of their way and to greater expense to do even their most menial day to day chores in places that are more attractive and 'trendy'. BaronStanley is spot on there; you have to go to the nicer areas for the better chicks. In school I lived in three different houses. Two were in shitty areas, but one was in a nice neighborhood and near a bunch of cool places. The girls in the nicer area were always better looking and more open.

Save the mall for the evening. That way, it's a lot less likely you're talking to a cutie for ten minutes before you find out she's 15. If you need to run day game in the mall, make sure she's 18.

One thing that has come up; 'So what do you do that you can afford to flirt with girls all day?' she asks. 'I'm a writer.', 'I work nights.', 'I'm off today.'. Not lying (as I do write, do occasionally work nights and prefer to take individual days as opposed to whole weeks for time off).

Springtime >>>>>>>> Autumn > or = Summertime >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Winter

I personally prefer the Autumn to Summer (a little cooler, the leaves, most relationships end in the fall etc.,), Springtime is excellent because the little chicks finally get out to play after spending winter packed in, and winter just sucks. Have fuckbuddies and go to parties in the winter to meet girls.

I never roll out solo; my lovable dumbass of a golden retriever usually goes most places with me. Obviously I can't bring him everywhere, but he is known by quite a few people on that almost sickeningly SWPL stretch of my town (with the yogalates studio and the organic fruit market). A dog is ten times better of a day game wingman than any friend you have, the manlier the dog, the better.

But if I didn't have a dog, I'd prefer to go at it myself. Because everything is out in the open in day game, your wingman is way more important in the day, and a bad wingman can totally salt your game.

But I guess the truth about day game is that you can run it anywhere during the day. Roissy did a post a while back about opportunities being everywhere and its dead on. If you see a girl that you like, you shouldn't hesitate to game her unless either a) she's pregnant, b) it's a hostage situation or c) her and her friends are having lunch or shopping together. You don't really hear about group approaches in day game.

[Kona]

Any beach with girls is the best daygame spot out there.

Aloha!

[CJ]

Some good stuff from almost everyone in this thread, much appreciated.

(04-26-2010 10:32 PM)Nonpareil Wrote:  

MI love day game, it's really all I do anymore, since I'm not really a club guy these days and I only go to the bar or a lounge to watch the game of if I'm already on a date.

I've been pretty sick of the bars myself, plus I'm working 3rd shift at the moment, so going to the bar at night isn't the smartest thing to do. The new law going into effect next week here that requires people to smoke outside only might make going to the bar more attractive though as every girl who wants to smoke will have to step outside for a minute, away from their friends and noise, I digress though.

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My favorite spots: A nice stretch of street, outdoor malls, flirting with girls while they work, parks, stores that are catered to women (seriously, no one does this but me? Flower shops, embroidery shops, boutiques, they're everywhere!) and of course, the bookstore. If it can be counted a University campus is also way up there.

I wish I was still in college! I wish I'd known some of this stuff in college, I'd have stayed single the whole time for sure. Those are some good ideas for spots though.

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I never roll out solo; my lovable dumbass of a golden retriever usually goes most places with me. A dog is ten times better of a day game wingman than any friend you have, the manlier the dog, the better.

But if I didn't have a dog, I'd prefer to go at it myself. Because everything is out in the open in day game, your wingman is way more important in the day, and a bad wingman can totally salt your game.

I used to have a regular wingman and he would flat out kill my game, I called him out on it a couple times and he was in denial, until I showed him some of this stuff. I still wouldn't use him though, because he's an idiot, and it makes me look like I hang around dumb people. The dog is brilliant though, I forgot how my uncle used to always have bait with him. This is why he was always quick to bring one of his nieces or nephews with him, just makes so much sense. Here he is watching the kids, but they're not his, so he's available.


The weather was really crappy here last week, but this weekend is calling for sun and 70, so I'll definitely see what I can get going. If any good comes of this, and I'm motivated enough, I'll give some detailed reports and ideas.

[Willy Wonka]

(04-26-2010 10:32 PM)Nonpareil Wrote:  

If you see a girl that you like, you shouldn't hesitate to game her unless either a) she's pregnant, b) it's a hostage situation or c) her and her friends are having lunch or shopping together. You don't really hear about group approaches in day game.

I disagree with c).... you can definitely group approach in day game. Why the fuck not?

[AlphaQup2nite]

(04-30-2010 01:14 PM)Willy Wonka Wrote:  

(04-26-2010 10:32 PM)Nonpareil Wrote:  

If you see a girl that you like, you shouldn't hesitate to game her unless either a) she's pregnant, b) it's a hostage situation or c) her and her friends are having lunch or shopping together. You don't really hear about group approaches in day game.

I disagree with c).... you can definitely group approach in day game. Why the fuck not?

Totally agree with this. When i was in Germany last week, i only approached groups during the few times i went out day gaming. I tried a few solo approaches and they didnt work out nearly as well.

The dog thing also is great. Girls love dogs. Peroid. It is nearly impossible to get blown out when you have a dog.

[gringoed]

Girls love babies too. I have a friend here who has a cute 1-yr old and we get opened all the time.

Is it against the law to open a rent-a-baby service?

[HD668B]

Sometimes I think a 2$ public transport ticket is worth more than a whole night in a club. Plenty of pretty young girls, some really genuine type who wouldnt make a slut of themselves every saturdays. Those have zero bitchshield, are naturally shy, and obviously dying to be approached by a sexy guy like me since every chode is looking at his shoes during the whole traject.