[soup]

I'm assessing my potential for a new notch tonight before the ball drops, and it doesn't look promising.

That said, a while back, a girl let me stick the head of my dick in her pussy.

I wasn't sure at the time if that was notch or not.

MrXY said it was a notch because I broke the plane of penetration, even though she said "I can't let you enter me on the first date"

If this is a notch then I've already hit my goal of 40 for 2012.

[Basil Ransom]

Wow this one deserves a place in the history books. You played "just the tip"... And failed to go further?!? I have to guess that you did not get the tip in. Had you actually gotten the tip in, she'd invariably respond "Oh god that feels so good..." At which point you stop playing...

From the Urban Bible:

"
Just the tip
In the dynamics of heterosexual relations human males are often confronted by human females reluctant to engage in coitus. In such situations a human male may initiate a game called "Just the tip", which represents a suggested compromise in the age old battle of the sexes. In a typical game of "Just the tip" it will be verbally agreed that the male
may penetrate his partner's vagina, but with stipulation that his may only insert the glans or "tip" of his penis.

The female payoff is that she may avoid both physical pain and/or social ostracism, while the male enjoys limited coitus. In many cases, it is documented that upon insertion a formally reluctant female may become to open to allowing the male other sexual largesse; hence the games popularity."

[painter]

On the last day of the year and this gets you to your goal of 40 notches? Hell yes it counts! Now, was it a satisfying sexual encounter? Maybe, you didn't say whether or not it was a happy ending.

Some touchdowns are ugly but it's still points on the board.

[soup]

I did get the tip in the door, but she stopped me from making a full thrust.

So, just the tip is a notch for a guy, but not a notch for a girl?

[poutsara]

Did you actually ejaculate from this "tip" action? Did she finish you off some other way? Anal? Blowjob? If you put in the tip and called it night, that's no notch. I'm betting it was more than that.

[soup]

(12-31-2012 04:49 PM)poutsara Wrote:  

Did you actually ejaculate from this "tip" action? Did she finish you off some other way? Anal? Blowjob? If you put in the tip and called it night, that's no notch. I'm betting it was more than that.

To answer your question, yes, she sucked me dry.

But, a blowjob has nothing to do with notches.

[BlurredSevens]

This is how I picture soup:

[poutsara]

(12-31-2012 04:50 PM)soup Wrote:  

(12-31-2012 04:49 PM)poutsara Wrote:  

Did you actually ejaculate from this "tip" action? Did she finish you off some other way? Anal? Blowjob? If you put in the tip and called it night, that's no notch. I'm betting it was more than that.

To answer your question, yes, she sucked me dry.
...

Awesome.

[pitt]

Soup 40 women in a year in NY is a great number, im impressed.

Do you have any pics of the girls that you are fucking?

Do you feel that you are dating down?

Whats your secret to get the girls? Are you a super handsome cat or you just have mad game?

[soup]

I wish that I could post pics, but I have to keep things anonymous, and I don't have pictures of a lot of these girls.

That said, they ranged greatly in quality.

At the top end, I was banging girls who were strippers and go-go dancers at some of the biggest clubs in NYC. Last night, I banged out a girl who had the body of a fashion model, I've had some super sexy bodies wrapped around my cock this year.

But, at what seemed like the lowest moment, I was banging girls that most civilian guys would say were the only kind of girls a PUA could get- fat (though not morbidly obese), trashy, pimply, etc.

I've been told that I'm good looking, but if that were the case, why didn't I have this many girls in other years of my life? I think my persistence and ambition are probably my best quality. I'm the guy that gets obsessed with things once I aim my focus at them. I'm the guy who is combing the streets when everything is supposed to be dead, sweeping every nook and corner of the scene, online, offline. I'm the guy that yesterday went on three dates, got two of them back to my house with no bang, but scored with the third. I probably spent more time this year reading and posting about game and going out try things than I did any other activity. It was a major life project for me, and has taken time away from other things that I care about- namely making music and seeing my family.

I have crazy successful streaks and then there are months were I can't seem to get laid no matter what I try.

I pretty much picked up a rockstar without knowing it this year, but I've also been rejected by the worst excuses for women that this city attracts.

I've straddled the line from super-mack king of the club to crazy/drunk-creeper.

It's been a year of extremes for me.

As far as dating down goes, I don't feel like I've reached my true potential. That said, I think a lot of guys would be awed at things I'm doing that I think are failures- getting girls back to my house after knowing them for only an hour, blowjobs from many girls beyond the 40, kissing at least twice as many girls this year; one man's trash can be the treasure of another man's dreams.

My player friend told me that I have the potential to be a killer. However, I am not completely satisfied with my abilities and do not feel like I've arrived as far as consistent quality goes.

I feel like I've learned a lot just in past month by rushing to get notches. When the notch is the goal, all else is secondary- her looks/rating, my insecurities/feelings, etc.

Thanks to this Roosh and this forum mostly for giving me a place to explore ideas and get inspiration for my game.

[Sargon of Akkad]

(12-31-2012 04:30 PM)soup Wrote:  

I wasn't sure at the time if that was notch or not.

A better question is whether it counts as a notch to YOU. I don't bother asking other people whether what I did passed as sex in their eyes . If it was a notch to me, it was a notch.

I had a slightly similar problem a couple times.

Both times I only got about an inch in before the girl said it hurt too much and I stopped. The first was a virgin, and the second had a hard time getting wet enough.

[soup]

This poll is actively interacting with my game tonight, and majority says it's a notch so far, so I'm going to call it as a notch and consider 2012 a wrap at 40.

If they can call a horse race by the tip of it's nose, than the tip of the dick is just as valid.

[WesternCancer]

Soup, you sound like the kind of guy who is really determined to become the best you can be, which is a good thing. That being said don't let yourself get neurotic about getting notches, this thread makes you sound like you'd rather have a list of names than good sex and a mind full of memories.

[kenny_powers]

(12-31-2012 04:30 PM)soup Wrote:  

I'm assessing my potential for a new notch tonight before the ball drops, and it doesn't look promising.

That said, a while back, a girl let me stick the head of my dick in her pussy.

I wasn't sure at the time if that was notch or not.

MrXY said it was a notch because I broke the plane of penetration, even though she said "I can't let you enter me on the first date"

If this is a notch then I've already hit my goal of 40 for 2012.

Yes, most guys I know (myself included) would count this as a notch. A woman would not count it. You still have 3 hours!

[soup]

(12-31-2012 08:33 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

Soup, you sound like the kind of guy who is really determined to become the best you can be, which is a good thing. That being said don't let yourself get neurotic about getting notches, this thread makes you sound like you'd rather have a list of names than good sex and a mind full of memories.

I am neurotic sometimes. Of course I like all the sweet parts.

But, there's a lot of discipline that I've had to implement in order to be able to experience the good stuff.

It's a game of course!

It's not about the notches in general. That was just a something I got into for this last month. Although I do think it's good to have a notch goal in general to make things rigorous.

[Sargon of Akkad]

[Giovonny]

If you just put the tip in, it's a "Technical Notch".

So, "technically", it is a notch.

[RawGod]

You got a blowjob? To me it's a notch. Always been every bit as good as coitus to me.

[YoungGunner]

if it breaks the the vertical plane its a notch in my book.

If you use the definition of a virgin (girl) as someone who's never been penetrated, then its a notch in your case.

[Divorco]

(12-31-2012 06:44 PM)soup Wrote:  

I probably spent more time this year reading and posting about game and going out try things than I did any other activity. It was a major life project.

When the notch is the goal, all else is secondary- her looks/rating, my insecurities/feelings, etc.

I was banging ... fat, trashy, pimply, etc.

Your effort is instructive. Thanks for your candor. Please give us an idea of your demographics and logistics. A 35-year-old black guy with his own apartment in downtown Atlanta would date easier than a teenage Asian in rural Alaska.

Most guys get a "fishbowl" or channel to meet women. You had to be doing something significant to get three dates per day. How were you meeting so many?! What was your breakdown of time and success across daygame, nightgame, online game, and social circle?

[soup]

(01-01-2013 11:44 AM)Divorco Wrote:  

(12-31-2012 06:44 PM)soup Wrote:  

I probably spent more time this year reading and posting about game and going out try things than I did any other activity. It was a major life project.

When the notch is the goal, all else is secondary- her looks/rating, my insecurities/feelings, etc.

I was banging ... fat, trashy, pimply, etc.

Your effort is instructive. Thanks for your candor. Please give us an idea of your demographics and logistics. A 35-year-old black guy with his own apartment in downtown Atlanta would date easier than a teenage Asian in rural Alaska.

Most guys get a "fishbowl" or channel to meet women. You had to be doing something significant to get three dates per day. How were you meeting so many?! What was your breakdown of time and success across daygame, nightgame, online game, and social circle?

My location is pretty much Williamsburg Brooklyn. I try to stay within an $8 cab ride to my pad.

I take first/online dates to a bar a couple blocks from my house and run Tuthmosis' first date bang recipe.

There are currently 220 phone numbers that I've collected over the past year. There were more but I erased some. I never usually erase numbers, because, as it has happened several times this year, a mass text to a once cold number has yielded good stuff.

I try to mass text my numbers once every week or so. I'm out almost every night. I'm trying to drink less and use more dance floor strategy.

I'm a musician and also have been working the pooos through that angle more this year.

[sixsix]

Definitely a notch.

[MrXY]

Soup, your efforts and focus are inspiring.

So much so that I am committing to increasing my efforts and setting a goal to double my 2012 notch count in 2013

[RandalGraves]

Is this a notch?