[Beyond Borders]

Not that I've considered pressing charges, but there have been several times women have hopped on my dick, raw-dog style, while I was fbar wasted (before I cut back) and trying to pass out, even while I was telling them it was a no-go due to no condum. And I'm always extremely anal about condums unless I'm already taxing her on the regular, and even then only if I'm fairly certain we're exclusive.

In some instances, I'd pushed them away as they tried to mount, only to have them keep after it and get on anyways. In a few cases, they were women who I absolutely would never bang condum-less, so it definitely irritated me.

This is largely a "lol" post, but I was just thinking about women who cry rape after drunken sex and considering the huge double standard in American society. I'm just wondering if any male has ever succeeded at pressing charges in such a scenario. I mean, what if the bitch gave me an STD! What if she got pregnant?

How can it not be considered rape?

[Dulceácido]

This is one of those huge double standards that people tolerate. I know a girl like this. She's unattractive and loves to party. She has a reputation for hanging out late until guys get really tanked and she hooks up with them. If it were the other way around, it would be date rape for sure.

Kind of like when teachers are pedophiles. If it's a man boning his young female students--he'll get 30 days in the electric chair. If it's a hotty female teacher boning some adolescent boy, she gets off the hook with a slap on the wrist....

You can't rape the willing. In these cases, I think men are always seen as the willing or the aggressors. If you got an STD--too bad, so sad. If you got her pregnant, you'd have your pay garnished to pay child support. Sucks.

How come hockey players aren't brought up on assault charges for fighting in the rink? lol.

[OGNorCal707]

How does your dick get hard if you are wasted and about to pass out, are these really hot girls that you are attracted to? I'm thinking I'd most likely have a softy in that situation, unless a chick started doing some freaky shit like sucking my dick and licking my balls hella wild.

[FretDancer]

(01-09-2013 04:41 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

How does your dick get hard if you are wasted and about to pass out, are these really hot girls that you are attracted to? I'm thinking I'd most likely have a softy in that situation, unless a chick started doing some freaky shit like sucking my dick and licking my balls hella wild.

I'm wondering the same thing.

[Beyond Borders]

(01-09-2013 04:41 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

How does your dick get hard if you are wasted and about to pass out, are these really hot girls that you are attracted to? I'm thinking I'd most likely have a softy in that situation, unless a chick started doing some freaky shit like sucking my dick and licking my balls hella wild.

(01-09-2013 04:44 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

(01-09-2013 04:41 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

How does your dick get hard if you are wasted and about to pass out, are these really hot girls that you are attracted to? I'm thinking I'd most likely have a softy in that situation, unless a chick started doing some freaky shit like sucking my dick and licking my balls hella wild.

I'm wondering the same thing.

Good question and I almost went back to edit because I realized it might be confusing. usually if you're getting hot and heavy with someone and don't have a condum, she's all over your dick and most likely sucking it if she's worth anything.

In cases where I've been as drunk as mentioned in the above post, I've passed out with her still playing with my dick since she's having a hard time making me nut and we're not going to screw.

In another couple cases, I was wide awake with her straddling me (but no insertion) or she just climbed on and fully mounted before I knew she was just going for it. Sometimes once it's in you just say fuck it (a woman would still say this was non-consensual lol). In others I pulled her right back off - not hard to do since I'm obviously much stronger.

Or what about the ploy of saying she "just wants to lay on top of you" and then weaseling it in while you're fooling around? I can relate to this as I've used similar strategies to get women out of resistance, but hey now. And if I did it as a man, I'd definitely just use that as a transition period -I'd still have to get her horney enough with the tip to change her mind first.

Just because she has you hard doesn't give her the right to jump on your dick, especially if you already said you're not down due to no condum.

Are you guys telling me you've never had a girl sabatoge you like this? Maybe you're just better about coming prepared. In my experience, women have a hard time taking no for an answer. Or maybe I just better stop hanging out with such nasty whores...

Obviously, not getting so wasted all the time has helped a lot.

But point being that if you were a guy and did that to a woman it would definitely be considered rape in our culture. having a hard dick should not equal consent.

EDIT: I'm gonna stage a fucking protest!

[Beyond Borders]

How's this for an idea. Start going home with rich cougars and then refusing to fuck them. Get them all hot and bothered. When one gets too excited and jumps on the dick, take her to civil court and sue for emotional trauma.

Paid.

[DVY]

I have had multiple girls suck me off, come up to kiss stomach, chest, neck and put it in- no condom. Curiously, no discussion which freaks me out .

I have a baby paranoia, and can never raw-dog (although I have done the dip in and out to get hard, ahhh drunk logic).

I usually pull them off, throw them down, and put on my condom (unlubed) and lube the outside. I am so paranoid, I prefer unlubed condom w/a drip of lube at the tip and copiously on the outside.

[Beyond Borders]

(01-09-2013 05:12 PM)DVY Wrote:  

I have had multiple girls suck me off, come up to kiss stomach, chest, neck and put it in- no condom. Curiously, no discussion which freaks me out .

Pretty common and pretty scary for us non-rawdoggers.

[FourToTheFloor]

(01-09-2013 04:41 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

How does your dick get hard if you are wasted and about to pass out, are these really hot girls that you are attracted to?

The body, whether conscious or unconcious, reacts to the physical stimulation. It's a physiological reaction, in this case, rather than a psychological one.

[Bacchus]

I'd like to see this argument in a child support case like the following. Dude's blackout drunk and then lays down with an erection. Some slut hops on without a condom, gets pregnant, and later wants money for the kid. Why not accuse her of rape? It would certainly help your negotiating position.

[Samseau]

I remember in college I blacked out and a chick literally tried to fuck me. But it never happened because I couldn't get hard.

Personally I don't understand how drunk guys can get hard without some kind of drug like Viagra

[OGNorCal707]

(01-09-2013 11:12 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

I remember in college I blacked out and a chick literally tried to fuck me. But it never happened because I couldn't get hard.

Personally I don't understand how drunk guys can get hard without some kind of drug like Viagra

I will painfully and regretfully admit that I have issues with whiskey dick. I don't know what it is, but I guess I am very sensitive to how my body reacts to alcohol. I know if I cross a certain threshold, usually over 4 drinks I'm pretty much guaranteed to have some issues, unless the girl is smoking hot, or there is some good foreplay.

Usually, if the girl serves up some wicked knobage, it will get me hard, but I'd say only 1/4 girls I bang straight up go hard on sucking dick. Most of them will do it, but normally I have to prod them a bit to start it off.

Add to it that for whatever reason, even after a good bit of time in the game, and a decent amount of notches, I often get a tinge of sexual anxiety when it comes to fucking a girl for the FIRST time. It's only the first time, and then after that I'm all good, but too many drinks and sexual anxiety is a recipe for disaster for me.

So add whiskey dick to the growing list of reasons why I try not to exceed 3-4 drinks on a night out. I don't get it when guys like Slubu say they have no problem getting hard even when they are blacked out drunk. I think I've been blacked out only once or so in my life, but usually when I get that drunk, I puke, and pass the fuck out, I don't even know if a girl hardcore slurping my balls could get me hard in that state.

[Beyond Borders]

(01-09-2013 11:27 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(01-09-2013 11:12 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

I remember in college I blacked out and a chick literally tried to fuck me. But it never happened because I couldn't get hard.

Personally I don't understand how drunk guys can get hard without some kind of drug like Viagra

I will painfully and regretfully admit that I have issues with whiskey dick.

haha Don't worry Fellas. You're not the only ones who've had whiskey dick problems.

It's happened to me quite a few times as well. I'll even go as far as to say that alcohol was affecting the quality of my boners when I was sober, which is yet another reason I decided it was time to lay off the booze.

Keep in mind that when I was drinking a lot I'd go months sometimes drinking nearly every single night. When you get wasted and party your ass off as many times in your life as I have, you're bound to have your good nights and your bad nights as far as the wood goes.

Hence being raped, which I'm still tramuatized about to this day.

[Ensam]

It's not rape if you masturbate to it later.

[Beyond Borders]

(01-09-2013 11:37 PM)Ensam Wrote:  

It's not rape if you masturbate to it later.

lol It's called sarcasm.

This entire thread is in case you didn't quite pick up on that...

[OGNorCal707]

(01-09-2013 11:27 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

Usually, if the girl serves up some wicked knobage, it will get me hard, but I'd say only 1/4 girls I bang straight up go hard on sucking dick. Most of them will do it, but normally I have to prod them a bit to start it off.

Writing this reminds me of lyrics from a BIG song, "I'd rather beat my dick than trick, and if she don't suck, than we don't fuck!"



@ 2:09

[Ensam]

(01-09-2013 11:39 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

(01-09-2013 11:37 PM)Ensam Wrote:  

It's not rape if you masturbate to it later.

lol It's called sarcasm.

This entire thread is in case you didn't quite pick up on that...

Heh, that's an Adam Carolla joke. Thought someone would get it.

[Beyond Borders]

(01-09-2013 11:58 PM)Ensam Wrote:  

(01-09-2013 11:39 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

(01-09-2013 11:37 PM)Ensam Wrote:  

It's not rape if you masturbate to it later.

lol It's called sarcasm.

This entire thread is in case you didn't quite pick up on that...

Heh, that's an Adam Carolla joke. Thought someone would get it.

Oh, nice. lol Now that you mention it I think I do kind of remember that.

[Sourcecode]

I'm immune to this whiskey dick thing.
no matter how drunk, high I still get hard.

if a chick brushes against me, I'll get hard.

the last chick I was with for not than a month steady always joked about saying she felt like she was raping me. cause she would jerk me and hop on while I was sleep. ( I sleep flat on my back a lot)

it's not hard to believe, stimulus wise that a man can stay hard when he doesn't want to.

[Hotwheels]

What is this whiskey dick thing?

I got for hours while completely smashed.... Fucker won't go down...

[Aliblahba]

Raped by a chick=Gay
You can't rape the willing.

[DVY]

I get a 1/2 way whiskey dick sometimes. I have trouble getting hard, but if i get hard I can go forever and ever.

No exxageration, 1 hr, 10 min break to shower/eat/drink water, have her suck me off again, then go another hour. I have trouble getting hard, but curiousely when I get horny the first time I can get hard again quickly, if I haven't busted yet...

Normal sexy time is probably 20 mins. Maybe 30 or so, if I dont go hogwild.

[Cr33pin]

I was raped by a heffer one night, I was so drunk I couldnt move she was giving me head then she hopped on my dick an started riding me. I started screaming loud as I could and my drunk friend kicked in the door, threw her off me into a dresser carried me in the living room an put me on the couch an then slept in front of the couch to protect me....

[Aliblahba]

Last year I took a girl back to the hotel and passed out before fucking her. Woke up with her riding me without a condom. I didn't care but she had this look in her eye, like she had the eye on the prize. I think she was going for the gold (sponsorship) so I pulled her off and went back to bed.

Can't believe my dick got hard while I was out like a light.

[el mechanico]

(01-10-2013 01:42 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

Last year I took a girl back to the hotel and passed out before fucking her. Woke up with her riding me without a condom. I didn't care but she had this look in her eye, like she had the eye on the prize. I think she was going for the gold (sponsorship) so I pulled her off and went back to bed.

Can't believe my dick got hard while I was out like a light.

That's happened to me a thousand times I can't believe this thread even exists.

@ Ali she didn't get the gold but did get the silver (your phone)