[Ray]

Hey guys, I'm Ray and I'm new to The Game. I'm not the shy kind, but there is one thing that I can't wrap my mind around, and that is how to pick-up girls in highschool, and I'm talking about the highschool as a let's call it venue. The only conclusion I've came to is that girls in highschool tend towards relationships and reject the idea of one night stands or fuckbuddies.

[Deluge]

(12-01-2012 07:36 AM)Ray Wrote:  

Hey guys, I'm Ray and I'm new to The Game. I'm not the shy kind, but there is one thing that I can't wrap my mind around, and that is how to pick-up girls in highschool, and I'm talking about the highschool as a let's call it venue. The only conclusion I've came to is that girls in highschool tend towards relationships and reject the idea of one night stands or fuckbuddies.

The bolded is complete bullshit. Then again, you're from Romania so it could be a totally different ball game over there. I finished school recently. Here's my take on it.

[Ray]

Yeah, I get your point, but here there aren't so many houseparties, the only game that I found accessible is the night game in bars (girls here kind of skipped the whole house party thing), but most of them ended with numbers.

[Deluge]

(12-01-2012 08:18 AM)Ray Wrote:  

Yeah, I get your point, but here there aren't so many houseparties, the only game that I found accessible is the night game in bars (girls here kind of skipped the whole house party thing), but most of them ended with numbers.

Are there no house parties at all or are you not invited to them? Get invited to them. Be social, make as many friends as possible. Take every extra-curricular opportunity there is to meet new people, guys or girls. Take every opportunity to meet girls from other schools. Join the debating or public speaking club, it will teach you skills that will be invaluable in game. Join a school sports team. I played two sports for my school, it kept me in relative shape and I got to know a lot of different people thanks to it.

Daygame a lot. Daygame university girls and pretend you're older. Go to shopping malls which you know get high school girls and dayame there. Keep hustling. It is hard to build up as much experience in high school that the same length of time would have you given you had you been older, but don't let that stop you.

Get an ID. Do not get a fake one, find somebody who looks like you and pay for them to pretend they lost theirs and get it replaced, then use the original one. Ask the hot girls in your school which bars and clubs they go to underage (a lot of them will), those places will not care (much) that your underage if you have a real ID on you. They never help up and compared my ID to my face at any venue I went to, all they did was check to see if the ID was real.

How long of high school do you have left? The no. 1 aim for you is to set yourself up the best you can for when you finish so you can go out consistently with good logistics and so forth.

[Don]

Salut.

Highschool is a big social circle. What you want to do is gain as much status and respect as you can, this way a lot of girls will open up to you. You should scan for these girls, open, #close, go out on "dates" and escalate. Girls at your age are usually horny and really curious about sex, but expect a lot of resistance, it might take weeks to get a bang, but it's worth it.

When you're in your teens social status means everything. Be popular and fun to be around, and girls will flock to you. They are also very turned on by "bad boys", so i'd always go in with my best asshole game.
One more tip would be to join a gym and learn how to eat. A teenage girl's dream body of a "man"("toned" and with abs) is achievable with 6-8 months of proper training and eating.

[Ray]

Thanks for the advice, just this summer i started bodybuiding and lost the beerbelly. I have one and a half year of highschool left and I want to make the most of it, the only thing that bothers me is that i was awoken a bit to late.

[Ray]

About the asshole game, I tried for a while the badass game, but I was told that I was being someone that I wasn't. Now I changed my attitude a bit, I'm trying to be more like a nice guy who smiles a lot without being beta' instead of being the blased asshole.
I'm at the beginnig of my game and I really appreciate your help guys! Roosh's bang book opened my eyes.

[Deluge]

(12-01-2012 10:57 AM)Ray Wrote:  

Thanks for the advice, just this summer i started bodybuiding and lost the beerbelly. I have one and a half year of highschool left and I want to make the most of it, the only thing that bothers me is that i was awoken a bit to late.

Nahh dude, you're getting in at the perfect time. It's probably better and healthier to have spent most of your adolescent years in "blue pill" thinking unless you were on track to be a socially awkward late bloomer hardcase newbie type.

(12-01-2012 10:41 AM)Don Wrote:  

Salut.

Highschool is a big social circle. What you want to do is gain as much status and respect as you can, this way a lot of girls will open up to you. You should scan for these girls, open, #close, go out on "dates" and escalate. Girls at your age are usually horny and really curious about sex, but expect a lot of resistance, it might take weeks to get a bang, but it's worth it.

When you're in your teens social status means everything. Be popular and fun to be around, and girls will flock to you. They are also very turned on by "bad boys", so i'd always go in with my best asshole game.
One more tip would be to join a gym and learn how to eat. A teenage girl's dream body of a "man"("toned" and with abs) is achievable with 6-8 months of proper training and eating.

As for the high school is a big social circle thing, it is. The problem is that because of it being a massive social circle it becomes one massive friendzone for you. That's why girls at other schools are so much easier because they're out there in infinite numbers and you can make a fresh impression on them.

Being popular and getting "respect" at school is overrated, all that gets you is invites to parties, literally it is only a foot in the door. What you want is to get a reputation for being a player.

(12-01-2012 11:08 AM)Ray Wrote:  

About the asshole game, I tried for a while the badass game, but I was told that I was being someone that I wasn't. Now I changed my attitude a bit, I'm trying to be more like a nice guy who smiles a lot without being beta' instead of being the blased asshole.
I'm at the beginnig of my game and I really appreciate your help guys! Roosh's bang book opened my eyes.

Haha, putting on the asshole persona is something I did too. It actually spilled onto the forum, I even got a temp ban a while back for being a dick to people Don't experiment with crap at school because as you've already noted it starts to alienate people. Don't smile too much though it comes off as weak. Just be a normal, relaxed, bold and confident version of who you already are. Be your best self.

EDIT: Big tip, when you get to your last year, make sure you meet as many girls as you can in the year or two below you.

[Ray]

right now I'm playing the confidence game, and it seems to work.
Any advices on 'flying solo', becouse that's my only option (all my friends are the girlfriend, and ofcourse they want me to make me like them HELL NO!), that or find some player friends.

[Sleek]

Agreed with everything P Dog has put out there, plus realize that this is a time in your life when your going to look back at the girls you could've had a chance with if only you'd put in that extra effort. Make sure by the time high school is complete, you don't leave anything on the table, you went to bat and maybe struck out a few times, but overall had a blast.

In essence, Carpe diem.

[Ray]

(12-01-2012 11:22 AM)P Dog Wrote:  

(12-01-2012 10:57 AM)Ray Wrote:  

Thanks for the advice, just this summer i started bodybuiding and lost the beerbelly. I have one and a half year of highschool left and I want to make the most of it, the only thing that bothers me is that i was awoken a bit to late.

Nahh dude, you're getting in at the perfect time. It's probably better and healthier to have spent most of your adolescent years in "blue pill" thinking unless you were on track to be a socially awkward late bloomer hardcase newbie type.

(12-01-2012 10:41 AM)Don Wrote:  

Salut.

Highschool is a big social circle. What you want to do is gain as much status and respect as you can, this way a lot of girls will open up to you. You should scan for these girls, open, #close, go out on "dates" and escalate. Girls at your age are usually horny and really curious about sex, but expect a lot of resistance, it might take weeks to get a bang, but it's worth it.

When you're in your teens social status means everything. Be popular and fun to be around, and girls will flock to you. They are also very turned on by "bad boys", so i'd always go in with my best asshole game.
One more tip would be to join a gym and learn how to eat. A teenage girl's dream body of a "man"("toned" and with abs) is achievable with 6-8 months of proper training and eating.

As for the high school is a big social circle thing, it is. The problem is that because of it being a massive social circle it becomes one massive friendzone for you. That's why girls at other schools are so much easier because they're out there in infinite numbers and you can make a fresh impression on them.

Being popular and getting "respect" at school is overrated, all that gets you is invites to parties, literally it is only a foot in the door. What you want is to get a reputation for being a player.

(12-01-2012 11:08 AM)Ray Wrote:  

About the asshole game, I tried for a while the badass game, but I was told that I was being someone that I wasn't. Now I changed my attitude a bit, I'm trying to be more like a nice guy who smiles a lot without being beta' instead of being the blased asshole.
I'm at the beginnig of my game and I really appreciate your help guys! Roosh's bang book opened my eyes.

Haha, putting on the asshole persona is something I did too. It actually spilled onto the forum, I even got a temp ban a while back for being a dick to people Don't experiment with crap at school because as you've already noted it starts to alienate people. Don't smile too much though it comes off as weak. Just be a normal, relaxed, bold and confident version of who you already are. Be your best self.

EDIT: Big tip, when you get to your last year, make sure you meet as many girls as you can in the year or two below you.

The thing with thtat is that I have no problem in talking to them but the only place I realised that you can meet girls (at school) is at the smokers during breaks

[Ray]

so, it wouldn't be a bad thing if I would try to game college girls?

[JCsteez]

I'm currently a sophomore in high school, (2 and a half years left) and all I can do is agree with p dog. Getting a reputation for being a player certainly helps. It makes girls curious as to why other girls want you, and soon they all want a piece. To me, either drunk hookups or mini relationships are the ways to get some ass. Talk to them and make it feel like you're in a relationship, just keep escalating until you get the notch. Right now I'm at the disadvantage of being young, but just stay confident, and it will work out for you.

[Ray]

so, my school game is like this:
ramble for a while, invite her after school for drinks, and after that ramble some more and escalate

[Deluge]

(12-01-2012 01:55 PM)Ray Wrote:  

so, my school game is like this:
ramble for a while, invite her after school for drinks, and after that ramble some more and escalate

Couple tips. Make sure you do some light kino towards the later part of the initial approach. I sent this as part of a reply to another high school guys PM.

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try to get your sets to last at least 10 minutes, 15 is the sweet spot. Any less than 10 mins and they are guaranteed to flake.

[Ray]

here is something that crossed my mind. how can you make a girl call you? or that never happens in the players world?

[Deluge]

(12-02-2012 03:00 PM)Ray Wrote:  

here is something that crossed my mind. how can you make a girl call you? or that never happens in the players world?

Young girls don't really initiate calls much unless it's an emergency or some shit. I stick to texting and keep it short, sharp and all about the next meet up or whatever. It is much easier to get shit done in a phone call then through text though. If you have to do a "hard sell" on a girl, call them and work your magic verbally. When you call them though, be sure to keep it short. You'd be surprised how quickly time flies when you're on the phone.

As for flying solo, find a local game forum and find wings there, there should be some younger guys. Another option is the RSDNation forum. I managed to build up a close knit group of wings exactly my age that way.

Ray and Don, why don't you two find out if you live near each other?

[Ray]

So walk me thru this hypotetical situation: walking on the hallway, heavily crowded, girls looks at me smiles and says hi, and I respond in the same way, she keeps walking, how do I stop her ?

[Deluge]

(12-03-2012 07:25 AM)Ray Wrote:  

So walk me thru this hypotetical situation: walking on the hallway, heavily crowded, girls looks at me smiles and says hi, and I respond in the same way, she keeps walking, how do I stop her ?

If you'd kept saying something beyond the initial hi, like "hey, have you seen the new....?" or just tell her to wait up before you start talking about something she'll stop and give you her attention unless she's running late for something. Stopping girls in the hallway at school is really easy, unlike trying to stop a random girl on the street, girls you go to school with will almost always stop.

If it's too crowded to talk to them in the hallway, tell them to walk with you by your locker real quick if it isn't too far away so you can get/put away something. It depends how your school is set up, if you're lucky like I was (or unlucky, if you mind being surrounded by teachers offices) your locker would be in a quiet spot but near a busy common room area.