Hello
As the title of the thread states, today I was called a mysogynist for the first time, but it wasn't from an old fat ugly lady, it was from my own friend.
He used to be a sort of natural, he's succesful with women and doesn't have to think very much about it, but he's had a girlfriend for about a year now, hadn't fucked any girl (not even his gf, because we're 17 and she's worried about her virginity and stuff), until last weekend when he cheated on her. And well, now he's pretty much a whining beta.
So, earlier this day I told him I wanted to get a gf just for the heck of it, to what he answered that I shouldn't if I wasn't going to love her, I in turn said I wasn't very sure about that, and he said "You see? you're such a mysogynist".
Guys, I don't know why but that really hurt me, I've been called asshole before, no problem, but this time it made me question wether we're being too harsh, probably because it came from someone I consider a friend.
Maybe what happened is that inside me, it's a tiring business to always behave as alpha (what is normally defined as) as possible, while being conscious about it. Maybe it's not natural to do this, maybe being an idiotic moron is my natural state and I should not mess with it. But then, that poses the question, what is better? To be who you were before, in your natural state, or at least what was made of your natural state when you we're being raised, maybe I'm overthinking about life, and in this process I stop being who I really am.
But what is a natural state, if a baby was to be born with no external influences, and only his internal personality was to be expressed, how would it be?
I want to know what do you think about this. Thanks.
As the title of the thread states, today I was called a mysogynist for the first time, but it wasn't from an old fat ugly lady, it was from my own friend.
He used to be a sort of natural, he's succesful with women and doesn't have to think very much about it, but he's had a girlfriend for about a year now, hadn't fucked any girl (not even his gf, because we're 17 and she's worried about her virginity and stuff), until last weekend when he cheated on her. And well, now he's pretty much a whining beta.
So, earlier this day I told him I wanted to get a gf just for the heck of it, to what he answered that I shouldn't if I wasn't going to love her, I in turn said I wasn't very sure about that, and he said "You see? you're such a mysogynist".
Guys, I don't know why but that really hurt me, I've been called asshole before, no problem, but this time it made me question wether we're being too harsh, probably because it came from someone I consider a friend.
Maybe what happened is that inside me, it's a tiring business to always behave as alpha (what is normally defined as) as possible, while being conscious about it. Maybe it's not natural to do this, maybe being an idiotic moron is my natural state and I should not mess with it. But then, that poses the question, what is better? To be who you were before, in your natural state, or at least what was made of your natural state when you we're being raised, maybe I'm overthinking about life, and in this process I stop being who I really am.
But what is a natural state, if a baby was to be born with no external influences, and only his internal personality was to be expressed, how would it be?
I want to know what do you think about this. Thanks.