Generally, I hate field reports, because the amount of information you have to read through far exceeds what you gain in terms of useful knowledge. Here however, this may not be the case...
Let's cut to the chase.
I'm at this house party, I see a girl that I think is the hottest girl there (in my humble opinion). I notice her giving me half-a-second glances at least twice (IOI).
Later I see HB9redheadgerman with her ugly short friend, hanging out in kitchen. HB9redheadgerman (my target) is being gamed by this French guy that looks like he has game but doesn't. I politely step in between the two of them like a dickhead to engage HB9redheadgerman's ugly friend. I make it look as though I am gaming her friend! Classic Mystery Method shit here folks.
The French guy, for what ever reason, loses his conversational momentum on my target HB9redheadgerman and retreats (I'm guessing he went home to spend the night with a fine bottle of champagne and his right hand). HB9redheadgerman's attention turns toward my interaction with her friend. Since girls generally don't like to separate from their friends at parties, HB9redheadgerman is stuck watching me playfully tease and kino-up her ugly friend. It was then that I instinctively felt jealousy was brewing between the two of them. And of course I exploit this.
HB9redheadgerman's ugly friend digs my vibe and is excited to receive any male attention she can get. I put my arms around her and pull out a digital camera, instructing her hot friend (the target) to photograph us. She takes the picture like a good girl, but I pretended she messed up somehow. I tell her to take a second one. With most of my attention still focused on the ugly friend, this is when I jokingly told the ugly friend that, "HB9redheadgerman has to do a double take because the first one sucked." I make sure HB9 hears everything. While I'm still facing and playfully hugging the ugly friend, my slippery-sneaky-dirty-man arms make their way to the target as well, for some light shoulder touches.
After the photography session, I use light and fun negs to bring HB9redheadgerman into the interaction with me and her ugly-as-shit-friend. The way I did this, I just got the target to introduce herself to me, then I looked to the ugly friend and said, "She has a funny name, I can't trust her. " All the while my hand is doing longer shoulder touches on the target, as I am saying this. I continue with this oscillation -- talking to the ugly friend about how silly the target is, while the target listens; then I'd say something to the target, but still playfully giving the target less attention than I give the ugly friend.
So after teasing the ugly friend and making my target jealous for about 2 or 3 minutes, things seem to shift gears. The HB9redheadgerman engages me more and moves closer toward me. Her ugly friend just walks away, and now HB9 doesn't care. My back is against the wall. Now we're touching more, things are moving fast, she's a bit tipsy, when I ask her, "do you want to kiss me?"
She doesn't say anything, but her head moves in about an inch, and I go for it. We make out for like 10 minutes, while in my mind I'm coldly calculating how I'm going to bang her. I suggest to HB9redheadgerman that we go outside, she agrees. We make out some more outside, then I try to guide her over to my car without saying anything, and she stops complying. This is when things get difficult and I am forced to take drastic measures. I pull out my handy dandy seal club, and presto, instant compliance.
Just kidding.
Back to what actually happened, she freezes and starts objecting. I tried to pull Mystery's line, "oh you're right, we shouldn't be doing this," but she just walks back into the house party. Instead of just following her, I wait for her to go in first before I creep in. As I enter, I see her talking to this huge black guy. I get closer and hear her complaining about some guy (me) that's trying to make out with her. She's pretending to be a damsel in distress, but the black guy doesn't want to hear her shit.
She walks back into the kitchen, and somehow I just end up there. We make out AGAIN! I corner her against the fridge, when she pushes me off of her, I reciprocate by pushing her back even further, and she closes in and kisses me again. Then she pushes back, again... and complains about how she just met me and all this shit. She even says, "I can't believe you like me, you just met me..." I just keep her cornered, knowing full well it's another shit test. Sure enough, we make out again! This back and forth, push pull shit repeats itself at least 10 more times.
Then she tells me she has to go to the bathroom... I'm thinking bathroom pull. We get inline to use the bathroom, while she sucks on my neck, and I feel her perfect ass. As she enter the bathroom, I try to walk in with her and she pushes me back. Fuck, I tried. When she finishes, more make out!
That night, she didn't give me her number but instead a facebook account. But... yesterday she gave me her phone number over facebook. I think it's going to be a long game of comfort.
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Lessons learned:
Engage the ugly friend, mystery method works.
Be playful. When negging, do so teasingly.
Sometimes, there comes a point in the interaction where there are no other options left except to use force and dominance. I'm sensing this usually happens when a certain level of sexual power has been given away by both guy and girl, beyond a point of no return. Case in point, I had to hunt down HB9redheadgerman and corner her, because she didn't believe I liked her, even after we had been making out all night. Maybe she's saying this because she thinks I'm saying I like her as a person, but I do like her as a person, because she's cute.
Let's cut to the chase.
I'm at this house party, I see a girl that I think is the hottest girl there (in my humble opinion). I notice her giving me half-a-second glances at least twice (IOI).
Later I see HB9redheadgerman with her ugly short friend, hanging out in kitchen. HB9redheadgerman (my target) is being gamed by this French guy that looks like he has game but doesn't. I politely step in between the two of them like a dickhead to engage HB9redheadgerman's ugly friend. I make it look as though I am gaming her friend! Classic Mystery Method shit here folks.
The French guy, for what ever reason, loses his conversational momentum on my target HB9redheadgerman and retreats (I'm guessing he went home to spend the night with a fine bottle of champagne and his right hand). HB9redheadgerman's attention turns toward my interaction with her friend. Since girls generally don't like to separate from their friends at parties, HB9redheadgerman is stuck watching me playfully tease and kino-up her ugly friend. It was then that I instinctively felt jealousy was brewing between the two of them. And of course I exploit this.
HB9redheadgerman's ugly friend digs my vibe and is excited to receive any male attention she can get. I put my arms around her and pull out a digital camera, instructing her hot friend (the target) to photograph us. She takes the picture like a good girl, but I pretended she messed up somehow. I tell her to take a second one. With most of my attention still focused on the ugly friend, this is when I jokingly told the ugly friend that, "HB9redheadgerman has to do a double take because the first one sucked." I make sure HB9 hears everything. While I'm still facing and playfully hugging the ugly friend, my slippery-sneaky-dirty-man arms make their way to the target as well, for some light shoulder touches.
After the photography session, I use light and fun negs to bring HB9redheadgerman into the interaction with me and her ugly-as-shit-friend. The way I did this, I just got the target to introduce herself to me, then I looked to the ugly friend and said, "She has a funny name, I can't trust her. " All the while my hand is doing longer shoulder touches on the target, as I am saying this. I continue with this oscillation -- talking to the ugly friend about how silly the target is, while the target listens; then I'd say something to the target, but still playfully giving the target less attention than I give the ugly friend.
So after teasing the ugly friend and making my target jealous for about 2 or 3 minutes, things seem to shift gears. The HB9redheadgerman engages me more and moves closer toward me. Her ugly friend just walks away, and now HB9 doesn't care. My back is against the wall. Now we're touching more, things are moving fast, she's a bit tipsy, when I ask her, "do you want to kiss me?"
She doesn't say anything, but her head moves in about an inch, and I go for it. We make out for like 10 minutes, while in my mind I'm coldly calculating how I'm going to bang her. I suggest to HB9redheadgerman that we go outside, she agrees. We make out some more outside, then I try to guide her over to my car without saying anything, and she stops complying. This is when things get difficult and I am forced to take drastic measures. I pull out my handy dandy seal club, and presto, instant compliance.
Just kidding.
Back to what actually happened, she freezes and starts objecting. I tried to pull Mystery's line, "oh you're right, we shouldn't be doing this," but she just walks back into the house party. Instead of just following her, I wait for her to go in first before I creep in. As I enter, I see her talking to this huge black guy. I get closer and hear her complaining about some guy (me) that's trying to make out with her. She's pretending to be a damsel in distress, but the black guy doesn't want to hear her shit.
She walks back into the kitchen, and somehow I just end up there. We make out AGAIN! I corner her against the fridge, when she pushes me off of her, I reciprocate by pushing her back even further, and she closes in and kisses me again. Then she pushes back, again... and complains about how she just met me and all this shit. She even says, "I can't believe you like me, you just met me..." I just keep her cornered, knowing full well it's another shit test. Sure enough, we make out again! This back and forth, push pull shit repeats itself at least 10 more times.
Then she tells me she has to go to the bathroom... I'm thinking bathroom pull. We get inline to use the bathroom, while she sucks on my neck, and I feel her perfect ass. As she enter the bathroom, I try to walk in with her and she pushes me back. Fuck, I tried. When she finishes, more make out!
That night, she didn't give me her number but instead a facebook account. But... yesterday she gave me her phone number over facebook. I think it's going to be a long game of comfort.
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Lessons learned:
Engage the ugly friend, mystery method works.
Be playful. When negging, do so teasingly.
Sometimes, there comes a point in the interaction where there are no other options left except to use force and dominance. I'm sensing this usually happens when a certain level of sexual power has been given away by both guy and girl, beyond a point of no return. Case in point, I had to hunt down HB9redheadgerman and corner her, because she didn't believe I liked her, even after we had been making out all night. Maybe she's saying this because she thinks I'm saying I like her as a person, but I do like her as a person, because she's cute.
