[WanderingSoul]

How many guys here have actually fucked a legitimate 9 or 10? I bet almost no one, myself included. These are girls that are Sports Illustrated swimsuit model caliber girls. The rating inflation I see on the internet leads me to believe what many guys call an 8 is actually a 6. I'd bet most guys pedestalize a 7 and call her a 9/10.

Lets keep it real, how many of you have fucked a girl that could legitimately become famous based on her looks?

[Doc_J]

(09-01-2013 05:10 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

How many guys here have actually fucked a legitimate 9 or 10? I bet almost no one, myself included. These are girls that are Sports Illustrated swimsuit model caliber girls. The rating inflation I see on the internet leads me to believe what many guys call an 8 is actually a 6. I'd bet most guys pedestalize a 7 and call her a 9/10.

Lets keep it real, how many of you have fucked a girl that could legitimately become famous based on her looks?

Right on

[MunichSux]

RioNomad, I find your question somehat weird as judgements based on looks are to a degree very subjective. I've seen some Victoria's Secrets models - supposedly the crème de la crème of beauty - that simply don't excite me at all. On the other hand, I've seen some mega-hotties in everyday situation I would never dare to approach or "game". Do I pedastelize a woman because I've laid her? Did I pedastelize her first and got her laid - so I've found immense satisfaction and validation in this? I show you a woman I simply don't find attractive - but based on your definition she's a 9 or 10 because she's become famous thanks to her looks .... check her out: http://mirandakerr.coverhable.com/catego...airstyles/

[Nomad77]

(09-01-2013 05:10 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

How many guys here have actually fucked a legitimate 9 or 10? I bet almost no one, myself included. These are girls that are Sports Illustrated swimsuit model caliber girls. The rating inflation I see on the internet leads me to believe what many guys call an 8 is actually a 6. I'd bet most guys pedestalize a 7 and call her a 9/10.

Lets keep it real, how many of you have fucked a girl that could legitimately become famous based on her looks?

I have worked with quite of few of these "model types" that you are talking about as a photographer. You would be surprised just how normal they look without all of the makeup and Photoshop. The 9s and 10s you are speaking of from the magazines exist only in the magazines because we create them within Photoshop. Personally, for me, a 9/10 is more than just looks, it's a combination of looks, personality, and character. And, as MunichSux said, all of these things are relative. I personally, do not find a lot of model types that attractive. As they say, beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.

[Que enspastic]

hit up clubs where only 8+ girls get in. you will become indifferent to their beauty eventually.

volume lends itself to indifference. most guys pedestalise 9s because if they get blown out they don't have another girl on the same level to hit up.

[Nomad77]

Correct, it's all relative, a 7 in a sea of 4s becomes a 10. If you are the only man in some place, for that night and that place you are a 10.

[pegador]

(09-01-2013 05:10 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

How many guys here have actually fucked a legitimate 9 or 10? I bet almost no one, myself included. These are girls that are Sports Illustrated swimsuit model caliber girls. The rating inflation I see on the internet leads me to believe what many guys call an 8 is actually a 6. I'd bet most guys pedestalize a 7 and call her a 9/10.

Lets keep it real, how many of you have fucked a girl that could legitimately become famous based on her looks?

I agree with the above. It's all relative and I believe depends also on where you live. Growing up in the US, model types or the 9s and 10s in my area were extremely rare. They were seen more as some angelic creature or rarity like a unicorn. Then I moved to LA, and there the level of beautiful women increased, but still I couldn't get with what most would consider a 9 or 10. Still, the 7 and 8s were much hotter than what I had originally thought was their equivalent in the previous areas that I had been in.

Then of course I moved to Brazil and what I thought was a 7 or 8 in LA became the equivalent of a 6 over here. Plus, given the demographics here, there are a lot more of these 7 and 8s as well!

I've never pulled a Sports Illustrated swimsuit model, but I now I am able to get women that a few years ago I would have rated an 8 back home due to several factors (the allure for many of being a foreigner, having a decent job in a country where this is becoming harder and harder each day, speaking Portuguese, plus the favorable demographics), not just game.

As was mentioned before in this and many other posts, the level of status that she holds you in also counts. In LA I had low status with many of the really beautiful women...i.e. I wasn't a director or producer or really anyone with decent connections. Here, just the neighborhood I live in gives me status as well as the type of work I do.

As I said, I'm not pulling any top models, but compared to the ones I used to settle for back home, they might as just well be. It's all relative.

[WanderingSoul]

(09-01-2013 07:11 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

Correct, it's all relative, a 7 in a sea of 4s becomes a 10. If you are the only man in some place, for that night and that place you are a 10.

A 7 is still a 7 even if she's surrounded by 4's. Otherwise you are pedestalizing her, as I mentioned above.

[Nomad77]

This is not about putting women on a pedestal. It is about how we value anything. Why is a diamond valuable? The value of anything, in our world, is directly related to its rarity. At the heart of this argument is whether or not you believe in the concept of absolute value - I don't. Every system of measurement is relative.

If you live in a town with only one 7 then for all intent and purposes, to the men in that town, she is a 10. I am willing to bet that your value in Asia is much higher than in the US.

[Nascimento]

I'd say unless you know how to optimize social venues so that you are in the top 5% of guys (looks, status, confidence) doing successful enough with 8 or 9s so that you pull or get a non flaky number is going to be very difficult.

Daygame might be your greatest option. Not even the top 5% of guys in social venues are going out of their way to meet girls during the day.

[XXL]

(09-01-2013 06:50 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

(09-01-2013 05:10 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

How many guys here have actually fucked a legitimate 9 or 10? I bet almost no one, myself included. These are girls that are Sports Illustrated swimsuit model caliber girls. The rating inflation I see on the internet leads me to believe what many guys call an 8 is actually a 6. I'd bet most guys pedestalize a 7 and call her a 9/10.

Lets keep it real, how many of you have fucked a girl that could legitimately become famous based on her looks?

I have worked with quite of few of these "model types" that you are talking about as a photographer. You would be surprised just how normal they look without all of the makeup and Photoshop. The 9s and 10s you are speaking of from the magazines exist only in the magazines because we create them within Photoshop. Personally, for me, a 9/10 is more than just looks, it's a combination of looks, personality, and character. And, as MunichSux said, all of these things are relative. I personally, do not find a lot of model types that attractive. As they say, beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.

Exactly. I've dated one legit stunner. Things is, she was pain in the ass actually. Like 80% of the time I wanted to strangle her for her spoiled bratty behavior. What was funny is that my buddy who hung out with us one time asked me later 'how do you deal with her, she's so depressing'. He was right.

A 10 is a combo of looks, personality and most importantly self image. There are very beautiful girls who are cool yet have self image issues and think of themselves as no so cool. On the other hand, there are also semi attractive girls with unreasonably big attitude. So game should never be adapted to girl's physical attractiveness but to her self image in her head. Overly entitled 7 deserves some heavy negs even though looks wise she's so so.

[cocko]

(09-01-2013 09:32 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

This is not about putting women on a pedestal. It is about how we value anything. Why is a diamond valuable? The value of anything, in our world, is directly related to its rarity.

read this article: http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/arch..._page=true

tldr diamonds are not rare and their value has been implanted by marketing. another red pill lesson for you nomad

[Altair]

(12-08-2012 09:34 AM)cardguy Wrote:  

Great response, XXL. That is a different mindset to what I had in mind. But it makes alot of sense. Seems to be on a bigger scale to what I am used to thinking about. So much so - you will need to start thinking in terms of wingmen - or maybe being 'in' with the owner of the venue - so that your group is the centre of the attention.

To be honest. I think Game theorists should focus more on pulling 9's and 10's since it is only with those sorts of rewards that the effort is worthwile (IMHO).

Thanks for all the responses.

If they did that, their game would never get better due to a lack of volume in approaches. The looks thing is a bell curve. 9s and 10s aren't as common. Seeing a 9 or 10 can happen once in a blue moon depending on which city you live in.

I been doing this shit for half a year and only talked to one girl I would legitimately consider a 9.

You'll often see many of these master players with 7s and 8s. They're attractive yet still common

[JohnQPublic]

(09-01-2013 05:10 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

How many guys here have actually fucked a legitimate 9 or 10? I bet almost no one, myself included. These are girls that are Sports Illustrated swimsuit model caliber girls. The rating inflation I see on the internet leads me to believe what many guys call an 8 is actually a 6. I'd bet most guys pedestalize a 7 and call her a 9/10.

Lets keep it real, how many of you have fucked a girl that could legitimately become famous based on her looks?

RioNomad your rating scale that you outlined in a different thread '10 only exists in a photoshopped picture' makes me automatically multiply your ratings by 1.1, because that means your scale goes from 1 - 9. Maybe the Tier I style rating system I see being used here is better, especially since tastes vary.

Anyway, it seems that in this forum anybody who makes claims that not many people have experienced is suspected/accused of exaggeration, so that may be why you don't hear much about such things.

Living in EE countries you can legitimately see 8+ girls on a regular basis. In Prague for example, you have a chance to meet them if you know which night spots, gyms or special parties they are likely to go to, for example. But generally speaking, a lot of them are not easily accessible at night time and the best chances at them for ONS are when they are living abroad and visiting home for a few days and are going out with some old High School girlfriend. Then they are away from their steady bone and not too worried about their local reputation or getting found out by somebody.

As far as gaming goes, I rarely use any traditional routines (e.g. Neil Strauss style DHV routines) on girls, but twice I got shot down hard by Tier I girls when I thought things were going OK, but tried to speed things up using them. In these two cases I used the Cube and '5 questions' (you know, i will ask you 5 questions, and you have to give me the wrong answer to all of them). They both said almost the same thing: "I hate guys like you who try too hard" and "Maybe it would work better if you didn't try so hard".

So I think with the really top girls, it doesn't take long before they've heard just about everything and you've got to rely on your own charm and creativity. Otherwise, if somehow you happen to have a true Tier I girl to wing you and you can still hit on other girls when you are with her, then when she's one of the 2 or 3 most beautiful girls in whatever nightspot you are in, that will work wonders for getting any other Tier I to listen when you open her, because top girls are very competitive.

[cocko]

i lose a lot of girls with shitty game but not all the time.

caveat: i'm 6ft tall, fit, have a deep voice, facial hair, masculine features, high iq, clean teeth. my facial expressions, knowledge, and elocution, are at least in the top 25% of men. my frame can be scary strong sometimes (and i've lost girls for that reason.) in a few minutes i can suck a girl deep into my conversation

i get lots of 8s, 9s, and 10s.

when it happens it's generally because i have tight game, dodge shit tests like the matrix, etc, don't say self-deprecating shit, pad my logic with some emotional qualifier (even something simple like "not to make things too logical,") and always treat her with a shred of skepticism (think about when some asskisser laughs at everything you say... you don't feel so funny now do you?) for sure tighter game is how you get better looking women. and the 'ballsier' you are without seeming nervous, the more likely you are to enchant them. bold moves paired with an iron will get top ass

the secret (if you wanna call it one) to getting 9s and 10s is to be unwavering in your frame and nerves. don't hesitate

[Que enspastic]

(09-02-2013 02:38 PM)cocko Wrote:  

i'm 6ft tall, fit, have a deep voice, facial hair, masculine features, high iq, clean teeth. my facial expressions, knowledge, and elocution, are at least in the top 25% of men. my frame can be scary strong sometimes (and i've lost girls for that reason.) in a few minutes i can suck a girl deep into my conversation

i get lots of 8s, 9s, and 10s.

Hate to hate but I doubt you get "lots of 8s, 9s and 10s". Reasonable doubt mind you.

Being 6ft tall is normal for white guys. Doesn't mean anything.

Having a high IQ and estimating that you're top 25% doesn't mean anything either. Probably over half the RVF board falls into the same category.

Essentially you're saying you get the top 1-2% of girls despite only being top 25% as a man.

[cocko]

(09-02-2013 02:58 PM)Que enspastic Wrote:  

(09-02-2013 02:38 PM)cocko Wrote:  

i'm 6ft tall, fit, have a deep voice, facial hair, masculine features, high iq, clean teeth. my facial expressions, knowledge, and elocution, are at least in the top 25% of men. my frame can be scary strong sometimes (and i've lost girls for that reason.) in a few minutes i can suck a girl deep into my conversation

i get lots of 8s, 9s, and 10s.

Essentially you're saying you get the top 1-2% of girls despite only being top 25% as a man.

being humble is a dhv

i get a warm lead with an 8, 9 or 10 about once per week and i do ~ 10-15 day game approaches per week. i generally get a new notch once or twice a month. i could probably increase this number if i was more willing to put up with night game (or bang uglier girls)

[El_Superbeasto]

This is actually a pretty tough one. First our ego is always wanting to inflate the ranking when you talk about the chicks you've banged (who ever doesn't want to feel like they're the man); and on top of that, after you've been fucking a chick for a while all of her little flaws become readily apparent. She's got a feminine face with delicate features? After you've fucked her enough times, she's got a big forehead and a small chin. She's got an incredible ass and a flat stomach? Her calves could be a little more toned. Your perception of the women you bang is always going to be distorted by ego and experience.

[JohnQPublic]

@el_superbeasto: Yeah that's why RioNomad may be on the right track, so rather than saying:
"how many of you have fucked a girl that could legitimately become famous based on her looks?" You could say "a girl that is famous based on her looks", then you have a third party authority

But then what is famous?

A Playboy Playmate? Some are not so hot in reality.

The "Face" of a major brand (the model for all their TV and print ad campaigns for a year)?
A beauty contest winner (e.g. Miss Poland)?
A cover girl (cover of Cosmopolitain, Vogue, etc)?

These have significant value because the general public has acknowledged that they are in the 99.9 percentile for at least some standard of beauty.

If anybody here says they scored any of these, would you believe them?

[scorpion]

(09-02-2013 03:19 PM)cocko Wrote:  

being humble is a dhv

i get a warm lead with an 8, 9 or 10 about once per week and i do ~ 10-15 day game approaches per week. i generally get a new notch once or twice a month. i could probably increase this number if i was more willing to put up with night game (or bang uglier girls)

Where are you daygaming to regularly find 8s, 9s and 10s? Are you in a tier 1 city or have you just stumbled upon a sweet spot? Would like to hear more info on reliably meeting girls of that caliber with daygame.

[WanderingSoul]

(09-02-2013 02:38 PM)cocko Wrote:  

i lose a lot of girls with shitty game but not all the time.

caveat: i'm 6ft tall, fit, have a deep voice, facial hair, masculine features, high iq, clean teeth. my facial expressions, knowledge, and elocution, are at least in the top 25% of men. my frame can be scary strong sometimes (and i've lost girls for that reason.) in a few minutes i can suck a girl deep into my conversation

i get lots of 8s, 9s, and 10s.

when it happens it's generally because i have tight game, dodge shit tests like the matrix, etc, don't say self-deprecating shit, pad my logic with some emotional qualifier (even something simple like "not to make things too logical,") and always treat her with a shred of skepticism (think about when some asskisser laughs at everything you say... you don't feel so funny now do you?) for sure tighter game is how you get better looking women. and the 'ballsier' you are without seeming nervous, the more likely you are to enchant them. bold moves paired with an iron will get top ass

the secret (if you wanna call it one) to getting 9s and 10s is to be unwavering in your frame and nerves. don't hesitate

Can you post one photo of a 9 or 10 you banged? You can even black out the eyes.

Personally, anytime a guy says he banged a legit 9/10, I automatically assume she was a 6/7.

Not saying that guys DON'T bang legit 9's, I'm just saying every time someone on a game forum, or real life for that matter, claims an extremely high quality notch, and backs it up with a photo (almost never happens), the girl ends up being a 6/7. At least that has been my experience.

I think in a thread of guys giving advice on banging swimsuit model caliber women, someone can produce at least one photo of said quality that they have pulled?

[The Beast1]

Most of the girls in the "What do you call a dime" thread are all solid 7s and 8s. Nothing wrong with that, but then again I don't really see a lot of girls i'd say are 9s and 10s.

The 9s and 10s hang out where the $$$ is. Think creme de la creme of society. You'll find them at country clubs, polo events, and the like.

Occasionally, a pretty girl will be found in places where the money isn't at. But I find that when it comes to drop dead gorgeous girls, they get promoted and put into "make work" positions that rub shoulders with affluence.

So, hang out where the money is.

[worldwidetraveler]

(09-03-2013 05:49 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

(09-02-2013 02:38 PM)cocko Wrote:  

caveat: i'm 6ft tall, fit, have a deep voice, facial hair, masculine features, high iq, clean teeth. my facial expressions, knowledge, and elocution, are at least in the top 25% of men. my frame can be scary strong sometimes (and i've lost girls for that reason.) in a few minutes i can suck a girl deep into my conversation

I think in a thread of guys giving advice on banging swimsuit model caliber women, someone can produce at least one photo of said quality that they have pulled?

Stop hating Rio. You obviously don't have clean teeth.

[thegmanifesto]

(09-03-2013 10:10 AM)frenchie Wrote:  

Most of the girls in the "What do you call a dime" thread are all solid 7s and 8s. Nothing wrong with that, but then again I don't really see a lot of girls i'd say are 9s and 10s.

The 9s and 10s hang out where the $$$ is. Think creme de la creme of society. You'll find them at country clubs, polo events, and the like.

Occasionally, a pretty girl will be found in places where the money isn't at. But I find that when it comes to drop dead gorgeous girls, they get promoted and put into "make work" positions that rub shoulders with affluence.

So, hang out where the money is.

Don't forget The Del Mar Racetrack.

[cocko]

(09-02-2013 06:44 PM)scorpion Wrote:  

Where are you daygaming to regularly find 8s, 9s and 10s? Are you in a tier 1 city or have you just stumbled upon a sweet spot? Would like to hear more info on reliably meeting girls of that caliber with daygame.

i live next to a university so many are young and single. the ones that aren't pretend they are. it's a top 20 school with lots of wannabe intellectuals so if you can mix philosophy, humor, and masculine DGAF you can pull

(09-03-2013 05:49 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Can you post one photo of a 9 or 10 you banged? You can even black out the eyes.

i'm superficial as hell