[t-macs]

Wsssup guys

First time posting here

I've been reading about red pill/ game for some time now( thnks roosh/ch).I have made some approaches and the results have been okay. Some rejections, some good responses etc.

I always put in a lot of effort on appearing confident, the way I sit/ stand, movements etc.
But all of these tend to be of little or no value when there is another guy of higher value present in the same venue.

Eg . I work with a guy who is better looking taller more built than me. And even though I'll have girls coming up to me, my mind fucks me up saying that she would go home with him .
I usually don't give a fuack when I am out, but I work with him and this kinda frustrates me.
Any tips on dealing with insecurities?

( I searched the thread , couldn't find a similar thread)

[WestCoast]

It's just a game. Be happy for him.

Some people are born with looks, money, game, whatever. All you can do is max out yourself.

I know a couple of guys who have more game than me and are better looking than me and more successful. So what! I don't care man its stupid to worry about. Max out your life.

Real men don't get jealous

I know it sounds contradictory, but you effectively need to work on doing everything you can do to better yourself without becoming angry or jealous. People who constantly compare themselves to others get into a shitty mental state.

Don't waste time worrying about shit you can't control! You could have made an approach already!

[EasyMoney]

Looks matter. I know guys who get approached by hot chicks and get quick bangs without running much gate at all to get them. That's life.

However, I know guys with high smv and great looks who do not get as much sex as uglier guys i know with game and swagger for days.

So, in short - Stop thinking about other dudes and just work on yourself. Hit the gym. Wear sharper clothes that fit. Get a good haircut for your face. Read some books. Achieve something. You'll feel more confident about yourself and that will help you in dealing with chicks.

We all have insecurities. That doesn't mean we have to be crippled by them.

[WestCoast]

Correct!

Stop reading start doing, once you're thinking about helping other people get better you'll be well on your path to bein happy.

Ultimate game = happy with your life. It draws everyone in.

(09-07-2012 11:42 AM)EasyMoney Wrote:  

Looks matter. I know guys who get approached by hot chicks and get quick bangs without running much gate at all to get them. That's life.

However, I know guys with high smv and great looks who do not get as much sex as uglier guys i know with game and swagger for days.

So, in short - Stop thinking about other dudes and just work on yourself. Hit the gym. Wear sharper clothes that fit. Get a good haircut for your face. Read some books. Achieve something. You'll feel more confident about yourself and that will help you in dealing with chicks.

We all have insecurities. That doesn't mean we have to be crippled by them.

[t-macs]

That's true guys. Not bein bitter is an important part.

I have been improving myself in all spheres of life. Hitting the gym, putting myself in difficult social situations, getting a job which puts me in vicinity of hot girls.
Guess I'll just say fuck it and move on.
Thanks guys.

Oh and by the way, I've never seen hot girls approach a good looking guy. Sure they'll give him eye contact smile whatever but it's the fat chicks/ old chiks/ trashy chiks that are the most verbal in letting the guy knowhe is hot and shit. (and thwn the guy thinks he is thw shit)It's like a beta complimenting a hot girl front he get go.