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answer to "will txt you" or "will try"
06-27-2012, 02:59 AM
Whenever I'm making plans over txt, a lot of times, I won't get a definite yes.
I will get replies like
"ok, will txt you"
or
"will try"
What is a good response to ask the girl to essentially commit to the date.
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answer to "will txt you" or "will try"
06-27-2012, 06:38 AM
Throw yoda at her... "Do or do not, there is no try"
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answer to "will txt you" or "will try"
06-27-2012, 09:27 AM
Reply with "Nvm"
Then go silent.
If she's into you she'll throw an alternative time/date out or her hamster will spin and she'll agree.
If not you've now just saved yourself a metric fuckton of hassel.
Use that time you were looking to hangout with her and pull more numbers.
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answer to "will txt you" or "will try"
06-27-2012, 09:46 AM
Don't do 'Nvm'
Just don't text. Don't even dignify that sort of thing with a response. Move onto the next girl.
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answer to "will txt you" or "will try"
06-27-2012, 10:55 AM
Girls are big on being non-comittal and "keeping their options open." Cute girls are used to being in demand, and they know men want them around. They'll sit around and wait from the best option to arise, and do that. When you get that wishy-washy answer, I personally don't reply to it. I just let it hang out there.
"The best kind of pride is that which compels a man to do his best when no one is watching."
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answer to "will txt you" or "will try"
06-27-2012, 06:16 PM
JUST STOP TEXTING CHICKS MAN
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answer to "will txt you" or "will try"
06-27-2012, 07:32 PM
This dude again? Jesus. I really hope you're a
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answer to "will txt you" or "will try"
06-27-2012, 07:50 PM
seriously what is with the paranoia in this community, I can't ask a question on the forum without getting piled on with comments that have nothing to do with the question.
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06-27-2012, 10:34 PM
I do what has worked for me in the past.
If my method hasn't worked for you in the past then let it be.
"There are many ways to skin a cat"
My game revolves around not wasting my time trying to convince girls to meet up, or playing some cat and mouse game over text.
Build the comfort high enough when you get the number so that when you go ask her out she gives a direct yes. Then it's all downhill from there.
This means approaching not pulling numbers through online non-sense.
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answer to "will txt you" or "will try"
06-28-2012, 02:24 AM
I agree with the guys above, I wouldn't even reply. If she sends a texts sayin the she can't make it, I'd say
Me: "??"
Her: the plans we had, I can't make it, sorry.
Me: oh, I already made other plans. Guess it worked out. Cool.
That shows that you didn't wait for her and that you have other stuff lined up. Pretty sure next time you'll get a direct answer.
One time I asked this girl if she was still on campus because I wanted to hang out. Lol it went like this
Me: yo are you still on campus?
Her: uhh no, just leaving now. Why?
Me: don't worry about it. Its all good.
Five mins later.
Her: hey I'm coming back.
Later she told me she was so curious about what I wanted that she had to turn her car around when she was almost home, lol and her classes were done for the day. Act like your giving them the opportunity to hang out with you, and they can't refuse. They might even break other plans they had. Plus if you say its all good insted of saying what you wanted, the curiosity might be enough to get them. Looking back, maybe that "why?" Was my chance to prove myself or validate her, but its all good, chicks always come around. Just do your own thing a be cool.