[Prophylaxis]

From the 'alpha' thread below,

which would you rather be and WHY.

I would definitely opt for being a woman's man. On the outside they may not appear masculine, but these guys can cold-approach girls, make them laugh and decide to bang them if they wish. They don't need to hide behind a wall of muscle and beers to do what needs to be done. They don't know what the definition of scarcity is, because THEY KNOW girls love him.

We all bash on about 'beta's and feminised pussies in the shell of a man. Yes that are fucking pathetic. BUT conversely in Western Countries particularly, there is a fair bit of over-compensating done to project an image of 'hyper-masculinity', which can come off as in-genuine. Some of the festivals I go to, you can tell these guys have been working out for a year, just so they could take off their shirts. I'm sure they go home and jerk off to their huge pecs in the mirror.

Now a man's man, by default WILL score girls (pro-athlete, big drinker, usually blue-collar worker). But these types of guys ( in my experience) tend to settle early in life, and commit themselves to LTR's with next 7 that comes their way.

Yes the best of both worlds is ideal - but this is a hypothetical 'one or the other'.

[HiFlo]

I rather be Superman.

[brownman]

A ladies man can be a man's man relatively easier than the other way. To put it another way, the only thing that can earn you the greatest gratitude from a guy is to either save their life or get them laid. The latter has a higher chance of being a win-win.

[soup]

You should have called this thread "Sausage Fest or Poosy Paradise"

[Basil Ransom]

Man's Man.

I've met a few guys who prefer the company of women, and well, they're kind of strange. With most girls, after I bust a nut, hanging with a girl is the last thing I want to do. One of my favorite memories from college actually was banging this ho for the second time, telling her to make my bed, and then leaving her alone in my room while I was chilling with my homies downstairs.

Being a 'man's man' doesn't have to mean you guzzle Bud Lite all weekend at your local shitty sports bar, and wear cargo shorts.

[soup]

Where are the hotter girls? That's were you will find me.

The hottest girls are going to leave boonie blue collar world and head for the cities to make a career out of their looks.

[reino341]

A man in her life.

[Deluge]

(10-10-2012 06:15 PM)Prophylaxis Wrote:  

Some of the festivals I go to, you can tell these guys have been working out for a year, just so they could take off their shirts. I'm sure they go home and jerk off to their huge pecs in the mirror.

Stereosonic and Future Music?

[ccurtis189]

Man's man sounds kinda guy if you ask me, especially since a lot of the guys whose very identity revolves around notions of hyper-masculinity come off as closet homos if you ask me.

Think of it this way, the Greeks were men's men, and they were a bunch of faggots.

[MikeCF]

(10-10-2012 06:15 PM)Prophylaxis Wrote:  

WSome of the festivals I go to, you can tell these guys have been working out for a year, just so they could take off their shirts. I'm sure they go home and jerk off to their huge pecs in the mirror.

Sounds more like your fantasy to me.

[WestCoast]

"Now a man's man, by default WILL score girls (pro-athlete, big drinker, usually blue-collar worker). But these types of guys ( in my experience) tend to settle early in life, and commit themselves to LTR's with next 7 that comes their way. "

So the most alpha people in your life get married early to 7's.

Please give us more advice on being a mans man!! <3

[Hades]

Sean Connery is basically both. Why can't you be both?

[Way Cool Jr]

Apart from few friends I usually enjoy the company of women, so I chose the second option.

I've become more dedicated with manliness, but I found many common "manly" hobbies and interests to be annoying.
I'm talking about watching sports on TV with friends (I do it rarely), talking about cars and engines, fishing and hunting.
I also dislike playing team sports in a competitive environment, I'll gladly play beach volley under the sun on a hot day, but there's no way I'm going to play soccer against competitive people or low class blue collar people and risk an injury.

[Prophylaxis]

(10-12-2012 12:31 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  

So the most alpha people in your life get married early to 7's.

Stereotypically masculine ≠ alpha