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10-17-2012, 07:17 AM
"I bet you do this to ALL the girls"
"I bet you take ALL the girls here" etc
I swear I knew how to combat this shit-test back in my PUA days, but it has totally slipped my mind. Last night a girl hit me with this and I just smirked and changed topic.
Later re-framed to me being a 'good catholic boy', and that I was 'saving myself for marriage'. This somewhat saved face, and we both had a laugh.
How would you boys usually deal with this shit-test?
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10-17-2012, 07:38 AM
I used to get that from sluts before I knew enough to suspect them of them sport fucking. It always puzzled me, and at first I thought it had some bearing on me or my actions.
Later it dawned on me that this was just code for "I fuck around a lot so don't take me too seriously".
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10-17-2012, 08:31 AM
"Of course not! Just to every third one."
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10-17-2012, 08:33 AM
You don't beat a shit test with a line, you beat it with the delivery.
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10-17-2012, 08:35 AM
"Ofcourse not ALL of them, only the ones that make the cut" said with a big smirk
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10-17-2012, 09:45 AM
My quick and simple line when girls say things like that.
"Sometimes" with a smile.
Nope.
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10-17-2012, 10:05 AM
I hear that line as meaning "None of the other guys have ever taken me seriously, therefore I doubt you do either".
And when I was considering taking the girl seriously, that means to me that she's subcommunicating
"I'm not prepared to have you take me seriously."
She's setting up the context that the only thing she can believe or wants to believe is the guy being a player. That that's all she's used to, or agrees to go forward with.
At which point any logical answer is pointless. No, I don't! Yes, I do! She's told you she doesn't want to believe you want intimacy, which you can take at face value. She doesn't want intimacy.
All the girls who have ever said that to me have been play-girls with high number counts who pretended to be interested in being girlfriends, but were only players playin.
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10-17-2012, 11:21 AM
"Of course I don't.. I haven't even dated all the girls yet... I've only brought like..."
*appear to be doing complicated mathematics with body language*
"26 girls here so far... Oh wait, 27 now."
*short pause*
"Hang on, should I include you in that count?"
*poker face and let hamster spin for a while*
Agree and amplify would probably work for me, 'cause it matches my personality, but if the sarcastic re-framing works for you, go for it.
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10-17-2012, 01:13 PM
Depends on the girl.
Typical American attention whore: proceed like Architekt says above. Agree and amplify.
Latina: "Only the special ones... " Her: "like who?" "<pause> my mom" <smile>
Russian: "I only bring people here I have genuine connection with." <reach for her hand>
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10-17-2012, 01:44 PM
[smirk/chuckle] and keep talking about something else
or
agree and blow it out of proportions like with sarcasm.. "yeah, ALL of them been here, i mean ALL of them, think of ALL of the countless hords of innocent women before you, total slaughterfest, you're lucky number 15689.. so now you know.. you understand that i have to kill you now"
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10-17-2012, 02:31 PM
I've had girls tell me that in almost any scenario you can imagine:
"I bet you bring all the girls here"
"I bet you do this for all girls" (especially after I play guitar for them)
"Someone's OBVIOUSLY done this before" (had a new bang tell me this the other night, referring to the way I held her against me)
Here's my go-to line, and if I may be so bold I think it's a damn good line. Don't burn it out:
"It's funny, every girl I've been with always says that."
It illicits this reaction that's a mix of shock, eye-rolling, disbelief, immediately followed by severe resentment of the fact that she acknowledges she's with a womanizing, arrogant asshole like myself and that she knows that I know that she's more attracted to me because of it.
"...so I gave her an STD, and she STILL wanted to bang me."
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10-17-2012, 03:11 PM
"Yes I do do this with every girl, in fact I have another one coming in an hour we should hurry this up." In a sarcastic way. That usually does the trick.
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10-17-2012, 05:22 PM
Only the __ ones
Just fill in the blank with some trait of hers. Play it sarcastically if she's a cunt or gets off on verbal jousting. Otherwise, don't tread too heavily. Do just enough to keep the conversation moving without playing into her frame.
Examples:
Only the sweet ones. - said with a grin
Only the young ones. - said with a straight face
Whatever comment you make will be on the back of her mind for the rest of the night.
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10-17-2012, 06:40 PM
"Yep" or "Pretty much". Won't hurt your chances if you dodge it or are honest imo.
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10-17-2012, 07:57 PM
"I take my other girls to a much nicer place."
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10-17-2012, 09:45 PM
"I'm a virgin"
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10-17-2012, 09:49 PM
"What if I told you I once put a cat in a microwave for one second and nothing happened?"
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10-18-2012, 01:37 AM
"Generally yes, but there was one blonde (or brunnete is she is blonde) to whom I didn't."
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10-18-2012, 10:54 AM
i bet you take all the girls here or i bet you do this for all the girls means:
fuck me please
its an opening, its her saying, i want to be one of the girls you fuck(ed)
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"I bet you do this to ALL the girls"
10-18-2012, 05:13 PM
Quote: (10-17-2012 09:45 PM)Gmac Wrote:
"I'm a virgin"
You've just invented disagree and amplify.