[muzrub77]

when i say rejections I mean that girls are not interested. today i made 5 aprroaches and all of them went nowhere. There were still girls to approach but i lost my motivation. Called it a day.

[Amour Fou]

I follow Roosh's standard and count up to 10 on a nightout when I'm really focused.

Just be sure to milk every interaction as much as possible and don't be shy to re-open later on -> something I myself need to be reminded regularly.

[soup]

(04-28-2012 08:59 AM)muzrub77 Wrote:  

when i say rejections I mean that girls are not interested. today i made 5 aprroaches and all of them went nowhere. There were still girls to approach but i lost my motivation. Called it a day.

Curious- how do you define rejection? Did the girls walk away, or did they just seem uninterested?

If it's the latter, than you might have been ejecting too soon.

Also, unless you look like the Hunchback of Notre Dame, understand that they aren't rejecting you, they are rejecting bad game.

Why don't you breakdown some of the approaches here and then we can give you specific feedback?

[muzrub77]

(04-28-2012 09:10 AM)soup Wrote:  

(04-28-2012 08:59 AM)muzrub77 Wrote:  

when i say rejections I mean that girls are not interested. today i made 5 aprroaches and all of them went nowhere. There were still girls to approach but i lost my motivation. Called it a day.

Curious- how do you define rejection? Did the girls walk away, or did they just seem uninterested?

If it's the latter, than you might have been ejecting too soon.

Also, unless you look like the Hunchback of Notre Dame, understand that they aren't rejecting you, they are rejecting bad game.

Why don't you breakdown some of the approaches here and then we can give you specific feedback?

First of all i forgot to add that all those approaches were from daygame.
Please notice that I put word “rejection” in quotes and I mean “girls not interested” and walking away etc. ( see below)

Two examples.

1. was in clothes store in woman’s section Girl was checking some stuff and I threw some generic observation:

Me: good choice. perfect for the spring time (pointing at the item she was checking)
Her: yeah
Me” I like you having those hunter eyes when checking the clothes.
Her: hah, really? I am not hunting now, just looking around while waiting for somebody.
Me: just like me. I am waiting for my friends but they late. But you caught my eye and I thought “wow she has a class. Why not to her.”
Her: haha, that’s nice
Me: have you met a guy in a women clothes section before?
Her: no
Me: there is always a first time ( stick my hand and exchange names)
Her: ok, it was nice to meet you but I need to go, my bf is waiting ( walking away)
Me: ok, bye

2. A girl walking in the street. I caught up with her and asked her about direction. She had a earphones and didn’t hear me so I had actually tap on her shoulder to stop her. She was very nice and although not very helpful in explaining my fake question though Anyway, once I tried to make a transition and go to more personal level she started to walk away.

Me: hey, where is street x?
Her: well, I am not sure, but it heard name, mmm
Me: that must be some secret place as nobody knows where it is
Her: no, there is somewhere in those area actually, but I am not sure where exactly
Me: so you are not from area either?
Her: I am but you know there are some backstreets overhear
Me: you know what? You remind me of my female friend from yoga class
Her: oh, I have never taken yoga class
Me: what do you do to stay in shape then?
Her: I ride a bike ( at this point she walks away without a word)

I didn’t mind to chase her.



So that weren’t some hard rejections in the strict sense but still; girls weren’t interested.
I can add the I was very relaxed and confident with almost zero approach anxiety.

Well, approaching 5 girls and getting nowhere is not encouraging . So I called it a day.
Maybe it’s because of my weak game. Or maybe that’s how it is sometimes. Anyway it makes you feel like nobody like you for a while

[Moma]

If I am in a spot where there are lots of lizards that I am attracted to, I open EVERY single one until I have exhausted ALL leads.

Then I call it a day.

One night, I was shut down 29 times (yes, I was counting). I felt vicious and aggressive and finally, on number 30, I got a kiss close.

I love nights like that. They build us up.

[pitt]

Your game doesnt sound bad at all, i have seen worse on the newbie forum.

Approaching 5 girls and then give up, doesnt mean anything. I usually approach all hot chicks that i see in the streets and nine out of 10 times i always get the number.

Remember one thing, there is not counting how many rejections you are taking, just keep on approaching as many girls as you can.

The reason why i lost fear about approaching girls and being rejected is because i started talking to all types of women. Name it, old women, fatties, nerd chicks, model looking chicks, ghetto chicks, rock n roll chicks, female tourists, etc. I was just approaching all types of females and was i rejected? YES, many times but my positive vibe would make me get nice rejections most of the time. Just act like you are having fun and girls will be giving you fun back, enjoy rejection, the more you get rejected, the more you are likely to be fucking, all guys that i have met and told me they have never been rejected or they can count on one hand the times they have been rejected, i guarantee you, they havent fucked much.

Improve the way you dress, be happy at all times, be crazy, dont give a fuck, exercise everyday, travel to new and easier destinations and enjoy rejections, think to yourself, ''how can she reject me? This bitch must be faking it''. Be confident as fuck.

[Giovonny]

I don't call it a day until the sun goes down, no matter how many rejections I've gotten. I could be 5 or 500

[muzrub77]

Thank you guys. I feel beter now Ready to fight to again. Saturdays night begins...

[Gmac]

"How many "rejections" in row before you call it a day?"

The bars are all closed and there are no more women on the street.

[Veloce]

(04-28-2012 12:51 PM)muzrub77 Wrote:  

(04-28-2012 09:10 AM)soup Wrote:  

(04-28-2012 08:59 AM)muzrub77 Wrote:  

when i say rejections I mean that girls are not interested. today i made 5 aprroaches and all of them went nowhere. There were still girls to approach but i lost my motivation. Called it a day.

Curious- how do you define rejection? Did the girls walk away, or did they just seem uninterested?

If it's the latter, than you might have been ejecting too soon.

Also, unless you look like the Hunchback of Notre Dame, understand that they aren't rejecting you, they are rejecting bad game.

Why don't you breakdown some of the approaches here and then we can give you specific feedback?

First of all i forgot to add that all those approaches were from daygame.
Please notice that I put word “rejection” in quotes and I mean “girls not interested” and walking away etc. ( see below)

Two examples.

1. was in clothes store in woman’s section Girl was checking some stuff and I threw some generic observation:

Me: good choice. perfect for the spring time (pointing at the item she was checking)
Her: yeah
Me” I like you having those hunter eyes when checking the clothes.
Her: hah, really? I am not hunting now, just looking around while waiting for somebody.
Me: just like me. I am waiting for my friends but they late. But you caught my eye and I thought “wow she has a class. Why not to her.”
Her: haha, that’s nice
Me: have you met a guy in a women clothes section before?
Her: no
Me: there is always a first time ( stick my hand and exchange names)
Her: ok, it was nice to meet you but I need to go, my bf is waiting ( walking away)
Me: ok, bye

2. A girl walking in the street. I caught up with her and asked her about direction. She had a earphones and didn’t hear me so I had actually tap on her shoulder to stop her. She was very nice and although not very helpful in explaining my fake question though Anyway, once I tried to make a transition and go to more personal level she started to walk away.

Me: hey, where is street x?
Her: well, I am not sure, but it heard name, mmm
Me: that must be some secret place as nobody knows where it is
Her: no, there is somewhere in those area actually, but I am not sure where exactly
Me: so you are not from area either?
Her: I am but you know there are some backstreets overhear
Me: you know what? You remind me of my female friend from yoga class
Her: oh, I have never taken yoga class
Me: what do you do to stay in shape then?
Her: I ride a bike ( at this point she walks away without a word)

I didn’t mind to chase her.



So that weren’t some hard rejections in the strict sense but still; girls weren’t interested.
I can add the I was very relaxed and confident with almost zero approach anxiety.

Well, approaching 5 girls and getting nowhere is not encouraging . So I called it a day.
Maybe it’s because of my weak game. Or maybe that’s how it is sometimes. Anyway it makes you feel like nobody like you for a while

Your day game sounds decent, I'd say the first scenario was a little too direct. I've tried the "Have you met a guy doing -blank- before? No? Well there's a first time for everything." Never had it succeed.

Don't be too hard on yourself. Street approaches are hard, i've never pulled from a street approach and I've tried plenty.

I stop approaching when I feel like it. If my core has been shaken a little and I can't recover, I won't beat a dead horse. Sometimes I've got 3 approaches in me, sometimes 20.

[muzrub77]

Daygame approaches pay off, even if you talk to 5 girls in row and they walk away as if you were a leper. It makes you nightgame way stronger. I pulled a cute chick tonight and brought her to my to my place

[Seduction Sutra]

(04-28-2012 06:28 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

"How many "rejections" in row before you call it a day?"

The bars are all closed and there are no more hot women on the street.

This. Fixed that for you.

[Roosh]

10 approaches minimum. True soldiers do what Gmac said.

But if you get 3 *blowouts* in a row you should change venues..

http://www.rooshv.com/the-3-blowout-rule