I got with this girl at a house/flat party through merging social circles.
We'd known each other on and off for a couple of years and had flirted casually but it never went anywhere - I was exploring other avenues.
The sex was good. She had a good attitude, a fine body and knew what she was doing. All checks out.
Long story short, I ring her the next day (it was something genuinelly unrelated) and drop in the possiblity of her joining the 'roster' so to speak, although that isn't how I phrased it.
She said that it was the most she'd ever enjoyed it and would want to do it again...but that she'd consult her friends first.
Alarm bells were ringing, and I told her to get back to me.
I see her at school (college, whatever) a few days later and she says she isn't sure, but she might consider it at the next party.
Hey, no sweat. I'd rather be banging her on the regular, but I'm not out on my ass with regards options and thus I leave at that.
Fastforward to this coming Friday, and a shindig we're both invited to is on the cards. Her hot friends are going, but they've unfortunately labelled me 'hers' even though she's indecisive about what she wants.
However, the same night my buddy has the whole 'male bonding over lots of dope in my garage' thing going on, which I very much enjoy. No possibility of a notch, but a guaranteed laugh.
Long-winded story admittedly, but I'm just curious as to what you guys would advise? Turn up at the gash-fest which may or may not prove fruitful, or just shoot the shit with the regulars?
We'd known each other on and off for a couple of years and had flirted casually but it never went anywhere - I was exploring other avenues.
The sex was good. She had a good attitude, a fine body and knew what she was doing. All checks out.
Long story short, I ring her the next day (it was something genuinelly unrelated) and drop in the possiblity of her joining the 'roster' so to speak, although that isn't how I phrased it.
She said that it was the most she'd ever enjoyed it and would want to do it again...but that she'd consult her friends first.
Alarm bells were ringing, and I told her to get back to me.
I see her at school (college, whatever) a few days later and she says she isn't sure, but she might consider it at the next party.
Hey, no sweat. I'd rather be banging her on the regular, but I'm not out on my ass with regards options and thus I leave at that.
Fastforward to this coming Friday, and a shindig we're both invited to is on the cards. Her hot friends are going, but they've unfortunately labelled me 'hers' even though she's indecisive about what she wants.
However, the same night my buddy has the whole 'male bonding over lots of dope in my garage' thing going on, which I very much enjoy. No possibility of a notch, but a guaranteed laugh.
Long-winded story admittedly, but I'm just curious as to what you guys would advise? Turn up at the gash-fest which may or may not prove fruitful, or just shoot the shit with the regulars?
