Here a long story short.
I'll start from the end: few nights ago I banged one of my current best female friends, an 8 in my scale - for some of my friends she is even a 8.5.
During the night, few times she said it had been a bad idea, tried to blame it on alcohol, and said that our friends should know and that we should act as if "this has never happened." To me this sounds typical girls' bullshit. In any case, every time she raised this, I teased her.
I wouldn't mind to repeat (great body) and possibly (and especially) to date her - she is probably one of the smartest girl I have met in years.
Here how things started and why I am not 100% sure of how to deal with this: we became friends when my previous relationship was getting to its end, and this girl became the person I would talk to when at my lowest. She saw me in some very bad days - I am ashamed of how miserable I was.
But she also saw me recovering - during this period I told her about all the girls I was approaching, the telephone numbers I was getting, the make-outs, and the lays I collected. In other words, I have been treating her like if she were a male friend until we had sex.
Lately, she started asking me to go out just the two of us. She never gave any hint she wanted anything more than friendship, but she clearly showed interest - few times she said she needed me as a "wingman", which I interpreted as an indirect suggestion of interest; and when she met interesting guys, she would text me to tell me...
I think we went out just the two of us 3-4 times. Every time we went out, I approached other girls, told her about girls I approached, and/or told her my goal that night was to meet/bang other girls.
My feeling is that she didn't just want to get laid. If she had wanted only that, she could have gone with one of the many guys who approach her every night, not with one of her friends - I might be wrong, obviously, but really?
The problem is that I think she has some issues related to relationships: she often says stuff like she is cold, she doesn't have emotions or other non-sense. The only way I interpreted it is that she use this as a defense mechanism.
So, my idea is to keep things causal as if nothing had happened and teaser her about anything that might come up - I honestly don't see any other way. But maybe some of you have something to suggest - especially about how to contact her (we used to talk like 2/3 times a week before we had sex...), how to behave when I see her, etc.
I'll start from the end: few nights ago I banged one of my current best female friends, an 8 in my scale - for some of my friends she is even a 8.5.
During the night, few times she said it had been a bad idea, tried to blame it on alcohol, and said that our friends should know and that we should act as if "this has never happened." To me this sounds typical girls' bullshit. In any case, every time she raised this, I teased her.
I wouldn't mind to repeat (great body) and possibly (and especially) to date her - she is probably one of the smartest girl I have met in years.
Here how things started and why I am not 100% sure of how to deal with this: we became friends when my previous relationship was getting to its end, and this girl became the person I would talk to when at my lowest. She saw me in some very bad days - I am ashamed of how miserable I was.
But she also saw me recovering - during this period I told her about all the girls I was approaching, the telephone numbers I was getting, the make-outs, and the lays I collected. In other words, I have been treating her like if she were a male friend until we had sex.
Lately, she started asking me to go out just the two of us. She never gave any hint she wanted anything more than friendship, but she clearly showed interest - few times she said she needed me as a "wingman", which I interpreted as an indirect suggestion of interest; and when she met interesting guys, she would text me to tell me...
I think we went out just the two of us 3-4 times. Every time we went out, I approached other girls, told her about girls I approached, and/or told her my goal that night was to meet/bang other girls.
My feeling is that she didn't just want to get laid. If she had wanted only that, she could have gone with one of the many guys who approach her every night, not with one of her friends - I might be wrong, obviously, but really?
The problem is that I think she has some issues related to relationships: she often says stuff like she is cold, she doesn't have emotions or other non-sense. The only way I interpreted it is that she use this as a defense mechanism.
So, my idea is to keep things causal as if nothing had happened and teaser her about anything that might come up - I honestly don't see any other way. But maybe some of you have something to suggest - especially about how to contact her (we used to talk like 2/3 times a week before we had sex...), how to behave when I see her, etc.
